In my experience some ladies do mean it, especially if they know you are single and just wanna chill.

On other hand there are the chicken heads tryin to play you.

Also other side of the coin like what BBW Nadia posted month or so ago on a thread - punters who assume familiarity and "just dropping in" unannounced, uninvited at all hours.

My boundaries are very clear. No ifs buts or maybes. If you come to me its for a booking. No coming to say hi or for coffee..... I haven't got sugar
(Now here's where I would like to post an afrikaans sentence). It works both ways. At least people know exactly where they stand with me on the .popping in to say Hi.

On 2018-07-23 10:40:43 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
On 2018-07-23 10:36:18 Mia Bbw said: Have to say I would never do that. Have many friends that are clients and a few are very special. In fact I dumped into one of them at Checkers on Saturday afternoon and asked him to come over and share a curry. I also promised to behave but he regret fully declined. Hand to face

Was that homemade curry?

And he declined?

What madness is this?!

Yip home made chicken curry...

On 2018-07-23 10:32:21 uwillwantme said:

If you hire a friend's cab in his/her working hours and take it to the beach and just sit there for an hour with him/her by you side, the cab meter is still running an you are paying for it.

But of the cab driver calls you one sunday and asks you to accompany him/her to the beach for chilling, then its no cost at all.

Its generally a matter of who's requirement it is..... And its fair too.

Thank you Sir..(uwillwantme)
Hit the nail with that perfect analogy...love your empathy.
And I agree totally.. but this is business.. Just that..Also if i start seeing you for free..you gonna stop coming round for paid services..its a catch for us too..cos what if we do have chemistry and we both available and enjoyed each other...Nothing can come from that except looking forward to the next booking. Sorry chunkifunkiness love the name still.. But its how it is..
The bigger gripe i have is punters(shoppers)thinking that they can negotiate pricing or get extras based on the idea that you maybe into them..?
Really.. No..

And if it's to lend an ear to the lady ?

I mean it in the sense that a lot of the ladies may not have somebody listen to them & what may be bothering them because of the business they are in.

On 2018-07-23 11:48:06 Daniella said:
On 2018-07-23 10:32:21
Thank you Sir..(uwillwantme)
Hit the nail with that perfect analogy...love your empathy.
And I agree totally.. but this is business.. Just that..Also if i start seeing you for free..you gonna stop coming round for paid services..its a catch for us too..cos what if we do have chemistry and we both available and enjoyed each other...Nothing can come from that except looking forward to the next booking. Sorry chunkifunkiness love the name still.. But its how it is..
The bigger gripe i have is punters(shoppers)thinking that they can negotiate pricing or get extras based on the idea that you maybe into them..?
Really.. No..

I think that maybe my post was misconstrued..

Of course this is a business. Time is money. I was referring to receiving a text from a woman basically inviting you over. She texts you, not the other way around. And once you're there she wants to start talking rates.

But then again, I'm slow.

Thank you Daniella for loving my funkiness :) you just out an extra pep in my step for the rest of the day :)

A guy once said to me he does not want a booking. He just wants "to time pass." Told him my rates for my time.

Another guy called me up after his last visit 18 months ago to find out if I am still working in the industry. He thought I left and wanted to visit, have a drink and catch up. Gave him my rates and told him to book.

My time is precious to me and I have become somewhat selfish with whom I share my energy, thoughts, emotions with.........

I love listening to Indian Carnatic and Hindustani classical compositions. Very few men share my interests, the same with my books. So when I share my time with someone it must be someone that I truly like.

On 2018-07-23 12:07:17 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
A guy once said to me he does not want a booking. He just wants "to time pass." Told him my rates for my time.

Another guy called me up after his last visit 18 months ago to find out if I am still working in the industry. He thought I left and wanted to visit, have a drink and catch up. Gave him my rates and told him to book.

My time is precious to me and I have become somewhat selfish with whom I share my energy, thoughts, emotions with.........

I love listening to Indian Carnatic and Hindustani classical compositions. Very few men share my interests, the same with my books. So when I share my time with someone it must be someone that I truly like.

Once he calls you, yes totally he should be paying for your time. You're not out here trying to make friends right?

On 2018-07-23 11:45:08 Mia Bbw said:
On 2018-07-23 10:40:43 YourChunkyFunkiness said: On 2018-07-23 10:36:18 Mia Bbw said: Have to say I would never do that. Have many friends that are clients and a few are very special. In fact I dumped into one of them at Checkers on Saturday afternoon and asked him to come over and share a curry. I also promised to behave but he regret fully declined. Hand to face

Was that homemade curry?

And he declined?

What madness is this?!

Yip home made chicken curry...

Lol, maybe he prefers lamb?

On 2018-07-23 12:10:50 Veronica Franco said:
On 2018-07-23 11:45:08

Lol, maybe he prefers lamb?

Hahahaha. Was thinking the same thing