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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 21:28:20
Edited: 2018-03-11 21:31:17
Mxxx .. seems like we could have been twins .. lol !!!
Edited: 2018-03-11 21:31:17
On 2018-03-11 21:02:35 Mxxx said:
A lovely, very popular girl also played me BIG time. Once she build up a large client base, she threw me away. Despite that, i still sometimes crave her - best sex i ever had.
Mxxx .. seems like we could have been twins .. lol !!!
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 21:44:02
@lil_d: I didn't want to derail your thread, so I wrote some thoughts in a separate post. Link below
www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php
www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 21:55:17
Edited: 2018-03-11 21:57:06
Edited: 2018-03-11 21:57:06
Simple... Why make someone a PRIORITY in your life? If you are only an OPTION in theirs?
A lesson I am still learning.
Arz
A lesson I am still learning.
Arz
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 22:09:40
In a nutshell Arizona, you have just summed it up!!
Take note gentlemen!!
On 2018-03-11 21:55:17 Arizona said:
Simple... Why make someone a PRIORITY in your life? If you are only an OPTION in theirs?
A lesson I am still learning.
Arz
In a nutshell Arizona, you have just summed it up!!
Take note gentlemen!!
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 22:12:51
Get the fuck out ! Simple !
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-11 22:31:32
run forrest run
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-12 04:12:03
That is SO true miss Arz! So true indeed!
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-12 06:54:32
Firstly why should she confess in having someone in her personal life?
To her this is a job.
Gentleman dont want to understand that our whole lives don't just revolves around our jobs.
We do what we have to to survive.
My honest opinion, if her intentions is pure regarding you... it won't hurt to ask if there could be something more.
But I'm my opinion, don't let your dick guide you in thinking you have more in common the money (her) and your needs.....
Sorry for the cold reality... but if she met you in this industry...she won't trust you in the long run.
Once a punter, always a punter.
To her this is a job.
Gentleman dont want to understand that our whole lives don't just revolves around our jobs.
We do what we have to to survive.
My honest opinion, if her intentions is pure regarding you... it won't hurt to ask if there could be something more.
But I'm my opinion, don't let your dick guide you in thinking you have more in common the money (her) and your needs.....
Sorry for the cold reality... but if she met you in this industry...she won't trust you in the long run.
Once a punter, always a punter.
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-12 08:01:24
"Once a whore always a whore".
I am in complete disagreement with this. There are people on both sides (SP and Punters), that have left this industry and never looked back.
Don't generalise if you have trust related issuses.
On 2018-03-12 06:54:32 Meg said:
Once a punter, always a punter.
"Once a whore always a whore".
I am in complete disagreement with this. There are people on both sides (SP and Punters), that have left this industry and never looked back.
Don't generalise if you have trust related issuses.
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Re: Love Triangle Nightmare Came True
Posted: 2018-03-12 08:21:57
I started writing a long essay on this thread, but the bottom line is exactly what Oupa Jack and so many others have said.
Get out now while you still can.
It will take every ounce of strength you have, but in the long run you will know it was the right choice.
On 2018-03-11 22:31:32 OupaJack said:
run forrest run
I started writing a long essay on this thread, but the bottom line is exactly what Oupa Jack and so many others have said.
Get out now while you still can.
It will take every ounce of strength you have, but in the long run you will know it was the right choice.
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