On 2018-10-03 16:53:30 BOOBS53 said:
On 2018-10-03 16:26:59 Tom Wanks said: Wow.... I disappear for a while and come back to this. I thought we come to ESA to FUCK.... not fight.
That's in the past buddy .. punters haven't money to punt .. ladies not been visited .. now we fight on the forum to pass the time ... lol !!!
That is truly sad :(
On 2018-10-03 16:53:30 BOOBS53 said:
On 2018-10-03 16:26:59 Tom Wanks said: Wow.... I disappear for a while and come back to this. I thought we come to ESA to FUCK.... not fight.
That's in the past buddy .. punters haven't money to punt .. ladies not been visited .. now we fight on the forum to pass the time ... lol !!!
Frustrations gotta go somewhere! Lmao
On 2018-10-03 10:52:39 Wlidhorse said:
Good day everyone
I am not a fan of the forum at all, never were, although I read it from time to time, but never used it till yesterday. I think the forum is a very bad, negative and toxic place to find yourself in. Just my opinion.
I used to advertise on ESA but have decided to keep my name out of this thread for personal reasons.
1. I don't want pm's from people who don't have the balls to speak out on the forum like Jewel had with little Minime who thought he could manipulate her in a private pm, or
2. become a target as a newbie who doesn't have the right to go against the "clicks", bullies and gold members who think they own this platform. Bullies of the purple society, who sits in front of a computer, trying to conquer the world, in this case the ESA forum.
3. Become the new addition to the so called "Paige alias" list, while the real so called "Willywonker slush, slush alias" tried to get herself a spot on the Top 10. The one who got away. We do have the right to think what we want, right? Adding everyone who go against Sade to the "Paige alias" list, Sade's sins can be spared, increased and forgotten right? In Afrikaans they call it "toegesmeer". It sounds exactly the same as our corrupt government. Let it go, let it go, let it go they say.
You make a very good point. I am a sinner, just like everyone else. Does the fact that I used Willywonker70 for three reviews. Total of 15 points bother you so much?
Take those points away, 5 per month and I still would have been there? I never once used Willywonker to threaten anybody, SP or client for that matter. I apologised, because I was wrong, but this obviously bothers you so much. Do not need to say anything further!
I certainly don't want to be part of this so called purple world which destroys friendships, hurt, humiliate and harm people emotionally and financially, guilty of breaking rules or not guilty at all. You can only speculate till proven wrong. The forum has become a place where fans become "clicks" and "clicks" become the enemy of anyone standing in their way. Disappointments, bitchiness, people with a lack of confidence, standing together. The guilty become the victim and the victim become the guilty.
Speak for yourself with regards to the above. I find the forum interesting and I post if I find something applicable to my liking.
It is a known fact that I have never belittled, had an argument or anything else that could point any negativity on this forum. Except for my "sin" that you have decided upon yourself to mention.
You mention "clicks". I disagree with that statement. There are no "clicks", just people giving their opinions on different topics. As a matter of fact, since the 'sin" I committed, not one of my GM clients got involved. We all have the same opinion that it is a Sex Site and not a Chrech.
Julian. Don't we all know Julian. Arrogant, self important, nasty cheapskate who can't afford to be a paying client, who think he can manipulate girls for freebies and discounts. Still angry at Paige, who refused to play his little cheapskate game three years ago. Don't we all know Julian.
AC? Andrew? The same old, same old Andrew who's been a client at Elysium since the Bryanston days? He still visits Elysium with his colleagues. If it is the Andrew, say no more.
Just a question? What has this got to do with the Willywonker-Lady Sade thread?
Something bout Paige
I met Paige at Elysium spa 3 years ago. She was one of the top girls. Always dressed to kill with beautiful mini dresses, high heels, hair extensions and perfect makeup. She was very popular and did extremely well.
I started at 10:00 in the morning and went home between 3 and 5, and only work on busy weekends till late, while Paige worked throughout till midnight, 6 days a week and till 8 on Sundays. Then she had to drive all the way back to Vanderbijlpark and back again the next morning.
Every morning she brought her vanity case with her, filled with makeup, hair dryer and straightener. She did the girls hair and makeup who couldn't afford luxuries like that, so that they could look pretty enough for lineups and helped them to gain a bit of self esteem so that they to could make more money.
I disagree, Paige did not do everybody's make up. I know another person who she assisted with make up, but think it is best to rather leave her name out of the equation. I am not here to point fingers, just telling my side of the story.
Paige was the one who made sure she had enough condoms to share with these girls and even gave them some of her old dresses.
I remember that. She took a big bag and dished it out, but you had to pay for the clothing. I remember telling Paige I liked the leatherette pants and two tops. Cannot remember what I paid for them.
As super sexy, elegant and beautiful as Paige was, she was always down to earth.
I knew nothing about Sade before Paige got her the job at the spa. All I knew at that stage was that they were best friends. Sade moved in with Paige after she left her boyfriend and had to depend on Paige for a roof over her head and transport from Vanderbijlpark to Randburg and back, which of course she paid for but things got really bad between them after one crazy busy Friday night.
