To me, we are buying a fantasy, and I thank all the super hero's of the purple world namely the LADIES.
Let's be honest, we as guys are greedy and can never be satisfied, You can have a super model of a wife, but we will still look elsewhere.
I will own it, and answer truthfully 'I am just horny all the time". I think of sex all the time.

On 2018-09-03 14:33:43 Piqued said:
On 2018-09-03 14:23:26 J_69 said: Well in my case I've been trying, like I said I've made a conscious effort to tick those "emotional boxes" in order to get sum much needed nookie. If all else fails then its the purple world I guess

Ticked all the boxes, based on your criteria or based in hers. If it is based on her criteria, you will get more than you can handle.

, the boxes are bound to move, change , disappear or re arranged with in minutes of you figuring them out.. if you could figure this out you are probably already a millionaire insane genius and are probably not on this website..

Few reasons... some of us are addicted (a dick tit) to sex... some may not get the privacy always at home because of inlaws , kids etc. Some well most are plain greedy... (like me) lmao... and some wives cannot keep up and don't have the same sex drive as their hubbies. Oh yes some are unwell and when a man's head is throbbing then he can only smell cakes. Hehehe

Have been following this thread and here are my 2 cents.

Honestly i just live woman ! I have chosen my wife to spend my life with, but i enjoy woman's body's, not one is the same, from head to toe they are all different and i want to see, feel, taste them all ! My sex life at home us good not great or awesome but with age and time you will fall in a rut. We have done the swinging and threesomes. My wife lost interest because she can't seperate sex and love. I can. That is where the STUNNING ladies from the purple world has come to my rescue. In my mind these ladies keep marriages togheter . Happily married man that enjoys punting to satisfy my craving in a "safe" environment where you get dressed and leave so another man can come and satisfy his needs.

I love my wife. We do have a sexual relationship, but there are certain "activities" she does not enjoy. Men are sexual creatures.

I am very fortunate to have found a regular that ticks all my boxes. I am happy with that arrangement. Like most of you guys said, beats having an affair. No complications!

My wife and I are on the verge of divorce. I come to ESA now not to punt but just to socialise. I love my wife and dont want to lose her ;(

Punting does not fully make up for a sexless life at home, but does bring some momentary relief. There are many circumstances that make it hard to slip into intimacy at home. Over time it becomes hard work: dealing with children, expenses, planning the future, dealing with issues - add to that the stresses of work. There was a time when we would steal a weekend to be away from kids, but that too becomes impractical, as it requires elaborate planning, organizing the necessary support structure to take care of kids, and the mounting expenses that come with that. Overtime sexlessness becomes a proxy for death of intimacy at home. So, to punt is not just about chasing after a new sexual experience or fantasy, yes that matters, but also a search for quasi-intimacy. That somewhat explains the sub-industry of GFE in the purple world. The need to punt often masks a deeper need for intimacy, to feel affirmed. It is better, and I'd say safer, than having an affair. Punting, however, does not offer ultimate fulfillment, but can lead to addiction. Done with moderation, and modulated with masturbation, massages, and periods of celibacy, it can help keep things in balance. Done in extremity, it can lead to emptiness. It must be said, it is not a life-and-death necessity; if I were broke I wouldn't punt, and that would not make me ill. I've yet to hear of someone who ended up in hospital because they had not punted in a long while.

On a different subject, I've wondered: if I have these needs carnal needs and pangs of intimacy, surely my wife has them more? How would I react if I caught her cheating, as punting is surely cheating by other means? Would I be understanding that she is flesh and emotions like I am, and has burning desires like I do? Anyway, a thought.

On 2018-09-03 20:22:16 shoeguy said:
My wife and I are on the verge of divorce. I come to ESA now not to punt but just to socialise. I love my wife and dont want to lose her ;(

There is a way to activate tracking on your wife's cell phone so you will never 'lose her' again :). Keep keeping on mate it will get better..

On 2018-09-03 12:23:41 Nakita said:
I love to have married men by me..no starking" like to make them happy and satisfying there needs..I don't want to be the wife' but the side line fantasy. .

Exactly. :)

xxx

I feel sorry for the one who left his ring at my place. i bet he so in trouble