Morning gents, and ladies.

I have a question that has me confused.....

Lately I have getting lots of requests for massage with GFE.

Can anyone kindly explain how that works? As For I know a GFE is included in a FH session.

Correct me if I am wrong, but GFE to me is Kissing, Cuddling, Caressing, Oral to me, Foreplay, Intimate touching etc.

How does one expect that in a massage session? Then it is not massage only anymore.

xxxx
Vivian Lee

Massage only to me means ... massage with sensual touching in between by the lady, some body sliding, some mutual touching during the sensual part and a hand relief at the end. It may be different from lady to lady but I think that it the norm.

Anything more may be a bonus if she wants some kissing, cuddling, ect !!!

Many, if not most MGs include kissing....

On 2018-01-15 09:42:14 Vivian Lee said:
Morning gents, and ladies.

I have a question that has me confused.....

Lately I have getting lots of requests for massage with GFE.

Can anyone kindly explain how that works? As For I know a GFE is included in a FH session.

Correct me if I am wrong, but GFE to me is Kissing, Cuddling, Caressing, Oral to me, Foreplay, Intimate touching etc.



xxxx
Vivian Lee

Agree 100%.
A GFE is more given in a FH booking.
A true GFE is me phoning you... telling you about my day, and things needs to be fixed or dating How does one expect that in a massage session? Then it is not massage only anymore?
Rather advertise as a FH girl if you do offer ekstra services.

On 2018-01-15 12:19:03 Mxxx said:
Many, if not most MGs include kissing....

Something I would also like to know.... Could you perhaps tell me how this works @Mxxx? Does said MG massage a leg, then kiss you? Massage the other leg, then kiss some more and so on? Or does the kissing happen with the body2body slide? Please excuse me, as I don't know how this could work? I, as a massage therapist, give my full attention on the massage, and on improving circulation with different massage techniques.
To me, if a massage provider does a girlfriend experience, she is not a MG anymore, but is then moving toward full house, which a WG provides. Then another thing I would also like to know, how can a client ask to cum twice or more in an hour massage session? If one gives fullbody massage, and if you do it in a professional manner, a massage can take up to 50 minutes, leaving about 10 minutes for a "happy" ending.... How do you calculate having two or more orgasms in that time? Unless you book a 90 min or 2 hour massage session, that could very well happen. Unless you go to a lady which provides the "rub and tug" experience, then I would say, that could be the case of maybe having more than one orgasm. But to me....a MG that offers a girlfriend experience is not a MG anymore...but a WG. Sorry if I am wrong, but to me a massage session is a massage... Not a kissing and cuddling session

From my perspective - and maybe i am wrong - the difference is mostly that a MG does not (normally) offer bj and FH. Everything else is pretty similar.

I do not quite understand why there is this expectation that a MG sticks to "massage only" with maybe a "happy ending" which apparently will happen without a natural progress to the ending during the booking!? MGs are afterall advertising on ESA - not some professional massage website!?

Therein lies the conundrum! Because the services of mg's vary so much from a massage with perhaps a body slide and happy ending on one side to that plus kissing and cuddling and mutual play and oral on her on the other side. It makes it difficult when one sees a new lady as to what to expect and one doesn't ask in advance to try and avoid any potential discomfort! What do you ladies prefer that we be explicit upfront in our expectations or just wait and see how the flow of the session goes?

On 2018-01-15 14:32:50 Mxxx said:
From my perspective - and maybe i am wrong - the difference is mostly that a MG does not (normally) offer bj and FH. Everything else is pretty similar.

I do not quite understand why there is this expectation that a MG sticks to "massage only" with maybe a "happy ending" which apparently will happen without a natural progress to the ending during the booking!? MGs are afterall advertising on ESA - not some professional massage website!?

With this said... there's going to be a lot of changes with ladies that offers Massages.
You need to provide a 3 year certificate as a qualified masseuse.

All my Massages ends with a happy ending.

Wonder how clients convince ladies to do more if she isn't comfortable with a client.

But yes to each it's own.

I WILL stick to my rules.

Geez! And here I thought massage was just massage!!

GFE relevant to FH only if you ask me, but then again different strokes for different folks.

xXx

On 2018-01-15 14:41:55 Fire said:
Geez! And here I thought massage was just massage!!

GFE relevant to FH only if you ask me, but then again different strokes for different folks.

xXx

I agree....I may be wrong but this is my opinion....many of the calls I receive are guys trying to push our boundaries....I'm not sure why....but as my ad states I don't offer a GFE, it freaks me out too much who else I would be kissing....and where their mouths have been before....