Oh Jewel sweety when I said it takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic I wasn't talking about you and how you identify.

That was entirely about me, and the fact that I can get really sarcastic so I meant it takes a lot for me not to answer in that way when I get stupid questions. Ms VF got what I was trying to say. Nothing offensive towards you at all.

Yes I haven't been here that long and I'm not gonna say shit like this won't get to me. That will come at some point and maybe I'll dish out the sarcasm without a thought. That's still yet to come.

I view this industry as if it were the hospitality industry, you learn to smile and wave everyday even though the person right in front of you is as stupid as a brick. You grin and bear. That's what I learned in hospitality and I feel that's how I will carry myself here.

Again this was not about you identifying as human race, that is you and it's a beautiful thing. I have nothing against that.

Totally didn't mean for my post to be read in that way. My Intention was not to be rude to you in any sense. I didn't mean to insult you. I was going to be quiet but I realise this has been taken the wrong way so I hope this clears it.

Please accept my apology. I'm being sincere that I was not trying to offend you.

On 2018-10-03 16:50:42 Veronica Franco said:
On 2018-10-02 21:17:45 Lilly said: Nope some questions are just plain stupid. We just gotta be polite enough not to show it. Takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic with replies

Totally agree with you babe...and never underestimate a bit of sarcasm! I've done well despite my penchant for sarcasm! ;)

A very good client even bought me a sticker which read: SARCASM...just another service I offer!

Lol I know what you mean. I only get like that with people I know will get it. The rest I just smile and tell them to fuck off in my mind

@jewel

Your Aussie friend was shocked at how racist we are.

I beg to differ.
Australians are just as racist if not worse than South Africans.

They discriminate against the Aborigines on a daily basis.
The new target are the Asians.
The Vietnamese are referred to as boat people and treated with contempt.
Almost all Asians are classified in that group.
So if your intention is to go to Australia be prepared for a rude awakening.
Australians don't like people of colour.

You won't be welcomed there with open arms.
They are after all descendants of criminals and convicted thieves.

On 2018-10-03 18:15:41 Lilly said:
On 2018-10-03 16:50:42 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-10-02 21:17:45 Lilly said: Nope some questions are just plain stupid. We just gotta be polite enough not to show it. Takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic with replies

Totally agree with you babe...and never underestimate a bit of sarcasm! I've done well despite my penchant for sarcasm! ;)

A very good client even bought me a sticker which read: SARCASM...just another service I offer!

Lol I know what you mean. I only get like that with people I know will get it. The rest I just smile and tell them to fuck off in my mind

Most don't get it anyway...just be yourself!

On 2018-10-03 15:10:52 Jewel said:
Thank you to those who have posted positive responses.
To the rest you really don't get it.
Lilly you haven't been around for too long....trust me over time all these kinds of questions will get to you too....then I'd like to hear you say....smile and wave.....I was not being sarcastic as you claim when I said I'm of the human race I was being truthful and factual.
I do not identify as "coloured" so I will not and cannot call myself that.
I am a human being who strives to live a good life and share my healing energy with those who appreciate what I have to share.
The amount of men who have called and messaged me, but especially those who call and ask sheepishly if I will see them because they have a dark skin tone, breaks my heart!
I always tell gents who call or message to ask as many questions as they need to to make an informed decision about where to spend their money...it is this specific question which has NOTHING to do with my ability to provide the professional service I provide that offends me. I am not a fh lady so I cannot understand what the significance of my skin colour has to do with my massage and edging abilities.
As I've already said this place can be toxic so can the people and quite honestly I'm drained and cannot answer each response as I would like to. And my studies are much more important now to waste more time or energy on this. Today is a new day.
We as a people who live in this country need to make a choice...carry on with this absurdity or see beyond the exterior.
When I spoke to a friend in Australia he couldn't believe how racist the people in this country are. He was rightly shocked.
I'm glad in the not too distant future I too will look back on the people here and say thank goodness I'm not there anymore.
Blessings

Jewel honey there was nothing sarcastic about how i roll i to am mixed race my biological father was a Scottsman my mom's dad was Cape Malay aka colored and my gran a hindi. The fact is majority coloreds are mixed race.

Also there was nothing sarcastic about my response. I have been in this industry forever and a day i am one of the veteran Sps. The advice i gave you was genuine and honest use it dont use it. Your choice.

The reality is that people will always have preferences both in and out of this industry be it a male or a female for some its race for others its body type for others its mannerisms.

Respect that and allow them the freedom to choose.

Again acceptance is the key.

On 2018-10-03 18:32:18 Johnlennon said:
@jewel

Your Aussie friend was shocked at how racist we are.

I beg to differ.
Australians are just as racist if not worse than South Africans.

They discriminate against the Aborigines on a daily basis.
The new target are the Asians.
The Vietnamese are referred to as boat people and treated with contempt.
Almost all Asians are classified in that group.
So if your intention is to go to Australia be prepared for a rude awakening.
Australians don't like people of colour.

You won't be welcomed there with open arms.
They are after all descendants of criminals and convicted thieves.

100 % correct infact they have a area for South Africans only which i call Australias little Africa.

My Dad was Welsh and my Mom was Hungarian.
That makes me"Mixed Race" also,but you can just refer to me as WELHUNG .

On 2018-10-03 19:22:19 semensquirter said:
My Dad was Welsh and my Mom was Hungarian.
That makes me"Mixed Race" also,but you can just refer to me as WELHUNG .

Lmao can i see please :)

On 2018-10-03 19:26:54 Arhwen said:
...Lmao can i see please :)...

Yes...but NO Pictures to be taken during the session...

LOL

On 2018-10-03 19:32:53 semensquirter said:
On 2018-10-03 19:26:54 Arhwen said: ...Lmao can i see please :)...
Yes...but NO Pictures to be taken during the session...

LOL

Lol dont spoil my fun. Videos perhaps??? I promise it will be for my eyes only :) at leadt in that moment ;)