Paige knew I was in an abusive relationship with a Doctor. She offered me a place to stay. At that stage I had many cars to drive, but they were not owned by me. I have said this to many people. I am very grateful for what Paige did for me. I paid rent, paid towards the fuel, and the lady that cleaned my room and did my washing.
Someone stole Paige car keys out of her handbag. The only key she had. They couldn't go back home. It was passed midnight and Paige couldn't call anyone at that hour, so they had to sleep at the spa on massage beds. The girls lined up to get paid, everything was a mess and abselute ghaos. Sade was beyond herself and blamed Paige for putting her in that situation. All she did was to complain and told Paige that she can't sleep on a massage table due to back pain. Paige offered her the couch and said she wouldn't mind sleeping on the massage table. There were no linen and they had to use towels. Sade went off on Paige and they started a huge fight. Sade did abselutely nothing to help Paige with her dilemma. She was after all paying half of the petrol right? Why should it be her problem. The next morning Paige had to ask her ex husband for help. After that night things changed between them and they were no longer friends. They tried to hide it, but everyone knew. Sade had no other option than to stay with Paige. That's when the shit hit the fan. Things really got bad between them.
My version of the story. I helped and we all searched for the keys. This was not the first time we slept over at Elysium and I slept on a massage bed!
For you who don't know Elysium, it has a bar area, a smoking lounge and a non smoking lounge. We, as in myself, Cathy, Brenda, Lynn, Carol, Marlene, Curry, Paige and Sade were always sitting in the non smoking lounge. We were all part of the Paige/Sade file and I'm sure all of them can elaborate on this matter. So please, be my guest. Even today, the name Sade bring back bad memories.
Another question? Where you there when I handed out gifts to all the girls and Paige threw my gift at me and it hit my head? I walked away, just like I have the past few years while working at Elysium.
Something about Sade
She could never speak about anything but herself. Her intelligence, her degree, her magnificent job in Sun City, her relationship with a millionaire where she had 3 maids, where they served cocktails at the pool whenever she rung a bell, her son's private school, the life that her master, who's part of the CIA, also involved in politics, the President and the White house is going to buy her in USA after selling his 13 million dollar property, and, and, and the list goes on, and on, and on, yet she needed Paige because she had nothing. Interesting, isn't it?
Yes I am sure we all find it interseting. I have a Diploma and not a degree. When I was with the millionare, we made our own cocktails and the only time I ever rang a bell, was when I had my breast operation and I then had a bell because I could not get up. So what if my Son went to a private school. Amazing how you run the man down from America, when many girls used to say Hi? Get your facts straight!
And you call Paige a drama queen??? Always told her stories with hand gestures as if she were conducting an orchestra. We're the ones who had to live and experienced it every day, not only an hour, and defenitely not because of her replies on the forum.
Lol!
Then one day, Sade found herself a rich man again. Paige was over the moon, because she knew Sade would be able to move out. Since she found her sugar daddy she becomes extremely unpopular, not because of her sudden rich life, but because it made her even more self centered. Paige asked Sade to find her own place since she had someone helping her.
Paige was furious and laughed behind my back with her daughter in law, and told me to get out as soon as possible. Not going to elaborate on this, because it happened such a long time ago.
Sade started spreading stories about Paige children. She accused them for stealing her money, her Woolies food, and had to change the locks. She accused Paige for stealing her work phone and her clients when she arrived from a booking. Paige was angry and decided to search for the phone herself, which she found underneath the couch where Sade was sitting. Sade never said sorry from what I can recall.
Yes, Paige found it mysteriously under a chair after two days? Why did the ladies that cleaned the lounge not find it?
And just as we thought she had nothing to add to her list of me, myself and I, a brand new list made its appearance. Her new furniture, her very expensive chandelier, her imported trolley from Italy, her custom made curtains, her fur jackets, her boots, her top of the range tablet, her, her, her and we had to sit and listen to these stories every single day.
Does it really bother you that I have Chandeliers and curtains made for my apartment, not to mention other things. What has this got to do with anybody, how I furnish my place or if I have fur coats or boots? Are you jealous?
Sade left the spa, but only return for a visit when she got something new that she wanted to show off. We used to call her Sade, The brag queen. Keisha had to block Sade after non stop messages when their friendship ended. Taylor complained about more than 30 miss calls that Sade made to her when their friendship ended. If I recall it was also Taylor who said that Sade's sugar daddy drug her with all kinds of pain killers for her nagging and complaining, always miserable and discontented. In Afrikaans they call it "ipicorners" (ha-ha). Drama queen galore at her best. When she left the spa she had only one friend left.
Another question, why would my so called "Sugar Daddy" drug me. Why not just leave me? Lol!
I never called Tyler after we stopped speaking to each other. I called her today and she denied ever saying that she said anything about pills or missed calls.
Do you remember the last time I was at Elysium, I bought cup cakes and funny enough the girls that disliked me, were the first to dig in for a cup cake. A lady said to me look what they doing, placing cakes in a lunch box. I in turn said leave them, I promised cup cakes and let them do what they want.
