Perhaps guys should think about why we often turn to drugs in this industry! We are all a product of our environment and the people we encounter to some degree and of course how we are treated by other people as women says a hell of a lot.....we don't all have the strength to withstand so much as human beings. That is why I'm always on about the way we all behave and the things we do to ourselves and others in this industry! I come across as harsh, but it's the reality....yes we make our own choices, but we are also breakable and our behavior becomes self destructive when we have no sense of self value after being shown and told we worth nothing! Only the exceptionally strong can withstand it without faltering at all! I have personally known, maybe 2 in my years in this industry!

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@Veronica
I've been punting for many years and met many ladies in this industry.
Every women I've met, I treat with respect, always.
If they treat me badly, so be it, I don't make a scene, I just keep away.

There are a few exceptions hun....but we often speak of the mentality of the general public to what we are....clients and the ladies that work in this industry are all part of that general public. Then you encounter clients wanting more and more for nothing....massage girls become borderline, if not full wgs and wgs go from what they know to the bizarre and sometimes dangerous to compete or deliver in this industry to make money. I don't expect anything to change because its always been the same. People judge us when we are murdered as if we deserved it. I was even part of a judgmental majority once upon a time.....Watching television, mostly the crime channels and cop shows, we always get it first and we are often just referred to as sex workers or prostitutes. we as people never matter because we asked for it if we are even in this industry to begin with.

On 2018-01-17 19:20:58 Veronica Franco said:
Perhaps guys should think about why we often turn to drugs in this industry! We are all a product of our environment and the people we encounter to some degree and of course how we are treated by other people as women says a hell of a lot.....we don't all have the strength to withstand so much as human beings. That is why I'm always on about the way we all behave and the things we do to ourselves and others in this industry! I come across as harsh, but it's the reality....yes we make our own choices, but we are also breakable and our behavior becomes self destructive when we have no sense of self value after being shown and told we worth nothing! Only the exceptionally strong can withstand it without faltering at all! I have personally known, maybe 2 in my years in this industry!

Guys read that post it will cost you absolutely nothing to be respectful to these ladies if you sit and listen to their stories you will be shocked. I actually had a few very very personal friends in this industry and continue to respect them no matter what.
I do believe we are no different the only thing separating us is that we pay they collect sex is still the order of the day.

On the end of the day you have to make a choice, yes all of us lovely women have a reason for doing what we are doing. We do have the right to say yes or NO, you can bring a horse to the water, but you can't make the horse drink water. I know there's bad people out there,I was eighteen years old. The club send me on a outbooking, the driver was supposed to go in with me, he didn't. When I got inside there were six men waiting for me. No need to explain what happens next. We are still strong no matter what. Treat people the way you would like to be treated.

Sorry my english bietjie bad.

Don't worry Lizaan, we get what you saying...thats all that matters.

On 2018-01-17 23:45:54 Lizaan said:
Sorry my english bietjie bad.

"Be yourself. Everyone else is taken" ~ Oscar Wilde

Lizaan, no need for apologies being yourself. You have expressed yourself perfectly in your own way, venting hurt from the past. That is what counts, not the language!

On 2018-01-17 19:20:58 Veronica Franco said:
Perhaps guys should think about why we often turn to drugs in this industry! We are all a product of our environment and the people we encounter to some degree and of course how we are treated by other people as women says a hell of a lot.....we don't all have the strength to withstand so much as human beings. That is why I'm always on about the way we all behave and the things we do to ourselves and others in this industry! I come across as harsh, but it's the reality....yes we make our own choices, but we are also breakable and our behavior becomes self destructive when we have no sense of self value after being shown and told we worth nothing! Only the exceptionally strong can withstand it without faltering at all! I have personally known, maybe 2 in my years in this industry!

Yes Miss Vee. I've also seen this over the now 11/12 years of punting myself. Many a pretty bubbly gal starts in this biz and end up with drugs or alcohol issues, many losing the sparkle in their eyes. This is what this business does.

Unfortunately there are many assholes among the punter community. Some of the hectic stories I've heard from WGS are of the MMA guy who was trying to rape WGs, there was that karate instructor guy also stalking and raping, and the security company boss guy also breaking down, manipulating and intimidating WGs. And this just tip of the iceberg of the many stories I've been told and pics shown.

We like to glamorise this biz and the powers that be are complicit in this. But end of the day it is a sordid business.