On 2018-03-12 08:01:24 Yewrev1 said:
On 2018-03-12 06:54:32 Meg said:

Once a punter, always a punter.



"Once a whore always a whore".

I am in complete disagreement with this. There are people on both sides (SP and Punters), that have left this industry and never looked back.

Don't generalise if you have trust related issuses.

I'm quoting the standard saying of 90 % of men on ESA.
I'm i generalizing...No I'm not.
We all have trust issues, some are just more open to our opinions then others.
Don't you think we want to believe there's a beta life out there for everyone?
No SIR it's not generalizing... its statistic realistic to fall back into something you know.
We call that human behavior.

GreyKnight, your post on the "Brain Fucked" threat re the unceremonial removal of your heart through the back door, can also be construed as advise here!

On 2018-03-12 08:21:57 GreyKnight said:
On 2018-03-11 22:31:32 OupaJack said: run forrest run

It will take every ounce of strength you have, but in the long run you will know it was the right choice.

Can't agree more.

It hurts like hell.
Yes I fell head over hills for a client in this industry years ago.
They don't trust you, you dont trust them....unless you have a open relationship.
Its a mess it's all im saying.

So true Meg! It takes two to tango! However, while it lasts, it can be quite exhilarating!

On 2018-03-12 08:40:22 If Only said:
So true Meg! It takes two to tango! However, while it lasts, it can be quite exhilarating!

Yes it was more the exhilarating... but all good things comes to a end if there's no compromising.....

Now back to reality for me... getting of my cloud.....

lol_d in my opinion I think you must walk away. You going to end up getting hurt.

It is very difficult to have a relationship with a lady in this industry.

I wish you all the best and hope you make the right decision.

Hugs

So lil_d, you received your answers.
Will you follow the advice given.... I think not. You will probably decide to take your chances and ride the wave ;-) Why... because you will determine that she's worth the risk.

Just a thought; if there ever was a purple couple that transitioned from a Punter-SP relationship successfully, they probably won't be here to comment.

Good luck to you!

On 2018-03-12 08:35:53 If Only said:
GreyKnight, your post on the "Brain Fucked" threat re the unceremonial removal of your heart through the back door, can also be construed as advise here!

Sir

You don't know how many times that has saved me from a lot of heartache and pain. It did hurt like hell as Meg says on this thread, but you are safe from there on out.

Agree, maybe lil_d should take the opportunity and do exactly that.

[QUOTE;1090627;Yewrev1] On 2018-03-12 06:54:32

"Once a whore always a whore".

Lol Yewrev... So glad Im a working girl and not a whore... I work office hours... sometimes till 8 but that's over time and not the night shift... hehehehehe...

It's not easy to get out... I gave myself 3 years but no silver lining yet... but Im working on option B every day...
I had many chances and offers that can change my life but there's always a price to pay... giving up my independence is one thing... but faking love is another thing...

Back to the thread... it's so easy to take advantage of a broken soul and it's wrong in every way. She should have told lil_d that his wasting his time... but instead she decided to play a cruel game... There is nothing as painful as to love someone that can't love you back... I'll never be able to use people for my own benefits... I still have to sleep at night...

On 2018-03-12 08:31:18 Meg said:
On 2018-03-12 08:01:24 Yewrev1 said: On 2018-03-12 06:54:32 Meg said:

Once a punter, always a punter.



"Once a whore always a whore".

I am in complete disagreement with this. There are people on both sides (SP and Punters), that have left this industry and never looked back.

Don't generalise if you have trust related issuses.





I'm quoting the standard saying of 90 % of men on ESA.
I'm i generalizing...No I'm not.
We all have trust issues, some are just more open to our opinions then others.
Don't you think we want to believe there's a beta life out there for everyone?
No SIR it's not generalizing... its statistic realistic to fall back into something you know.
We call that human behavior.

Or a "Lack of determination".

Life is about the choices we make , so you have the option to stay out, or to fall back.

Those without the required determination will always opt for the easy way out, and are the ones that " do fall back" on old habits.