[QUOTE;1313106;BOOBS53] Us punters not having a forum as the ladies are using the pm functionality to exchange some information !!!

I have never received disrespectful inquiries regarding any ladies but just some additional information which can help the punters in making his choice to visit a certain lady !!!

I agree 100% with you !

I have often exchanged information with punters that have similar tastes. It saves a lot of time and money.

I have also received a few PM's in the past....asking for information. Like general enquiries....."Who do you like to visit in that specific area".

But sharing personal/intimate info can be dangerous.

This just gets to me because of my personal recent experience.

On 2018-07-19 13:59:55 2old2 said:
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So feel free to share as much as you want, however please understand that it could come at an enormous cost to the lady concerned.

If you care about the ladies - please rather be discrete!

When sharing information use your savvy and do it responsibly. Sharing certain specific information about a lady and her services, can jeopardise her as a person, and may even backfire on you.

When in doubt, apply the following in making your decision.

There are two rules in life:
1. Never give out all the information.

On 2018-07-19 14:30:55 Mia Bbw said:
This just gets to me because of my personal recent experience.

Same here...

Have you guys ever considered that telling other punters not to bother about a specific girl not only decreases her business, but makes a platform like esa a bit pointless to some girls after a while whether they change their look or their names etc because they are outed on the forum anyway? It has been assessed different strokes for different folks and while some clients might not have a good experience others do and regardless of a punters respectability, does that respectability trump each girls effort with each client? This is killing business for many ladies and while its an hour of dissappointment or fun for you...this is our lives you play with so non chalantly like some kind of sport!

Miss V .. I think that most of the punters have the utmost respect for the ladies of ESA and will do absolutely nothing to harm their business !!!

I agree that some don't think before they act in some situations but they are in the minority !!!

That's why I have always give honest advise that punters asked for .. if he wants to visit a certain lady and I know that she is an outright druggie and unstable ... I will tell him in order for him to make an informed decision to visit her or not .. before he will waste his hard earned money !!!

On 2018-07-19 15:01:22 BOOBS53 said:
Miss V .. I think that most of the punters have the utmost respect for the ladies of ESA and will do absolutely nothing to harm their business !!!

I agree that some don't think before they act in some situations but they are in the minority !!!

That's why I have always give honest advise that punters asked for .. if he wants to visit a certain lady and I know that she is an outright druggie and unstable ... I will tell him in order for him to make an informed decision to visit her or not .. before he will waste his hard earned money !!!

I can appreciate that BOOBS...but I always maintain that this forum is smoke and mirrors and what many say behind others backs is usually not pleasant! Not everyone, actually, very few are actually gentlemen! Guys don't only pass info to other guys...we sometimes get to hear of it or see it from other girls or the punters that exchange the info! As much as punters profess to be innocent, they are probably the biggest instigators when it comes to unfounded rumors and spreading them!

To add to this, the PM exchange of information is also between what and punters. I have received PM's from wgs that that I have seen or even haven't but they've observed me on the forums and have provided valuable recommendations as well as warnings that have saved my bacon before I learnt the hard way from follow up info from other punter PM's or reviews.

That being said. It is still up to the receiver of the information to decide how they use it. The sender should act in good faith too as we are making use of the services.

Sounds like there where some bad experiences as a result of PM's. Sorry it happened to whoever it did but the PM itself has only been a good experience and saved me from bad experiences.

PM on and protect one and other from the bad elements that come into this playground as well as recommended those who deserve it, wgs and punters alike.