On 2018-06-09 21:59:22 Ladylover007 said:
JHB/PTA guys! Are you listing to this? The CPT guys are trying to lure out beautiful ladies away!! :))))
I want go see Ms Paige, Jewel, Arizona, Kim, Galaxy, etc etc......oh no wait!....they are all in CPT because business is slow in Gauteng
This=greek tradegy!!!!!!
Pardon my french...but I say fuck this! Let's support these beautiful ladies and keep them right here!!!
Dear Sir
I so appreciate your understanding and kind words...support would be so appreciated...unfortunately even though I'm set to "available" my phone hasn't rung once this morning....going to work in Cape Town or durban may be an option but that decision also comes with many many expenses with no guarantee of at least breaking even, which is obviously not the point. ALL of us have rent to pay in a few weeks and I don't even know if I'll make it....I have to trust i will...that we all will.
We can talk until we are blue in the face....solutions, as Kimmylee pointed out, are what we need.
So gents what do YOU need?
As ladies in this industry we need gents to book and pay for our time and services....yes there have been suggestions as to how ladies can get more business in, but each lady/gent is different and may need/want very different things.
At the end of the day I see these arrangements being mutually beneficial.
Massage for example has MANY health benefits and an edging hand release gives a "fuller" (as told to me by several clients) orgasm, so a great way to de-stress, relax and get relief. Yes you have to part with some cash, but feeling a bit of relief as well as more relaxed will make you more productive, no? And feel happier in life, no?
Some of my clients are fh gents and they tell me it's so nice to be pampered and not have to do work in a session....one guy who I've never met told me guys only want p***y...and a hand release is pointless...so I don't know anymore...
What I DO know is that I'm very good at what I do and feel I'm worth every cent I ask for a session, and more. I don't need fancy things and have not even used my gas heater for myself, only for my clients during bookings, to try to save just a little. I sit with a blanket in the evenings while I have supper, but cannot be expected to have an ice cold shower because I can't afford to heat the geyser for myself. I've cut where I can and truly don't know where else to cut but still live a dignified life with small comforts like a hot shower and 2 meals a day.
Yes punting is a luxury but we must also look at the benefits, which will be different for each individual but the main one is stress relief.
I'm all for discounting sessions for multiple sessions in the month, I will do what it takes (within reason) to make sure my clients are happy and I'm making ends meet.
I just need to know WHAT precisely you NEED to get you onto my plinth.
To the gents who private messaged me I will respond as soon as I've hit send on this message ;)
To the gents who empathise with us ladies...I cannot express my gratitude enough! Thank you for trying to walk a kilometer in our heels!
I echo Kimmylee...SOLUTIONS are what we need.
So feel free to PM me and tell me what YOU need and we can work something out so we BOTH benefit.
Wishing you all a beautiful day and a productive week!
Blessings in abundance
Xxx