It takes a strong minded person to put themselves out there to do this type of work and therefore I never negotiate rates based on the above.
However, doing it for drugs or other reasons loses my respect..
"She does whatever it takes to make it through one more day.
She is not a sinner or a saint.
She is a woman, a warrior, with the soul of a survivor and a heart that is in search of peace and love."
On 2018-07-28 21:10:52 If Only said:
I read the following on a lady's profile some time ago...the impact thereof is quite profound!
"She does whatever it takes to make it through one more day.
She is not a sinner or a saint.
She is a woman, a warrior, with the soul of a survivor and a heart that is in search of peace and love."
Sorry, but could that not apply for a man?
On 2018-07-28 21:21:33 Tegwane said:
On 2018-07-28 21:10:52 If Only said: I read the following on a lady's profile some time ago...the impact thereof is quite profound!
"She does whatever it takes to make it through one more day.
She is not a sinner or a saint.
She is a woman, a warrior, with the soul of a survivor and a heart that is in search of peace and love."
Sorry, but could that not apply for a man?
Yeah, I'm in search of piece (see what I did there?) and love too..
I have not met a successful person who has not failed more times than they were successful
success is more about perseverance against terrible odds than anything else
I believe there are a lot of girls in this industry that could do very well in other business or careers , they must just start to believe in themselves and realize that its going to be tough , you just have to be tougher
Remember this , Its what you think of yourself that counts , others opinion matters little because they don't really know you
and remember that the greatest man that ever lived said that whores and tax collectors will get into heaven before many of those who look down upon them , I always laugh thinking of it because its so true in many cases
I wish every WG and SP a great life and all the best with everything her heart desires...... but we all know the industry is older than time and will always be there especially when the wheels come off the apple car in society , you girls are survivors youre 80% stronger than most souls on here you have survived and fought since the good times , youll be ok when the high and mighty falls The middle class drops the rich move on and the country bows out , that time will come!
Stay strong and fuck on.
Edited: 2018-07-29 07:43:21
The idea is that, there are things in the world we have control over and things we don't. Where we do have control, we must strive to always do our best and we shouldn't ever bother ourselves with things we could never do something about in the first place; like other people's opinions.
I struggled with this concept at first as we tend to be brought up with the belief that "we can be anything we set our minds on" when that isn't really true.
What we can do, though, is always strive to be the best that we can be. We should understand that doing so places one under a spotlight where people (in whose nature it is to often criticize) can say or do the craziest things to us. These things we should never take personally, nor take responsibility for as it is in THEIR nature to do so, we shouldn't even hold grudges against them as they are just giving into their nature. All you can do is keep trying your best, with the understanding that we aren't owed success by anyone but we are better for trying and not waiting for things to get better by themselves.
The trick then becomes growing the wisdom to understand the difference between what we control and what we don't.
On 2018-07-29 07:11:03 dickshaft said:
There is a philosophy, in Stoicism, that holds that we should only ever bother ourselves with issues we have control over. This is similar to the Christian Prayer of Serenity. If we care about things we have no control over, then we lose control to those things.
The idea is that, there are things in the world we have control over and things we don't. Where we do have control, we must strive to always do our best and we shouldn't ever bother ourselves with things we could never do something about in the first place; like other people's opinions.
I struggled with this concept at first as we tend to be brought up with the belief that "we can be anything we set our minds on" when that isn't really true.
What we can do, though, is always strive to be the best that we can be. We should understand that doing so places one under a spotlight where people (in whose nature it is to often criticize) can say or do the craziest things to us. These things we should never take personally, nor take responsibility for as it is in THEIR nature to do so, we shouldn't even hold grudges against them as they are just giving into their nature. All you can do is keep trying your best, with the understanding that we aren't owed success by anyone but we are better for trying and not waiting for things to get better by themselves.
The trick then becomes growing the wisdom to understand the difference between what we control and what we don't.
Well said dickshaft. If a lady leaves the industry and has to come back for certain unknown reasons, who are we to judge. It happens in everyday life situations.
On 2018-07-29 14:26:05 john_adams said:
"they always come back" is nonsense anyway , there are plenty of women who leave the business and don't come back
I know a few of them personally! They got out on their own merits too...proud to call them my friends!
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