Not to offend anybody, but this is something that has always astonished me. What I really wanted to say is: 'This is my ass lid'. Sound so stupid in English, but here it goes.

Some punters think that the economical climate only affects them and not us Working Girls/ Massage girls too.

We all have expenses, not only at our place of work, but personally too. We chose this livelihood to provide for ourselves and families with the extra money we get, otherwise we all could just go do something for a small salary. Not all of us are in a fortunate position to have a professional highly paid office job.

Some punters think if a lady asks R300 or even R550, she sticks all that cash in her pocket. No, they don't, they have things to pay and buy. Some of the ladies are the only breadwinner, and have to make ends meet with that R300 or R550. Sometimes these ladies have only one booking a week....not due to lack of service or interest, but due to the economic climate and a vast majority of girls that advertised.

We all go out of our way by ensuring that our rooms are clean, beautiful, setting the mood to warm them up (if necessary) adding a soft touch with candles etc. How do we do it? Not for free, but with money. We give exceptional service and create the mood and fantasy you want.

Luckily there are some punters out there who can think......

Joy

I am in full support of your views. Punting is a luxury, and if you cannot afford it, find an alternative to stimulate yourself.

I agree Joy.
Asking for discounts is very tacky.
Be like Huron, put R200 a month in a cookie jar and spoil yourself every 6 months.

On 2018-05-10 09:07:54 Joy (the Original) said:
Not to offend anybody, but this is something that has always astonished me. What I really wanted to say is: 'This is my ass lid'. Sound so stupid in English, but here it goes.

Some punters think that the economical climate only affects them and not us Working Girls/ Massage girls too.

We all have expenses, not only at our place of work, but personally too. We chose this livelihood to provide for ourselves and families with the extra money we get, otherwise we all could just go do something for a small salary. Not all of us are in a fortunate position to have a professional highly paid office job.

Some punters think if a lady asks R300 or even R550, she sticks all that cash in her pocket. No, they don't, they have things to pay and buy. Some of the ladies are the only breadwinner, and have to make ends meet with that R300 or R550. Sometimes these ladies have only one booking a week....not due to lack of service or interest, but due to the economic climate and a vast majority of girls that advertised.

We all go out of our way by ensuring that our rooms are clean, beautiful, setting the mood to warm them up (if necessary) adding a soft touch with candles etc. How do we do it? Not for free, but with money. We give exceptional service and create the mood and fantasy you want.

Luckily there are some punters out there who can think......

Fully agree with the above. There are exceptions thou and I've paid school fees more than once due to wg's on the purple site.

I personally dont negotiate on Fees but what i cannot stand is the pathetic service that some wg's provide at "normal rates".

Generally you get what you paid for. So never compensate on rates.

I agree with you completely Joy.
However I believe this problem is not caused by one thing, but rather a collective combination of disregard, lack of respect, greed, us punters that doesn't understand this industry as much as we think we do and a whole lot more of smaller things. These are also the the same things that cause other problems within this industry.
Then I also believe that at this moment that the market is flooded with SP's that entered this industry with the wrong intentions, goals and information. They are creating problems for the ladies and punters, and causing both sides of the fence to have ill feelings for one another. This is just my 20ZAR on the matter.

On 2018-05-10 09:30:45 jjsoap said:
Joy

I am in full support of your views. Punting is a luxury, and if you cannot afford it, find an alternative to stimulate yourself.

So true .. just move on if you can't afford the ladies rates !!!

So well said Joy!

It is very true that you get what you pay for.

I personally never negotiate rates, it belittles both the lady and me.

Some women place a value on their abilities far below what the normal is. Maybe a lack of confidence or knowledge of the industry may play a part.

BUT often the converse is true where the rate is excessive for what is provided.

On 2018-05-10 09:07:54 Joy (the Original) said:
Not to offend anybody, but this is something that has always astonished me. What I really wanted to say is: 'This is my ass lid'. Sound so stupid in English, but here it goes.

Some punters think that the economical climate only affects them and not us Working Girls/ Massage girls too.

We all have expenses, not only at our place of work, but personally too. We chose this livelihood to provide for ourselves and families with the extra money we get, otherwise we all could just go do something for a small salary. Not all of us are in a fortunate position to have a professional highly paid office job.

Some punters think if a lady asks R300 or even R550, she sticks all that cash in her pocket. No, they don't, they have things to pay and buy. Some of the ladies are the only breadwinner, and have to make ends meet with that R300 or R550. Sometimes these ladies have only one booking a week....not due to lack of service or interest, but due to the economic climate and a vast majority of girls that advertised.

We all go out of our way by ensuring that our rooms are clean, beautiful, setting the mood to warm them up (if necessary) adding a soft touch with candles etc. How do we do it? Not for free, but with money. We give exceptional service and create the mood and fantasy you want.

Luckily there are some punters out there who can think......

I agree with you Joy.

Especially when you work from your own home.

You have to pay for all the extras.

Thank you for bringing this subject to "light".