I agree with Need4Passion. I've mentioned on several occasions that I prefer a mistress over punting.

There's other elements involved as well, the thrill of the chase and excitement of hunting when success is not gauranteed. The euphoria that comes when u finally catch your prey as it were is beyond compare. There's also an element of exclusivity involved where u know her sex life revolves around you same as yours revolves around her and this adds to the excitement.

Of course with a mistress there's strings attached but that's exactly what makes it fun, both of us are emotionally invested, but still this is easily managed and I've never had any drama. Also, I dont hook up with broke chicks precisely to avoid silly requests

Oh and with an ordinary hookup, you don't have to ask "do I make you horny baby", especially if it goes beyond a one night stand.

This question seems to be an issue for a lot of punters judging by the number of threads on the topic and how the girls have to constantly reassure the guys and boost their self esteem. I blame this on the fact that a lot of the guys here seem to rely purely on escorts for their sexual needs. In my opinion, this is not a healthy situation at all for so many reasons

Haven't been on this site in so long. Anyway, I agree with the guys saying a Fuckbuddy / friends with benefits / hook up... is different to this site.
Over here it's definitely convenient and cool and all that... but at the end of the day, it's a transaction... you're like the 4th guy that's seen by the lady and the truth is it's just business really for most if not all... otherwise they'd be on a swingers site.

For a fbuddy you can call her up and meet with her knowing she just wants to get off as much as you want to get off.. especially if it's a repeated occurrence. Ofcourse the first time you'll probably go for drinks and pay for that... but afterwards it's just meeting up and hiking up... Because you both know what you want.

On 2018-08-03 16:38:13 Need4Passion said:
It's not about the money. It's about the genuine and mutual desire, passionate, and lust etc. As good as the ladies are here, we always know that it's the money that's getting it and that the lady may not actually like my type at all.

Meeting someone for sex without any direct financial exchange means that they both want each other and it's a bit more fulfilling for the ego and emotionally than just the physical with a huge gaping hole in the heart after the hour is over.

Also the experience is more complete usually as you'll spend time doing things like quiet, probably secret dinners and talking and cuddling after etc without worrying about a clock.

Just another thing we need satisfied like sometimes we want massage and other times, FH, BJ, GFE, PSE but this one we can't buy directly because that in itself destroys what it is.

Fully agree with You !!

I think this kind of an arrangement can never without some kind of an arrangement, like cash or in kind.

This is where the semi-pros come in. Who will appreciate the glass of wine and a chocolate and the attention, because they dont do this everyday and night.

Try and work around office reception, supermarket sales or event management girls. They can offer this kind of an arrangement for a fraction of the cost. No guarantee though

On 2018-08-03 12:38:41 fclown said:
I had a bunch of success on discreetaffairs.co.za, there are LOTS of fake profiles and bullshitters, but there are lots of horny chicks there too.

is the payment safe? And when you cancel your renewal do they stop taking money from your card?

On 2018-08-04 12:35:51 51169 said:
On 2018-08-03 16:38:13 Need4Passion said: It's not about the money. It's about the genuine and mutual desire, passionate, and lust etc. As good as the ladies are here, we always know that it's the money that's getting it and that the lady may not actually like my type at all.

Meeting someone for sex without any direct financial exchange means that they both want each other and it's a bit more fulfilling for the ego and emotionally than just the physical with a huge gaping hole in the heart after the hour is over.

Also the experience is more complete usually as you'll spend time doing things like quiet, probably secret dinners and talking and cuddling after etc without worrying about a clock.

Just another thing we need satisfied like sometimes we want massage and other times, FH, BJ, GFE, PSE but this one we can't buy directly because that in itself destroys what it is.

Fully agree with You !!

Very well said!! I've learned over and over again. One needs that emotional connection for full satisfaction.

On 2018-08-03 06:13:18 Madison said:
try Ashley Madison

I got burnt badly by AM, when that leak of personal information occurred .......then the flood of threatening mails demanding payment in bitcoin.....

Meg, NSA stands for No Strings Attached. ;)

I have fortunately found a few of them in my area most of them are married and bored shitless at home. Took a while to get them on board but it was all worth it.