Naturally I am an inquisitive person. So I have a question for the forum readers and participants.

Is compulsive, spontaneous and constant swearing on the forum from an SP a turn on or is it off putting. Does that characteristically determine the kind of person one is without systematically judging the individual. How much vulgar is enough vulgar particularly in this industry?

As intriguing as this is to me I found that in some occasions other SPs services and recognition is ignored because of this disorder.

One can be a very nice person but as they say a lady should stay away from aggressive language and behaviour except by mutual consent between the sheets in closed doors.


NB: I am not pointing any fingers. Questions asked can be a microscopic view to better one's service or how well one represents their brand in a psychological manner or more.

What is your take on this? I would love to hear some interesting observations.

@Kimmylee

I do agree with you, 100%, to me it is a complete turnoff. Don't let the industry change who you are.

You are firstly a lady, therefor behave like one in "public". Once that door closes behind you and your customer you free to let go.

Let me say this upfront, Lets agree to disagree on this topic discuss it as civilized people, there is no reason to start any mud slinging or slut shaming.

We all have our personal preferences

imho i try to head towards a more classy women so the vugarity is off putting to me

Kimmylee, this is going to be a very interseting thread.

In general,I cannot recall swearing or using any form of vulgarity on the Forum. When I am in the bedroom, totally different!

Each to their own, as you said we not pointing fingers at anybody. Everyone is entitled to freedom of speech.

Lady Sade

Oh... here I was thinking this was the new norm

It's totally off putting except if it's dirty talk in the bedroom;)

A lady should be just that, a LADY. Occasional swearing is fine

It would be like the state capture very annoying and irritating at times and somewhat a turn on at the right time.

On 2018-08-20 16:36:16 jjsoap said:
@Kimmylee


Let me say this upfront, Lets agree to disagree on this topic discuss it as civilized people, there is no reason to start any mud slinging or slut shaming.

We all have our personal preferences

That is so true. Hence I mentioned that behind closed doors you are indeed able and allowed to express yourself anyhow befitting.

I had a previous discussion with a regular client who told me that he respects me for who and what I am as a person, I am a lady and he loves the sluttiness in me that gets unleashed in a booking merely cause it turns him on. Then in public, especially on the forum I interact well with the purple world. Thus the vulgarity disorder has a certain place for it. I did not find him offensive towards me by his words and actions but I'm limited to that disorder as it only reveals itself in a sexual preference depending on an individual.

Im going to be very blunt here. So would I be judged if everything I say in public always contain the words fuck, shit, slut, bitch, whore, etc.? No matter how much I may be irritated or get into a debate with someone or taking out my frustrations on numerous topics by being vulgar even in my happier state of mind. Will that have negative outlooks/results on my presentations as an SP. Those are the questions that run through my mind. Can it be controlled?

On 2018-08-20 17:23:48 Amsohornee said:
It's totally off putting except if it's dirty talk in the bedroom;)

Exactly this^^