More importantly 'You are never responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you....' Don't hate her for it, it just isn't your path accept it and let it go.

On 2018-03-11 18:11:03 Pruveooo said:
More importantly 'You are never responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you....' Don't hate her for it, it just isn't your path accept it and let it go.

Well said!

On 2018-03-11 18:11:03 Pruveooo said:
More importantly 'You are never responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you....' Don't hate her for it, it just isn't your path accept it and let it go.

Very wise words Pruveooo !!!

Lots of good advice being given....,,

For your reference lil-d

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

Bro I feel you. It's a lose lose lose situation. Only time will help you forget and overcome those odds. Just work hard at it and you'll eventually learn to live without her. Good luck.

You should never allow yourself to be somebody else's second choice. From what you tell us in your post, it sounds as if you will be her second choice.

Find somebody who WANTS to be with you as much as what you want to be with them.

You have an obsession, not a love triangle

On 2018-03-11 19:36:42 johndoe69za said:
You have an obsession, not a love triangle

I am inclined to agree with this are you not mixing up your feelings of love with feelings of wanting to assist someone

Go speak to a shrink it help me a lot to get over a woman. Still think of her a lot but the pain is not there or the anxiety and not knowing what to do next is gone

I have made peace with the situation

Like many have said (& many out of similar type of experiences), walk away. It will be hard, but it gets better. In time (like a year or so), you will see why it was the right thing to do.

Been there got the t-shirt. A lovely, very popular girl also played me BIG time. I was a new punter and believed so many of the things she initially told me. Once she build up a large client base (it took a while before she was popular), she threw me away. Treated me like i am disgusting piece of shit. Despite that, i still sometimes crave her - the most and best sex i ever had.

But today i can see the bad news she is/was. The lies, the deception, always denying everything when confronted with the truth. Truly bad news. And still today see guys being catrolled in by her in very similar ways.
Glad that is past me - but feeling for her new victims. But hey, thats life. Hopefully other punters are more streetwise than i was.