This past few days I really had some unpleasant phone calls from clients.

Sir if my rates aren't in your punting budget.....move on to the next lady that could accommodate you in your R300 budget.
Or if my services isn't what you looking for don't tri and convince me for more money or keep on pushing me to make a exception.

Please don't be rude and just put the phone down in my ears.

Some people really need to UP there telephone manners!
If you rude to me over the phone how are you going to treat me in my session with you?

I will mark your number for future reference.

I have the decency to answer your call and all your questions in a friendly professional manner.

Respect is earned not just given from both sides of the conversation.

Kind regards......not just another service provider.

On 2018-08-27 09:31:43 Meg said:
This past few days I really had some unpleasant phone calls from clients.

Sir if my rates aren't in your punting budget.....move on to the next lady that could accommodate you in your R300 budget.
Or if my services isn't what you looking for don't tri and convince me for more money or keep on pushing me to make a exception.

Please don't be rude and just put the phone down in my ears.

Some people really need to UP there telephone manners!
If you rude to me over the phone how are you going to treat me in my session with you?

I will mark your number for future reference.

I have the decency to answer your call and all your questions in a friendly professional manner.

Respect is earned not just given from both sides of the conversation.

Kind regards......not just another service provider.

I have had the same experience. Some guys just take rudeness to a new level.
I had the same where a guy was trying to get me to do a session with him for R300 and when I said no he got so rude.
This is the way we ear money so no I won't drop my rates to R300. Can't believe some guys out there

I guess the same goes for both sides. On many occasions I have found the ladies distracted or rude on the phone. Sometimes it's misunderstanding also. However it is so sad that as time goes by people generally are getting so impolite & losing respect but anyway that's another topic.

Yes it does work both ways.

But never in my time doing what I do, the clients just get more rude by the day.

You see some ladies think she's doing you a favor by answering the phone, you where the one that phoned!
I've came across a few ladies that has a strong voice and comes forth as bombastic.... and some are.
But gentleman being rude for no reason at all?
Why do you phone then?
Your call(tone of voice) will determine if the booking will be a success or not.
I know what I am, but sure don't wanna feel like someone's talking down on me as a human being.

I mostly use whatsapp.... If I listen to my own voice (voicenote or something) I sound like a serial murderer or something. So whatsapp is better all round for me.

On 2018-08-27 09:59:58 Skye said:


I have had the same experience. Some guys just take rudeness to a new level.
I had the same where a guy was trying to get me to do a session with him for R300 and when I said no he got so rude.
This is the way we ear money so no I won't drop my rates to R300. Can't believe some guys out there

You will get a lot of them. Just ask them politely to go on the forum and see who has specials on.

What can a client possibly gain by being rude or the ladies then for that matter?
Just say thank you and hang up?

On 2018-08-27 10:25:38 Minime V10.1 said:
I mostly use whatsapp.... If I listen to my own voice (voicenote or something) I sound like a serial murderer or something. So whatsapp is better all round for me.

Can't do Whatsapp.
My phone is still not fixed.

I do prefer to hear what the lady sounds like telephonically, gives you a better overview of who you dealing with.

Back to the point of discussion. Meg you are correct. Respect works both ways. If you start bargaining prices and try and push a lady, then you must expect her to react gents.

On 2018-08-27 11:42:09 Johnd58 said:
I do prefer to hear what the lady sounds like telephonically, gives you a better overview of who you dealing with.

Back to the point of discussion. Meg you are correct. Respect works both ways. If you start bargaining prices and try and push a lady, then you must expect her to react gents.

It's not so much bargaining it's the tri and convince me to change my work policy .
And what we ask we ask, it should suit your pocket or tri another lady who would gladly appreciate your business.
We all have expenses, the punter and ladies.
It's like taking food from a hungry mouth when you start bargaining.

I don't go into shops and ask for discounts, then I rather look for some off the sales products that's just as useful to me.
Or I stay without it.
Like I say to most of the clients.
It's a luxury....not every one can afford.
We the last on clients (needs) priority list.

People rude to me because I don't speak Afrikaans