Before that incident I was sent a picture of the invitations stating a Birthday Party in honour of Miss Paige. You were allowed cake if you had an invitation. If you had no invite you had to stare at people having a party you were not invited to.
Another point I would really like to END is my Woolworths food. I am entitled to eat! The arrangement was that I do not eat, and I must buy my own food. I used the fridge, and I ate accordingly. Why is there such an obsession with my Woolworths food?
I never blamed or accused anybody of stealing anything. I locked my door, because it was my right to lock my personal belongings. I find this so halarious that I would ever accuse anyone of stealing food?
After reading this thread I just couldn't help myself. So typical Sade to revive herself in such a way. So Typical Sade to play the poor and innocent victim. The only reason she said sorry on public forum was because she don't want to get her ass banned.
Another accusation, you have wrong. I had the guts to come clean and apologise!
Talking about red flags and flies on the wall, the way she described herself through her own eyes is sickening. "Peeking at your beautiful breasts ". (ha-ha) You got to give her a gold medal for making a fool of herself.
No I think I deserve a gold medal for putting up with all these accusations.
That's exactly the Sade that I and so many others remember. And to save her ass, you want Paige to suffer the consequences of Sade's actions.
Do not understand that either. Paige has attacked me in more ways then one and I have kept quiet. Today, I just had enough!
I don't know Veronica or Minimee, sexyhumour, Climax or the rest of the "click" but there is a saying that goes "birds of the same feathers" but sounds way better in Afrikaans. "soort soek soort" or "elke pot het 'n deksel" even in friendships. I don't blame Paige for her feelings towards Sade, in fact, I totally understand, but maybe it's time to forgive and forget and to bury the past.
For someone who knows everything about everybody, but hates the forum and does not agree with it. You sure as hell know so much!
To Paige, you can't move on in life if you can't make peace. Time will heal and the fact that you left the forum was the best choice you could have made towards inner peace. Seeing the name Sade on the forum every day only reminds you of the past, that's if you are reading this thread.
You really need to end the forum life for good. You know who I am and where to find me and if you ever want to pop in for a visit, please do. We miss you. I will send you a pm.
To the "clicks", forum bullies, and arrogant GM, I'm not another alias, but feel free to speculate.
Good luck
Thank you so much for your understanding.
I have many things I could say about many people, including Paige. We are all adults and we all have skeletons in our closets. I am not a vendictive person and I am not going to discuss this anymore.
I can bring out eye opening skeletons on the forum. If this matter of my dignity and my personal life continues, I will not think twice to open the can of worms.
Everyone is entitled to their own ridiculous opinion. I wish to lay this to rest. I have apologised and I would like to move on as an adult woman!
And as for the person who wrote this. Please get your facts right before you accuse me or anybody else of such lies. I am now done!
Lady Sade
On 2018-10-03 16:53:43 Climax said:
On 2018-10-03 16:38:38 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:32:30 Sexyhumour said: On 2018-10-03 16:29:51 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:26:55 Climax said: Where's my "clique" at y'all?
That's so 1985...
Thank you @Ms V
Next thing we'll be saying shit like 'Groovy baby' yeah...lets go back in time! Anybody know Victorian slang?
Isht-Nooooooo....."groovy baby" you sound so "funky"...
Isn't 'funky' a bad smell?
On 2018-10-03 16:56:45 Veronica Franco said:
On 2018-10-03 16:53:43 Climax said: On 2018-10-03 16:38:38 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:32:30 Sexyhumour said: On 2018-10-03 16:29:51 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:26:55 Climax said: Where's my "clique" at y'all?
That's so 1985...
Thank you @Ms V
Next thing we'll be saying shit like 'Groovy baby' yeah...lets go back in time! Anybody know Victorian slang?
Isht-Nooooooo....."groovy baby" you sound so "funky"...
Isn't 'funky' a bad smell?
Funky=cool hehehehehehe.
Edited: 2018-10-03 17:35:44
On 2018-10-03 16:56:45 Veronica Franco said:
On 2018-10-03 16:53:43 Climax said: On 2018-10-03 16:38:38 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:32:30 Sexyhumour said: On 2018-10-03 16:29:51 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-03 16:26:55 Climax said: Where's my "clique" at y'all?
That's so 1985...
Thank you @Ms V
Next thing we'll be saying shit like 'Groovy baby' yeah...lets go back in time! Anybody know Victorian slang?
Isht-Nooooooo....."groovy baby" you sound so "funky"...
Isn't 'funky' a bad smell?
I'm 2018 it is, in 19whatever it was, it meant "cool"
On 2018-10-03 16:55:33 Arhwen said:
On 2018-10-03 16:53:30 BOOBS53 said: On 2018-10-03 16:26:59 Tom Wanks said: Wow.... I disappear for a while and come back to this. I thought we come to ESA to FUCK.... not fight.
That's in the past buddy .. punters haven't money to punt .. ladies not been visited .. now we fight on the forum to pass the time ... lol !!!
That is truly sad :(
That is sad indeed Arhwen :(
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