We need that like-thumps up button indeed Melina.

It is not a matter of being judgemental towards women. It is a matter of sticking to the question that was asked.

Respecting the creator of the thread, and not highjacking her topic of conversation.

On 2018-08-20 19:55:48 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
SELLING SEX IS A FUCKING VULGAR BUSINESS!!!

Guys asking to ejaculate their sperm into "LADIES" mouths, on their faces, into their open anuses (Refer Sick Fantasy Thread).

Guys asking "LADIES" to piss or/and shit on them.

Guys wanting to insert their whole hand into "LADIES" vaginas.


Hahahaha this is LALALAND for the VULGAR and DEBAUCHED.

This is a very good point you make.

I have a friend on ESA that sells her self in this manner yet in person she is very soft and gentle nothing like her forum presence.

Does it mean that she is not a lady as because she sells herself in this manner???

Not at all infact she is a real lady in public and a rather busy working girl.

On 2018-08-20 21:26:42 Melina said:
On 2018-08-20 19:55:48 Sultry Indian Jiah said: SELLING SEX IS A FUCKING VULGAR BUSINESS!!!

Guys asking to ejaculate their sperm into "LADIES" mouths, on their faces, into their open anuses (Refer Sick Fantasy Thread).

Guys asking "LADIES" to piss or/and shit on them.

Guys wanting to insert their whole hand into "LADIES" vaginas.


Hahahaha this is LALALAND for the VULGAR and DEBAUCHED.











This is a very good point you make.

I have a friend on ESA that sells her self in this manner yet in person she is very soft and gentle nothing like her forum presence.

Does it mean that she is not a lady as because she sells herself in this manner???

Not at all infact she is a real lady in public and a rather busy working girl.

Hence the question: "How much vulgar is enough vulgar particularly in this industry?"

Absolute turn off for me... Vulgar does not translate into sexiness for me however clever innuendos , sexy bedroom talk , now that's a definite turn in , however that being said , each to their own

On 2018-08-20 23:24:13 Kimmylee said:
On 2018-08-20 21:26:42 Melina said: On 2018-08-20 19:55:48 Sultry Indian Jiah said: SELLING SEX IS A FUCKING VULGAR BUSINESS!!!

Guys asking to ejaculate their sperm into "LADIES" mouths, on their faces, into their open anuses (Refer Sick Fantasy Thread).

Guys asking "LADIES" to piss or/and shit on them.

Guys wanting to insert their whole hand into "LADIES" vaginas.


Hahahaha this is LALALAND for the VULGAR and DEBAUCHED.











This is a very good point you make.

I have a friend on ESA that sells her self in this manner yet in person she is very soft and gentle nothing like her forum presence.

Does it mean that she is not a lady as because she sells herself in this manner???

Not at all infact she is a real lady in public and a rather busy working girl.

Hence the question: "How much vulgar is enough vulgar particularly in this industry?"

It like asking how long a piece of string is in my opinion. Some find it a turn on and some find it off putting. It works for some and for others it just doesn't.

We should not let society tell us what is acceptable or not we should do what we feel is right for us and works for us both in and out of the room as well as in and out of the industry.

We are all unique there is no right or wrong way on how to sell yourself it's just people's perceptions that differs.

Some people like vulgar some people don't.

You need to establish what type of clientle you would like to attract to yourself and do what is right for you

The way some conduct themselves on the forum has both influenced me to visit and put me off. I can't see myself visiting someone who genuinely seems to detest men and is continuously vulgar towards them and jumps on every and any chance to bash.

Sometimes I'm surprised by it when I get to a booking and it's quite off putting. But that's me, I like them lovin

Malina I agree on you last comment.
My vocabulary doesn't define me as person/or make me a lady,
Yes I have no filter.
And yes I do swear.
But that's me.
I'm always a lady it doesn't make me less of one using words that express my feelings at that moment.
I'll rather let people get to know me as a person then pretend I'm being someone I'm not.

It's just as good we complain about the clients using vulgar language to express themselves .
It's also a turn off!

PS: giving the right time with the right person it could be a hell of a turn on!

This is tricky as vulgarity could be in the eye of the beholder. In this rainbow nation of ours things sometimes differ from province to province and from one culture to the next, e.g.where my wife is from, the word "kak" is not considered swearing whereas where I'm from it is.
However, occasional swearing from a lady doesn't make her u ladylike. It's like my man Ludacris said, "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" - and this will include sum dirty talk

if it's normal for a person, i don't have a problem with it. They are after all just words that people use to express themselves with. But if someone is using bad language and it's out of character for them, that is a big turn-off for me.