Nicky and jjsoap, I believe Doubleslappedass is referring to Bareback Riders thread.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


Hope this clears the confusion.

On 2018-08-20 23:02:21 Nicky @ The Doll House said:
Doubleslappedass, can you please reread my comment where you say I said they should be banned. There must be a misunderstanding because I will never say that about girls offering specials. I'm one of the single mommies struggling so I really do understand this.
Yes, I do agree that ladies offering specials are making us less affordable but either way I cant go against any of them, some I know for many years.

Are you maybe confusing my post about racism that needs to be banned instead of non english threads?

True JustJay11, because everything turns into fights

It turns into fights because some people aren't sympathetic and don't understand the struggles of the economy right now. Ladies are suffering, punters have no cash. Then some entitled rich guy makes a thread about how his annoyed by all the specials. Really makes me sick to the stomach.

Can't these ladies start 1 thread, give their whereabouts and specials on that thread? Its irritating to see your daily specials daily

Guys, I don't think he's complaining about specials as a whole. Nothing wrong with them if they are specials and work for the wgvand punter.

He specifically said specials where there there is no detail except CALL FOR INFO. I agree with him there. I used pm or then get told to call. Whenever I did, there was never anything special. It was just a waste of time so I ignore now and also get annoyed with the fishing threads.

Rather put an actual special with what's on offer at what price.

For the situation that Nicky pointed out where the wg needs food and rather take something than nothing, try an actual special like this: "Next booking 500 off. That's right, half price to the next lucky guy." That should surely be better than someone calling and offering R100 or R200 amd the wg still can't manage in that. Or the punter calling hoping to pay R500 and get told R800 since it's R200 off and he gets irritated and says fuck it and no one is happy when that could have been fine to put food on the table and and he'd be happy to get his rocks off.

Who ever said the days of knights in shining armour is past and that chivalry is dead, should read some posts on these purple pages. Some guys are truly whipped by the V.

BBC, try reading the opening post again. it's as Need4passion stated, it's not about the specials. it's about no information being shared. if a store puts on a special they tell you what the saving is.

Just something to add, if a SP offers a special, take up the offer if you like. But never try to negotiate the price, just pay the stated price as confirmed before the booking. This can also apply to the SP's, don't give your rate and charge extra for everything as an extra. It's like buying an entry level Polo and adding extras until it's a Bentley

On 2018-08-21 00:07:53 Kimmylee said:
Nicky and jjsoap, I believe Doubleslappedass is referring to Bareback Riders thread.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


Hope this clears the confusion.

Thanks kimmy that's exactly what I was talking about..

Nicky wrote this..

Maybe esa should come on board and have these ladies banned because like everyone is complaining how specials hurt the rest of us, surely this bareback issue is hurting us more

On 2018-08-21 05:38:32 shoeguy said:
Can't these ladies start 1 thread, give their whereabouts and specials on that thread? Its irritating to see your daily specials daily

--- you do know the ladies actually pay for this forum and can advertise their services anyway they like, plus using one thread to advertise specials does not sound very special at all..

You guys have to make up your minds. You want specials...but dont want to see it posted? Come on...thats a bit stupid? Like said before.....skip over the dammn thread if you dont want to read about a special.

On 2018-08-21 06:58:16 Inquisitive1 said:
...if a SP offers a special, take up the offer if you like. But never try to negotiate the price, just pay the stated price as confirmed before the booking.

Punters need to understand our ladies run "a unique business" but have normal targets to meet (car payment, rent, food - like all of us). I think if a punter cant afford rate quoted said lady is not in your affordability bracket. Move on. I can't afford an Aston Martin so should I still go & try and negotiate it down to the price of a Polo or similar?

On 2018-08-20 17:56:44 Nicky @ The Doll House said:
slum_o, it even annoys us ladies but this industry really took a steep nosedive and ladies feel they'll rather go home with a small something than nothing.

I guess if you havent sit at work yet not knowing how you are going to get home or how you are going to feed your children then you wont completely understand the pressure these ladies are under.

That is the most honest piece of writing I have read on this site

well at least a few guys understood my opening post. The point of the pointless rant is if you are offering a special say what it is...