On 2018-07-20 18:51:58 KICKASS said:
I went oneday to a swingers party with black and white women what an awesome experience this was Veronica do u remember that place we went to.
You'll have to refresh my memory...
But like I said, spend your energy on something that will bring about real change - whether it's race (improving lives of those who are previously disadvantaged) related or not. All this venting or ranting about people who contribute f**kall to your wellbeing? There are bigger fishes to fry in South Africa FFS!
Edited: 2018-07-21 03:20:00
On 2018-07-20 18:58:43 KICKASS said:
It was a house near bruma Lake can't remember the dudes name but he was the Coloured guy that organized one.
He tried to turn the place into a swingers club! Would rather not talk about that guy...been big shit on this forum previously because of him! But yeah...minus 'the creep', there were stunning ladies at that party!
On 2018-07-20 18:27:46 Veronica Franco said:
We take it from clients everyday and we take it with our big girl panties on! There are always girls out there that have no issues with race! This is SA...racially volatile...find those that dont mind because those that mind shouldn't matter! Each to their own! Clients and Sps! I know people will never think any better of people like me...so why should I care?
They don't, at least for me. Those people can carry on being who they are it doesn't matter. What does matter (to me at least) is that moderate, thinking people, don't walk around thinking and spreading that this is normal non-racial behaviour. Who knows what might 'normalise in future'
Edited: 2018-07-21 04:32:50
On 2018-07-21 03:40:25 chancetaker said:
On 2018-07-20 18:27:46 Veronica Franco said:
We take it from clients everyday and we take it with our big girl panties on! There are always girls out there that have no issues with race! This is SA...racially volatile...find those that dont mind because those that mind shouldn't matter! Each to their own! Clients and Sps! I know people will never think any better of people like me...so why should I care? 'We take it from clients everyday and we take it with our big girl panties on!' No, you do hey and MOST of you take it with such grace and style it's amazing. Wg take a lot of unnecessary discrimination from society at large. But that's why I don't understand how some who knows the sting of some one judging you before they know you. Putting that same sting on others. Honestly, with this one I'm at a loss
Okay...so you are attracted to all ladies? Fat, thin, white, black, chinese etc? You have absolutely no prejudice when it comes to looks Or who you're attracted to? I find that hard to believe...prejudice is not only applicable to colour...it is very normal in terms of being human...are you not human? Even so...people are very rarely empathetic.
There is also this thing called freedom of association...it's in our constitution...even we have that freedom. Funny though considering if people choose only to associate with their own race, it's called racism....but only if you're white! Nowhere in our constitution does it say we have to associate with other races or we have to sleep with other races....it says we may do so if we choose to...if we do not choose to, it's our right not to do so!
Why is it okay for you to choose a white girl but its not okay for her to choose a white guy?
It really just depends on my mood at the moment.
What needs to be taken into account, these are all my personal choices. Am I a racist simply for wanting to play in the pool with a blonde ? Or Latina, African, Asian ?
Is it racist that I tend to stay away from Indians in Jo'burg since I have found most of them pull the "dead starfish" position on me and that is not fun ? I also tend to stay away from Nigerians when I come across them in this industry, am I racist ?
No, I am not. What I am is human, with my own set of internal rules and lessons learned and things that I find attractive and things I don't.
If I wanted to simply put my dick into something slippery and not give a shit about the actual woman I would simply buy a fleshlight and bottle of lube. It'd be cheaper for sure.
So why do we think it is ok to label these ladies as racist for expressing the same interests ? It is simply assumed that any white lady rejecting a person of colour is doing it from a sense of racial superiority as opposed to a possible myriad or other reasons.
You might have a bad rep on the ladies forum, she might have a had a bad experience previously, she might be pressured too by socio-economic reasons, You might just be a complete dick on the phone, she might simply be worried that your massive willy is going to wreck her cute pink flower.
Rejection does not absolutely equal racism, it is a false equation.
Can it ? at times, definitely... No argument, there are for sure racist ladies here. But, is it always that clear cut ? Absolutely not.
Consider this, I am rejected from at least 60% of the ladies I contact for a reason I shall keep my own. I do not cry on here about how evil these ladies are, I understand that the core nature of this business is intimacy and without some form of attraction on a basic level your session will suck (and not in a good way).
The charge of racism needs to be able to show motive, if the lady in question was swearing and using racial slurs by all means, name and shame. All I am asking is that we think before we speak and start making accusations.
Edited: 2018-07-21 10:25:28
On 2018-07-21 02:13:42 Pseudonyms said:
I don't trust anyone who claims that they don't see colour.
But like I said, spend your energy on something that will bring about real change - whether it's race (improving lives of those who are previously disadvantaged) related or not. All this venting or ranting about people who contribute f**kall to your wellbeing? There are bigger fishes to fry in South Africa FFS!
Okay, thanks for your opinion on which fish to fry
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