Let me get this out the way real quick. I know that this is a fantasy world. Yes I know that its a business and blah, blah, blah. I know that theyre being nice because Im paying for their time. I'm not delusional. Not yet anyway.

But I'd like to talk about how this industry has changed your perception of women.

After two failed relationships, I lost faith in women. I believed that they were all evil, soulless creatures.

This however changed when I started seeing women from the purple world. Some of the women here reminded me of how good women can be. Luckily, I've dealt with real women with real world problems and I could have good long and meaningful conversations with.

So basically, the ladies of the purple world helped restore my faith in women.

How has your perception of women changed since you started doing this?

And ladies, how has your views of womanhood changed since you started in this industry?

I have always found WG's to be the most amazing woman. Far better than other girls I've met. They are mature and genuine, always smiling no matter what is happening in their personal life. I have a huge amount of admiration and respect. They have found a way to win despite difficult circumstances and seem to be so positive about life. Such a blessing in a world filled with negativity. I can honestly say i have learnt alot.
Keep it up ladies. You are awesome. Cute.

Ahhh such awesome words.... nice to read something like this xxx

I found my voice, as far as this industry is concerned, on this forum.
I also found I am a lot bigger person (literally and figuratively).
As far as sex is concerned, I learnt that everybody's quirks is ok as long as nobody is hurt and nobody is forced or coerced and no minors are involved I learnt its ok if my taste is rather vanilla. Its ok if something doesn't do it for me... it's ok to say no. Its ok to speak up for myself. I learnt my oversized body is just perfect. I realised for the RIGHT partner I am perfect. The business has taught me to enjoy sex and to take responsibility for my own pleasure. I was always scared to steer my partners in the right direction, often leading to very unsatisfactory experiences. And here, in the sex industry, men actually WANT me to say what I enjoy... something that had always been amiss in my personal sex life.
The development I experienced is mainly re ME.
I do some work for my landlord and you won't believe how my gut instinct re people was learnt in this industry. If I think someone is not a fit for whatever he needs them for? my gut instinct is usually spot on. And my landlord now trusts my gut instinct.

My experience has been contrary unfortunately. None of the WGs who frequent the forum are the reason but I've had so many unsavoury experiences from punting that I have to work harder to keep faith in women as a whole lately.

I'm working on it though. There are enough great women, on ESA and the world, for me to know that I'm the irrational one. I'm just commenting to report that the opposite can happen as well.

Thanks for your inputs, good people.

@shaft, one day you're going to come across the right lady here on ESA to help you see through. But I can relate to what you saying

On 2018-07-31 00:53:04 Saskia said:
Ahhh such awesome words.... nice to read something like this xxx

Feel free to add your views Saskia

I have found myself again. I have met wonderful, interesting gents and ladies.

It has definately opened a new world for me. Being a WG is not easy, you take the good with the bad.

I am a sexual lady, enjoy the sexual encounters as much as the conversations with clients.

Overall, it has been a great experience and I thank the ladies on the forum for being there for me, when I have needed them!

Hugs
Lady Sade

Great post, Mr Funky.

I always worried that punting would make me appreciate women LESS, but in fact the exact opposite is true. I have also met some amazing ladies here, both in real and just on the forum, and in both cases I have walked away feeling blessed to know them. I use their positivity and drive and sexual energy to inspire me in my own real life relationships... and I hope that some of it rubs off. ;)

Purple is my favorite color. You ladies are why... ;)

This industry has given and taken away...I will have to give this one some thought before I post as I have a love/hate relationship with this industry because I see things differently. For every positive, there is a direct opposite in my eyes!