Good Mrning Ladies and Gents. This thread is mainly directed at married gents but ladies you may add your 2c if it adds value. I'm still kind of in awe with my lacklustre sex life, I'm mid thirties and have devoted my life to wifey dearest and will continue 2do so till death do us part. However, wifey is not a very sexual creature and I've ticked all her emotional boxes and will continue to try and do so. I love cookie and hate the fact that I have to ask for it when it should be given freely. So my question to u married punters who also have lacklustre sex lives at home: Does punting really fill that void 4u?
Anybody wit a similar situation as mine and managed to turn it around?

Well no it does not satisfy the emotional need at all.
It only satisfy the lust side of tings!
But it is better to pay for a WG as having an affair just creates additional problems as in my opinion there cannot be a No String Attached affair.
So WG are safer as there is no emotional bond but riskier as there are all the SDT's to think off!

Exact Same proble here, punting certainly sorts out the horn but it ain't very emotional, but it's still better than fuck all, which is what I would be getting at home..

The best you can hope for is 'non-mechanical' but no, emotion will never enter the equation. It complicates things somewhat. I can (and have) seen a woman as a piece of meat for me to rub and poke with fingers and d1ck but it makes for the worst nightmare punt. I am just not wired right for that. I need to feel just a tiny emotional connection and be able to take it slow. I would sometimes do very little in the first booking so I can get to know the girl a little and for her to become more comfortable with me. But this is a one-way street my friend and I believe the girls feel very little for the men they see. And who can blame them? No woman can be emotionally involved with so many guys!

I would never have thought Id be punting but one can only have so much of fuck all

That's why we are here... to fulfill your sexual needs... NOT your emotional needs. That's why I get along with my married clients... ZERO strings attached... You pay for a service and nothing else... Go home, love your wife, buy her flowers, sit back and smile because today was a good day. :)))

Have you tried NSA? It is more complicated but might work if done right - I just don't know what 'done right' means exactly.

One sometimes come across stories of punters and WGs with a sugar daddy arrangement but they all end very sad - normally the WG agrees to stop 'working' for the duration of the sugar daddy arrangement but does not stick to her word or the punter falls in love with the WG.

NSA arrangements is an affair and that shit has too much potential to become complicated.

On 2018-09-03 09:35:29 J_69 said:
NSA arrangements is an affair and that shit has too much potential to become complicated.

I agree with you 100%...

J_69, I sympathize.

From a personal side I sympathize, wg are great for the naughty fantasies and getting off. I have one regular Wg and the sex is amazing, mainly cause there is kissing and real body to body contact, not just pornstar sex.

But i was fortunate enough to have a fling with a high school sweetheart, we are in similar situation and thus understood the boundaries and rules. The care and emotional attachment were there and the sex was not just sex, it was making love and was completely out this fucking world- felt like we were literally one fromthe first tease when we saw each other on our get togethers to the final goodbye. No sex with a wg , or one night fling has ever matched it for me.