Help a newbie here:-

1. If I book for an hour, when does the hour start and end: upon walking through the door, after the first shower, 15mins before the 2nd shower? Please explain.

2. Do I tip? Is it expected? Why do the girls even ask for it- cant they just include the amount in their rate? What's the tipping rate 10%, 15%, 20%, other? Do you always tip?

3. How the blazers do you guys get erections at the drop of a hat!? I need the mandatory foreplay dammit- dropping my broeks doesn't just give me a stiffy :)

4. What are 'extras' every talks about? What fun am I missing here?

Thanks again.

This is how i understand it......
1. The moment you walk into the 'venue', your first minute starts. 10 minutes before the hour is up, ypu have to shower and get dressed before your 'time' is up.
2. A tip is not a 'given'. Its merely a 'bonus'. If her service was extra ordanary, please tip! No need to break your head about percentages. Give a good tip! (10 or 20 or 50 bucks is NOT a good tip)
3. No idea!!!
4. Each girl has her own clasification on whats 'extras'. Ask her and find out.

I'm pretty new at this game but here's my 5c worth.
1.Ive never had a time problem. The girls seem to have a sixth sense and are within 10% accurate. The time starts as you walk in the door as far as I know.
2. I do not tip. The price is the price. I also dont tip PicknPay checkouts.
3. I need the massage and or the foreplay, I can't put a marshmallow in a moneybox!
4. Extras can include a lot of things, eg a WG I know adds R300 for greek, R200 for oral without.

Times starts when you walk in. Some guys take half an hour to chitchat and then wanna go shower for 15 mins and then expect an hour to start after that. Going over time isn't really an issue but some guys wanna push the boundaries

Also, respect the limits. If she tells you she doesnt kiss, dont try and lick her tonsils. If she asks you not to finger her, dont try to wear her as a hand puppet. When you respect the limits, you will find the girl is alot friendlier and accomodating because her guard doesnt have to be up.

Showering is a must and you might feel begrudged that its in your 'session' time but some gents really can take ages and the girl will be charged extra by the venue for the overtime. Which will come out of her cut.

Extras should rather be discussed over the phone privately or in person. Girls generally dont include it in the price because of venue rules or because they may be selective on who they want to partake the extras with.

Enjoy and happy punting.

On 2018-02-09 17:04:07 Kitty said:
but some gents really can take ages

Ok I'm guilty here- sorry everyone!



But maybe theres room to develop this grey-area: internationally the total time is well defined, with the clock time being made aware to the client when the massage begins. This is after the rigmarole of a valuables put into lockers, a chaperoned shower, a butler to help you dress into a toweled robe, then a light snack in a private lounge thats wifi equipped. Then when you led into the actual room with the lady that you chose earlier, she politely shows you the clock, and begins the 60 min or 90 min session. When done, back for a chaperoned shower, locker, payment. So the time with the lady is never under dispute, but the total time can be in region of 2 hours.

Not exactly a quickie, and probably will not work in a one-lady show. But at a high end venue with a receptionist/owner/mamasan looking over the general running of the system, the results are possible, leading to more smiles from the gents...

On 2018-02-09 12:06:45 DropKick said:


3. How the blazers do you guys get erections at the drop of a hat!? I need the mandatory foreplay dammit- dropping my broeks doesn't just give me a stiffy :)

About 96% of all my punts, even with ladies I've seen numerous times, my dick is rock hard as soon as I step into the room. I'm a horny maadhir, that's why I punt.

@dropkick
Not sure if your post is satire, or serious.
As for point number 4.
What are the "extras"?
The extras are you will get a free discussion about politics, economics, history and geography, if you are fortunate.

1. What I do is book for hour and half that's plenty of time so no rushing, it costs more but works out better for both parties involved

2. I have being doing this since 2005 and I have not tip once

3. Don't stress yourself about getting a hard-on the girls are professional, unless she's new to the industry

4. Phone and ask what she offers

Time starts when you close the door behind you in the room.
Going over your time isn't a big issue as long as you don't take advantage of the situation by staying 90min when you've booked for 60min. Perhaps also something to confirm when making an appointment, as this does differ from venue to venue and from lady to lady.

Tips are appreciated- but Never expected!

As Mike hock says ... don't worry about the erection - that's why the gorgeous lasses are on ESA in the first place - they're professional and know what to do..;)

As for services and extras - call the lady of interest and confirm with her what she does or does not offer. Don't be embarrassed to express your desires and expectations and ask specific questions if it could make or break a session for you ( just don't be silly and ask for bareback etc...) In my opinion it's always better to know what boundaries are set in advance in order to avoid disappointment. Discussions with the ladies also allow the ladies insight into your expectations, allowing them to prepare and accommodate you to the best of their abilities and within reason.

Read profiles!! Some ladies do stipulate whether FH is on offer or not as well as other services catered for or not catered for. If nothing is specified, ask, but don't ask a lady if she offers greek if her profile says she does not.


S...xxx