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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:05:34

No Raj its not a tough one - just dont get involved - it will backfire in some way.

Besides how would you explain to your friend how you know that she is a WG?????

If you havent been invited into someones private affairs then what makes anyone think that they have a RIGHT to interfere...?

Why cause hurt and pain? Isnt there enough of that in the world already?

Be a supportive friend if/when he finds out - thats all one should do.

Mwah xxx
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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:07:52

@Rajpotions you see the problem. She might not know me but others will. And I don't know if I know her friends.

@Victoria like I said, she is in good hands.

But as it stands I might gain a friend or perhaps end up without a very good one....
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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:25:10

Its a crappy situation, the reality is that you don't know what the full disclosure is between them. This is one of the case where when you don't have all the facts you can't decide on what action to take.

I don't agree with this face pics nonsense it's totally beside the point you could have easily visited the lady in question and identified her. Maybe he visited her and asked her out, The reality is you don't know and until you do you cannot say anything. You can only hope they have an understanding and if he doesn't know and finds out, feign ignorance and support your friend whether it goes well or not.
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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:43:27

If she shows her face there is a good chance he knows.....or could he have paid her to play the role of girlfriend perhaps?
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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:44:12

@flyingwild as you are not in our position you could never understand the risks involved showing our faces....Please don't state "face pics nonsense it's totally besides the point...." yes 1Drake1 could've booked her but he may never have....as someone not in our position, to protect our identities to protect our families, is more important than the whole world seeing we work as escorts because sadly there is still a strong stigma attached to this work that a man will never understand. I'm not stating this to pick a fight....sometimes it would be nice for others to walk in our shoes to gain a better understanding of the many challenges we face before stating the choices we make are nonsense.
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Posted: 2018-01-09 16:55:14

When you date someone, the only "whom" you should care about is the lady. I don't think there is anything wrong with dating a WG, assuming that there are qualities you like about her.

Your "occupation" does not define who you are as a person.

The golden rule "do not interfere with who your friends choose to date, and should their girlfriends or boyfriends make you feel uncomfortable, consider it YOUR problem.

Let it be, the situation will sort itself out.

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Posted: 2018-01-09 17:02:32

On 2018-01-09 16:43:27 Bbw Nadia said:
If she shows her face there is a good chance he knows.....or could he have paid her to play the role of girlfriend perhaps?



Agree 100%. Either of the options are very likely. Id be very surprised if he doesnt know. The real revelation here is that your friend is a fellow punter.
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Posted: 2018-01-09 17:04:58

What are you afraid of? Are you his friend or not? Regardless of the job or not, if she is hiding things from him which means she is not a trustworthy person for your friend to spend eternity with. Tell him. Doing the right thing is hard. And as a friend, yes, it is your place. It's just information, hard facts.

If one of my friends knew I was dating a prostitute and didn't tell me or check and see if I knew about it, I wouldd be pretty pissed off at them.
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Posted: 2018-01-09 17:06:30

Imo the answer is really a no-brainer. Keep your lips sealed and let them be... give them a chance at happiness and love.

The onus is on the lady in question to tell her partner that she is in the industry, that is if he doesn't already know. If you spill the beans to your friend, you run the risk of ruining your friendship and/or their relationship. Ditto if you approach the lady in question and tell her that you know what she does for a living.

One should always stay neutral and never interfere in the relationships of family or friends. It is not your relationship, it is theirs and as such it is up to them to deal with any issues that may arise and may have an impact on their relationship now and in the future.
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Posted: 2018-01-09 17:11:44

On 2018-01-09 16:43:27 Bbw Nadia said:
If she shows her face there is a good chance he knows.....or could he have paid her to play the role of girlfriend perhaps?



Spot on Nadia!

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