On 2018-08-08 10:52:36 Meg said:
I agree. I just think it's stirring.
For me this is a serious topic.

But now I've said what I needed to.

It's always about everyone's needs....you get selfish...your goal is only to satisfy one side....;-)

Meg

I support your views, to me it is very disresptfull and rude towards the ladies,
to ask on a "pay for sex site" where you can find a fuckbuddy.

It is similar to taking "candy from a kid".

On 2018-08-08 11:13:33 jjsoap said:
On 2018-08-08 10:52:36 Meg said: I agree. I just think it's stirring.
For me this is a serious topic.

But now I've said what I needed to.

It's always about everyone's needs....you get selfish...your goal is only to satisfy one side....;-)

Meg

I support your views, to me it is very disresptfull and rude towards the ladies,
to ask on a "pay for sex site" where you can find a fuckbuddy.

It is similar to taking "candy from a kid".

I agree, JJ and Meg. Although the analogy of candy from a kid might not be applicable, lol... because that would imply that it's easier to get a fuckbuddy than a booking with a WG...

A more appropriate analogy would be: Don't shit where you eat.

;)

On 2018-08-05 09:42:37 Lalaa No.1 said:
Fuck buddies are not just fuck buddies

My experiences from my (fuck buddies).....:

Took me out for dinner
Went out for a movie
Bike riding
Holding hands in the mall
Sharing a pie
Bought me 4 tires(for my car)
Paid my medical bills
Bought me groceries
Gave me money
Bought me perfumes

And some of them are punters from esa.....

This is a SUGAR DADDY not a fuck buddy...

On 2018-08-08 10:52:36 Meg said:
I agree. I just think it's stirring.
It's always about everyone's needs....you get selfish...your goal is only to satisfy one side....;-)

Of course satisfaction is the goal and definately two sides , the financial side of the sex workers and the balls draining part of the client, I cant really see why we the clients even bother trying to pleasure the WG fuckit its only our pleasure that matters, the SP have been paid and that is her pleasure as clearly said in numerous posts within this thread! Theyre in it for the food on the table and the money not the fun or the honey. I think if the WG orgasms the price should half goddamit imagine getting a grand to cum !!! Dream job right there.

Now the onslaught and defense will begin and the justification of the suffering and the sacrifice all read and heard before.

10 "O" faces per week is 10K for orgasms per week, yeah no wonder there is offence to the fuck buddy thread , taken its allot of money to loose if punters finds fuckbuddies in these less than prosperous economical times.

I predict screams of suffering and deception about the actual figures to arrise but i firmly believe they are breaking the bank and plead poverty dont be fooled.

Discussing fuckbuddies on this forum is totally in order.
This is after all an adult forum .

Not really understanding why Wgs feel threatened by this thread.
After all we are talking about 2 completely different things.

Also if finding hookups was that easy there would be no need for service providers.
Facts remain that finding that fuckbuddy is akin to finding a needle in a haystack.

My humble 2 cents .

On 2018-08-08 10:09:04 Meg said:
On 2018-08-07 14:47:44 Need4Passion said: On 2018-08-07 13:17:35 Meg said:
Please note I SAID after hours.

Honestly I get paid for my time we all do when working isn't it, so you work for free?

What my clients do is contribute to food on my table, roof over my head... that's how I see my session and give a lot of attention when I know what this booking means to me.

That is the real reason why I'm here is to do business, not being someone's fwb is my body and choice.

And like I said after hours is MY choice how I spend it, kids , family, friends. No man in sight!

Do you really think all ladies think about sex all day long?

Yes they pay for my time like every lady on this site.
And I pay to be here.

I don't give out fee entertainment and that's my choice.
In my opinion one day i should be in a relationship it's the only time someone will get me for free and even then there are some prices to pay.

I won't be no ones f####buddy.
Not now not ever.
It's the other ladies choice how they handle there needs and lives.

And it's yours.
It just the fact that everyone has needs and it overcloud our (men) judgement where it comes to being used .

Done it my personal life. Closed that book and I moved along swiftly.
I know why I'm here.

PS: last thing.., if you can't afford a lady why are you on this site? For love , dating, sex for free..,then you on the wrong site to begin with.

Wow Meg. I had no idea you were taking this personally as nothing I have said had anything to do with you directly. I for one and flippen happy that you are an mg and I'm sure many of the other guys are too since that actually gives us an opportunity to pay and book you whereas we'd probably have no shot in hell of courting you in real life for the reasons you've just mentioned.

That's a silly thing to say about money if you read all the things I said, it clearly says it's something else we try to get that you can't buy.

Neither am I on the wrong site. There are things on this site I want and I'm very happy paying for it when I get it.

Someone just asked about something else we can't get of this site and we're discussing that. Nothing against you.

Hi Need4Passion.

This was just my view.
Like I said I can't talk for everyone on this forum.
Not me or the men on ESA.

Everyone is different with different needs and I have respect for that.

The thing is I need to know that there are still good men out there that value US as woman .( in our personal life's).
There NEEDS to be!!!???

Now here's a example...
i work all day and when I'm done i need to switch off and put the day behind me.
(Sometimes is emotionally draining)
I go out for the night (don't do disco or drinking in public really)
Now you get some drunk or someone who wants to chat with me and the first thing I see he wants to get in my panties ( and that usually takes me a few minutes to figure out what a mans intentions is when they talk to me)

By this time I get irritated because this is MY time (I do this for a living) the only time I have for me and my love ones or my recover mentally time.

Why do I want to pick up a stranger and have sex with him if I don't feel anything for him?
I believe I'm a visual person and mentally my mind needs to be stimulated.

Yes I AM socially unapproachable.
Sorry if I stepped on some toes but this is really a eye opener for me...because every man that crosses my path will be judged (because so many men/woman see nothing wrong by playing with emotions) and just want a Fuckbuddy.

Enjoy the trip gentleman....
Let me get back to what I'm good at....even if I get paid for it...then I really go out of my way to make it a pleasurable moment for my clients. ;-)
(It's actually a turn on to think someone wants me enough to want to pay for my time ) ;-)

Meg,

(It's actually a turn on to think someone wants me enough to want to pay for my time ) ;-)

- well said!

On 2018-08-08 15:31:08 drive66 said:
Meg,

(It's actually a turn on to think someone wants me enough to want to pay for my time ) ;-)

- well said!

I'm just beings honest.....;-)

What's with the assumption that fuck buddy engagements are solely for the benefit of the male party? It's just not true. Last week Thursday night my fuck buddy called me after work to ask if she could sit on my face because she'd had a stressful day. I had no prior plans, so I popped by, ate her out for over an hour and left. We haven't spoken since. We won't speak again until one of us is horny. THAT'S a fuck buddy. Everyone benefits. No pressure. Had I been busy, or not in the mood, I would have politely declined and she would have understood.

I didn't realize that so few people understand the dynamics of a fuck buddy relationship.