Im NOT ashamed Tegwane... Im proud of the woman I become... strong, independent and wise... oh I wish I could, but unfortunately I can't tell the world who and what I am... I don't give a f... what other people might think of me but I have a little girl to protect now... it's NOT all about me anymore...

Thank you for the compliment Lexington Steel

On 2018-05-06 11:45:55 Ms Paige said:
It was the only way I could get out of my financial shit after my divorce... I applied for a office job and they offered me R7000 a month... I had to work 8 hours per day and every second Saturday... with a boss watching me 24/7... 20 days leave per year...

I had abselutely nothing and had to start from scratch at 44... What they offered me could only pay my rent...
I needed to get on my own 2 feet and wanted to be independent again... I want to show the world that Im strong enough and that I don't need a man (sugar daddy boyfiend or husband) to look after me... It was time to look after myself... a friend suggest that I become a MG but that couldnt pay the bills... at that stage I still lived in Vanderbijlpark and had to travel every day... but I did it, and I did it all by myself...

I moved into a house... bought new furniture, a new car, can now look after my grand daughter, I live a decent lifestyle and pay what I need to pay without depending on someone else... Being independent was my main goal and I'm proud of myself to be able to do it in 3 years...

Do I enjoy it? It depend on my client... Most if them know how to put a smile on my face...

I also admire your determination and courage to open your life's journey to us all...

well mike I did not see it as personal but I guess it,I only asked it as we were asked why we punt

Me Paige...thank you for sharing your story

Kind of you to say that 51169 and thank you kaps26 for asking... was nice to share my story... This industry can be a very lonely and dark place but I would never be here if it wasn't for this industry... and all the gents who wanted to share a moment with me... Thank you all...and be blessed

On 2018-05-06 13:45:10 Ms Paige said:
Im NOT ashamed Tegwane... Im proud of the woman I become... strong, independent and wise... oh I wish I could, but unfortunately I can't tell the world who and what I am... I don't give a f... what other people might think of me but I have a little girl to protect now... it's NOT all about me anymore...

Thank you for the compliment Lexington Steel

Ms P, please read my comment again, I can assure I did not imply you are ashamed

So sorry Tegwane... I know you meant it well... In fact a very nice way to look at it... Thank you...

There is a FB page for people living in Pretoria East. A potential employer advertises a full time Admin job for R5k per month.
The person got a lot of flack for offering such a low salary. With people rightfully stating you cannot live off R5k pm, and that she should be ashamed at offering such a low salary.

A while later, the person came back. She says she had literally 100s of applications. She selected and interviewed 10 people, and they were all very good, but could only take one person. She then offers to send on the remaining 9 CVs to others, as she feels they are all really good.

She says each of these people has a heartfelt story. The say they will be so happy to be able to put food on the table....

This FB thread has opened my eyes. I think many of us has no idea of the suffering (some) people are going thru. I find myself often complaining about how unfair life treats me. Clearly, i have no idea...Moreover, we can really not say much about other people's choices, when we have not walked a mile in their shoes....

I for one know that this is not a profession that anyone would choose unless you are a serious sex addict. Most of the girls are forced into it by unfavorable circumstances and yet are positive and making a success of life which is highly admirable. I have a high amount of respect for every girl I visit and do not look down on them in anyway. The smile I get when giving a girl flowers already makes the trip worth it. In my experience, WG's are some of the most amazing woman I have ever met. They are mature, strong, gorgeous and often times well educated. They help distress us giving us the energy and strength to face the next while until we visit again. They need us as much as we need them

It may be expensive at times but we are investing in a beautiful humans life and often helping raise a child.

So yes, this is a very intimate and personal topic that I avoid asking.

My situation definitely was forced on me. Still I make the best of it. I used to really enjoy the industry but the last eighteen months there has definitely been a shift and now I work only part time to keep my sanity.

It used to be relaxed, punters knew what was on offer and you could make a decent living to cover bills, treat yourself and invest in the future. By being clean, dressing nicely and being friendly, you were guaranteed success and treated well. Now... Oh my word what you have to go through. Very little sense of dignity when punters want you as cheap as possible and demand free extras and get angry and resentful. You are supposed to be 'horny' for them and then the shock when a punter is surprised he has to pay. 'but you enjoy it!' he cries. It's a catch 22, if we say we enjoy ourselves then extras and discounts and pushing limits is expected. If we do the session and ask not to be stimulated then 'you shouldn't be in this business'. It's become very difficult and I see others struggling emotionally. I really miss the days when bookings were light hearted, sensual tease and fun.

It would be really sad if the industry is going the way Kitty describes it and is no longer a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. I guess the current economic downturn is part of the problem, but is there something deeper happening here.