I have been told there are not such a thing as a stupid question. Only stupid answers. :-)

Nope some questions are just plain stupid. We just gotta be polite enough not to show it. Takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic with replies

The truth is, some men will only book you because you're mixed or black or white. Some will only book you because you're slim, toned/muscular or on the chubbier side.

If men only took into account the skill or technique of the MG, pictures on an ad. would not be necessary.

I hate myself for posting on this forum because I wanted to fly under the radar, but I just couldn't help myself.

Jewel, all I'm trying to say is that you should not take it personally.

On 2018-10-02 21:12:27 Inai said:
I have been told there are not such a thing as a stupid question. Only stupid answers. :-)

There are no stupid questions. Only stupid people!

Thank you to those who have posted positive responses.
To the rest you really don't get it.
Lilly you haven't been around for too long....trust me over time all these kinds of questions will get to you too....then I'd like to hear you say....smile and wave.....I was not being sarcastic as you claim when I said I'm of the human race I was being truthful and factual.
I do not identify as "coloured" so I will not and cannot call myself that.
I am a human being who strives to live a good life and share my healing energy with those who appreciate what I have to share.
The amount of men who have called and messaged me, but especially those who call and ask sheepishly if I will see them because they have a dark skin tone, breaks my heart!
I always tell gents who call or message to ask as many questions as they need to to make an informed decision about where to spend their money...it is this specific question which has NOTHING to do with my ability to provide the professional service I provide that offends me. I am not a fh lady so I cannot understand what the significance of my skin colour has to do with my massage and edging abilities.
As I've already said this place can be toxic so can the people and quite honestly I'm drained and cannot answer each response as I would like to. And my studies are much more important now to waste more time or energy on this. Today is a new day.
We as a people who live in this country need to make a choice...carry on with this absurdity or see beyond the exterior.
When I spoke to a friend in Australia he couldn't believe how racist the people in this country are. He was rightly shocked.
I'm glad in the not too distant future I too will look back on the people here and say thank goodness I'm not there anymore.
Blessings

On 2018-10-02 23:47:08 Rappaport said:
The truth is, some men will only book you because you're mixed or black or white. Some will only book you because you're slim, toned/muscular or on the chubbier side.

If men only took into account the skill or technique of the MG, pictures on an ad. would not be necessary.

I hate myself for posting on this forum because I wanted to fly under the radar, but I just couldn't help myself.

Jewel, all I'm trying to say is that you should not take it personally.

Thank you dear...unfortunately yesterday was a trigger stacking day for me added to a few hours sleep due to working on an assignment....as potential clients you will never know the kinds of men who call/communicate with us and the things they ask....it can start to wear one down over time....I was not designed to stay in this industry for long...my heart is far too gentle

On 2018-10-02 12:24:04 drive66 said:
All i know is Jewel is part of a gorgeous race of goddesses diaguised as humans that have absolutely magical hands!!!

Thank you dear
Xxx

On 2018-10-02 18:09:20 suzook said:
@Jewel, i particularly like this part...

"what race are you"....my reply...."I am of the human race, as this is actually the only race there is"

But plz stop saying this to the guys who call you...

... cos you're not only human, you're an angel aswell... A damn beautiful one too, if i may add !!!

Thank you dear for your kind words.
Much appreciated
Xxx

On 2018-10-02 21:17:45 Lilly said:
Nope some questions are just plain stupid. We just gotta be polite enough not to show it. Takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic with replies

You have a lot to learn.....
I don't "gotta be" anything.
I am a consummate professional and that will never change and my regular gents know this about me.
It's impolite to insult someone you've never had any interactions with especially since you've only just joined the site....

On 2018-10-02 21:17:45 Lilly said:
Nope some questions are just plain stupid. We just gotta be polite enough not to show it. Takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic with replies

Totally agree with you babe...and never underestimate a bit of sarcasm! I've done well despite my penchant for sarcasm! ;)

A very good client even bought me a sticker which read: SARCASM...just another service I offer!