There are some salient points that posters seem to be missing here.
1. Why would you ever and I mean ever want to have coitus with a woman who you know will treat you with the disdain she reflects with her policy. On top of that you are happy to pay for it? I would never give any lady my hard earned cash if she was to give me service where she will be licking my dick like its a sour lollipop. It's self deprecating and for those you of you who continue forcing this issue, the problem may not be entirely with the provider in question but yourself. If you cannot disconnect yourself from this situation, you are the problem, have some self respect you sound like a bunch of spoilt brats who can't get what they want. It's a big world out there save your money and travel, there is enough non discriminating women out there in the industry and out.
2. You cannot change the mind of a person who has any type of discrimination whether it be race, religion, fat shaming or whatever. if someone asked you to change your religion tomorrow because they feel its not consistent with any narrative would you do it? The same pattern applies to those who discriminate it is an ingrained belief system that sex for money is not going to automatically erase. There are cases where money talks but in the grand scheme of things its not a silver bullet.
3. The whole I am black/coloured/indian professional with a sizable account and clean story does not entitle you to <insert anything you didn't get from a white WG>. It is their bodies and their choice. Remember that woman who you didn't want to date because of her looks, Same principle. Now you know how she felt. We lucky we get through the door most times.
4. Some of the posts here have a sly way of exposing people for what they really are, racist, petulant, childish and unable to deal with rejection.
5. Common Sense is dead long live Common Sense. Even in the face of it there will still be responses saying but but but......
On 2018-04-11 10:42:48 jjsoap said:
There are many ways to skin a cat. By making the price un-acceptably high you cannot be labeled a racist.
Please don't skin me. I promise to be a good girl ;)
Edited: 2018-04-12 07:26:19
On 2018-04-11 11:36:56 Bayek said:
I created an account to weigh in on this discussion and then got sidetracked by all the lovely profiles on the site. Which is what it is here for.
There are some salient points that posters seem to be missing here.
1. Why would you ever and I mean ever want to have coitus with a woman who you know will treat you with the disdain she reflects with her policy. On top of that you are happy to pay for it? I would never give any lady my hard earned cash if she was to give me service where she will be licking my dick like its a sour lollipop. It's self deprecating and for those you of you who continue forcing this issue, the problem may not be entirely with the provider in question but yourself. If you cannot disconnect yourself from this situation, you are the problem, have some self respect you sound like a bunch of spoilt brats who can't get what they want. It's a big world out there save your money and travel, there is enough non discriminating women out there in the industry and out.
- Nobody wants to sleep with anyone who is discriminating against them. Open your eyes and read! I am pointing out what people's behaviour is amounting too.
2. You cannot change the mind of a person who has any type of discrimination whether it be race, religion, fat shaming or whatever. if someone asked you to change your religion tomorrow because they feel its not consistent with any narrative would you do it? The same pattern applies to those who discriminate it is an ingrained belief system that sex for money is not going to automatically erase. There are cases where money talks but in the grand scheme of things its not a silver bullet.
Again, PLEASE READ! I specifically said I'm not trying to force anyone's roar policy, but trying to make people call a spade a spade because people are in denile.
3. The whole I am black/coloured/indian professional with a sizable account and clean story does not entitle you to <insert anything you didn't get from a white WG>. It is their bodies and their choice. Remember that woman who you didn't want to date because of her looks, Same principle. Now you know how she felt. We lucky we get through the door most times.
Hahaha that's an assumption you are making that comes from your own issues with the black professional thing. Dating and providing a service are inherently different.
4. Some of the posts here have a sly way of exposing people for what they really are, racist, petulant, childish and unable to deal with rejection.
- call me what you want honestly, that's your opinion. But you haven't been able to counter any points.
5. Common Sense is dead long live Common Sense. Even in the face of it there will still be responses saying but but but......
Common sense is a myth. What you deem as a standard practice (like as long as you don't say any race slurs it's not racist) others deem as deeply offending. Case and point, an executive thinking that calling a fully qualified black woman CA as just another Employment Equity hire is not racist. (I'd imagine you would agree with him, you seem like the type) And that privileged attitude of dismissing anything that doesn't fit in with your narrative is part of the problem. So please continue with your dismissive statements
On 2018-04-11 10:51:49 jjsoap said:
@Chancetaker
Please share your views with me regarding "Land expropriation without compensation"
Hahaha your a funny one!
Edited: 2018-04-12 07:32:24
On 2018-04-12 07:28:36 chancetaker said:
On 2018-04-11 10:51:49 jjsoap said: @Chancetaker
Please share your views with me regarding "Land expropriation without compensation"
Hahaha your a funny one!
No I am serious. Would like to here your views. What prevents you from sharing it.
But to be really honest with you, I don't think you are man enough to do it.
but I respect your freedom of speech and right to have it. Maybe try and be more open minded to other people giving advice/opinions? You sure seem intent on others accepting yours.
cause you seem to fall under the ROAR regarding asses criteria. Happy punting ;)[/QUOTE]
Honestly Kitty you can call me an ass. If calling out racism makes me an ass then I'M AN ASS! I'm super proud of that shit, I wish I could wear it like a coat.
Your right though, I do come across as a bit pushy. It's just that I've heard all of these 'justifications' before and they don't hold water. People are so proud to say things like 'I don't feel comfortable doing the exact same thing with a black man as a white man' but don't see that as discriminatory...
But you are right in saying live and let live.
Just be upfront an honest even if it is last minute and you decide at the door just say sorry i cant. Done
As for ROAR it might not be as simple as 'no blacks' but it is discriminatory whether you a white black indian or or or ... lady that wont see someone because he/she is not the same race, fat, short or wharever. But you entitiled to it so good or bad for you.
And some of you WG's dont blame the dude for voicing his opinion. He is also entitled to it.
Ofc everyone is welcome to an opinion but off people will disagree and defend themselves when told they are racist or behaving like a racist because they are choosing whom to be intimate with...
However, until you have had to advertise your ass and mouth for rental use... you cannot claim to know the mindset and reasoning of an escort. If you had to that I think you would understand preference to racism. You prefer women... according to your logic that means you must also be homophobic... Anyway I think we are beating a dead horse at this point
On 2018-04-12 07:31:04 jjsoap said:
But to be really honest with you, I don't think you are man enough to do it.
Why would you say that? Why are you trying to bait me into it? WTF???
I have actually taken time before to actually sit and really think about this. Like I would actually love to have a critical debate on this as it's a very nuanced topic.
But I'm not going to be baited into it like a school child because then your motives seem disingenuous.
I think a fair and honest debate and discussion that is not adversarial would be constructive.
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