On 2018-08-07 13:17:35 Meg said:

I personally wouldn't like to know someone is using me after hours just for his convenience.

But that is exactly what you're doing and an mg at a cost. Punters punt when it's convenient for them and they pay for it.

I punt when it's convenient for me, not the wg. I'm not about to skip a meeting or miss my child's soccer match to see a wg. That's like my car telling me where to go and my priorities are otherwise. I just call the next one that is available for my convenience.

An fwb is mutual so it's negotiation to when you're both available. Both making the same or similar sacrifices for the same benefits for something you both want. It's a relationship were it's not just the guy wants the sex but the lady does, not just money.

On 2018-08-07 13:17:35 Meg said:

Emotions is the most expensive currency BY FAR!
Couldn't said it any beta.

Actually it's priceless and therefore can't be bought in the purple or any other world.

While neither you nor BendOver want this, there are people then want genuine emotion, lust, desire, need, and maybe even a bit of jealousy. It's a place when you're not ready for that ultimate emotion called love.

My point excactly...so if people want genuine emotion then you cannot call it a "fuck buddy" or "no strings attached" cos then it is a relationship ...

On 2018-08-07 15:15:48 BendOver said:
My point excactly...so if people want genuine emotion then you cannot call it a "fuck buddy" or "no strings attached" cos then it is a relationship ...

Yeah, thise emotions could be lust, desire, not necessarily love.

Fwb, fuck buddy, NSA, wg/punter, husband/wife are all kind of relationships.

The difference is I am obligated to pay a wg for making use of her service, she is obligated to fck me if that's what we agreed and she takes my money even if she thinks I'm hell fugly. A husband or wife is obligated to attend the in-laws funeral or make a big deal of the spouses birthday in front of the kids. Hell, spouses feel they're obligated to fuck their partners even though they may actually hate or resent them because they're married. Always, obligations, always costs, always drama BECAUSE OF SOMETHING in nearly any type of relationship since we're human.

But at least in an fwb, you can both decide to have none of that shyt and have some fun until the shyt starts and then move on or take a break and come back when everyone gets back on the same page BECAUSE YOU BOTH WANT EACH OTHER.

Another site that was good is okcupid, but they've changed their messaging system - I ditched it because of this. Met quite a few ladies of different races that were in open relationships on there.

On 2018-08-07 14:47:44 Need4Passion said:
On 2018-08-07 13:17:35 Meg said:
I personally wouldn't like to know someone is using me after hours just for his convenience.


But that is exactly what you're doing and an mg at a cost. Punters punt when it's convenient for them and they pay for it.

I punt when it's convenient for me, not the wg. I'm not about to skip a meeting or miss my child's soccer match to see a wg. That's like my car telling me where to go and my priorities are otherwise. I just call the next one that is available for my convenience.

An fwb is mutual so it's negotiation to when you're both available. Both making the same or similar sacrifices for the same benefits for something you both want. It's a relationship were it's not just the guy wants the sex but the lady does, not just money.

Please note I SAID after hours.

Honestly I get paid for my time we all do when working isn't it, so you work for free?

What my clients do is contribute to food on my table, roof over my head... that's how I see my session and give a lot of attention when I know what this booking means to me.

That is the real reason why I'm here is to do business, not being someone's fwb is my body and choice.

And like I said after hours is MY choice how I spend it, kids , family, friends. No man in sight!

Do you really think all ladies think about sex all day long?

Yes they pay for my time like every lady on this site.
And I pay to be here.

I don't give out fee entertainment and that's my choice.
In my opinion one day i should be in a relationship it's the only time someone will get me for free and even then there are some prices to pay.

I won't be no ones f####buddy.
Not now not ever.
It's the other ladies choice how they handle there needs and lives.

And it's yours.
It just the fact that everyone has needs and it overcloud our (men) judgement where it comes to being used .

Done it my personal life. Closed that book and I moved along swiftly.
I know why I'm here.

PS: last thing.., if you can't afford a lady why are you on this site? For love , dating, sex for free..,then you on the wrong site to begin with.

@Meg, it's simple. Men will try all avenues to get punani. Whether paying for it the easy way; enjoying the hunt and even trying out NSA/FB options. Often pursuing all avenues towards good punani in parallel.

I agree. I just think it's stirring.
For me this is a serious topic.

But now I've said what I needed to.

It's always about everyone's needs....you get selfish...your goal is only to satisfy one side....;-)

On 2018-08-08 10:52:36 Meg said:
I agree. I just think it's stirring.
For me this is a serious topic.

But now I've said what I needed to.

It's always about everyone's needs....you get selfish...your goal is only to satisfy one side....;-)

I get what you are saying, but at the end of the day, boys will be boys.

On 2018-08-08 10:57:49 Burfi said:
boys will be boys.

Brad Pitt in War Machine

"Left to their own devices, all they really wanna do is play with their dicks and eat chicken"