Spot on Burfi...we all reserve the right to choose who we are intimate with, SP and punter alike.

On 2018-10-04 20:01:00 Burfi said:
On 2018-10-04 04:44:31 ShaneAdam said:

On the opposite end of the spectrum, us punters, are also confronted with similar cases. I'd pose this question to my fellow punters here, "Have you ever been asked what race group you were classified in?" If I get a single answer to this question as "No", I'd probably not believe it, or just assume it's a rare case and consider that person to be lucky......... Cos in my opinion, it is us punters that contribute towards their income, in exchange for their services rendered..... There's no white money, or black money, or mixed money, or Indian money...money is money, regardless of the race group from which it's obtained, so either offer your services to all race groups, or none at all, in my opinion!






Boss, are you by any chance related to Zaine?

Anyways, yes all of us non-white punters get asked what race we are all the time. My worst was at a venue years ago where at the line up, a farmer lady said in front of me and the madam in africaans: "Sorry I dont nail c**lies". I did relate that incident on the forum before. I wasnt offended at all, I actually found it shit hilarious!

I do fucking hate it when a WG asks me what race I am over the phone and always correct them and tell what you mean to ask me is what is my "ethnicity".
And then they also get pissed off when they ask me "What nationality are you?" and I answer South African. Lol!


I do strongly disagree with your sentiments that the WGs *must* offer their services to ALL race groups or none at all. Considering the very nature of this unique business, every single lady (whatever her skin color or ethnicity) MUST HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHO SHE ALLOWS IN HER MOST INTIMATE SPACE!

I definitely support any ladies right to ROAR whatever it may be. Similarly I support a punter's right to choose.

Clapping hands like never before :)

Dude im going to make you a special batch of koesiesters and if i can find some jalebi ill gladly add it to that ;) i hope you have a sweet tooth.

"Actually, we South Africans are all "coloureds"."

m.news24.com/Columnists/MaxduPreez/south-africans-historic-ties-with-indonesia-and-what-it-means-today-20181002

On 2018-10-04 20:33:49 Vegas said:
"Actually, we South Africans are all "coloureds"."

m.news24.com/Columnists/MaxduPreez/south-africans-historic-ties-with-indonesia-and-what-it-means-today-20181002

I haven't had a history lesson since the red bus tour in December. Here i thought I was the only mixed race person that is colored. Even though I have shocked people when i tell them I am colored some say i look asian must be the olive eyes and straight hair aka the glad's others say i look white mmmmmm must be the fair skin glads and green eyes. Lol i always respond with but my hair goes home lmao

I agree with Burfi, as certain ladies choose to see who they like, we as paying customers have the right to ask..

On 2018-10-04 19:59:27 Arhwen said:
On 2018-10-04 18:25:35 vampirezn said: Are you people serious?

Coz a chick has butthurt from being asked what race she is then it's ok to throw a pity party?

When a guy bitches about ROAR then it's always the guys problem??

Our Randela's are all the same.

OP put on your big girl panties

Around of applause you are my new hero :)

Thank you ma'am, when you need rescuing I may be obliged to assist ;)

Double post

Triple post, too much excitement for my phone

On 2018-10-04 21:15:13 vampirezn said:
Triple post, too much excitement for my phone

Lol, we have that effect on guys! ;)

On 2018-10-03 18:06:55 Lilly said:
Oh Jewel sweety when I said it takes a lotta will power not to be sarcastic I wasn't talking about you and how you identify.

That was entirely about me, and the fact that I can get really sarcastic so I meant it takes a lot for me not to answer in that way when I get stupid questions. Ms VF got what I was trying to say. Nothing offensive towards you at all.

Yes I haven't been here that long and I'm not gonna say shit like this won't get to me. That will come at some point and maybe I'll dish out the sarcasm without a thought. That's still yet to come.

I view this industry as if it were the hospitality industry, you learn to smile and wave everyday even though the person right in front of you is as stupid as a brick. You grin and bear. That's what I learned in hospitality and I feel that's how I will carry myself here.

Again this was not about you identifying as human race, that is you and it's a beautiful thing. I have nothing against that.

Totally didn't mean for my post to be read in that way. My Intention was not to be rude to you in any sense. I didn't mean to insult you. I was going to be quiet but I realise this has been taken the wrong way so I hope this clears it.

Please accept my apology. I'm being sincere that I was not trying to offend you.

This is truly an example of a genuinely heartfelt post on this forum. The grace of this reply humbled me to a point of thinking to myself.. wow

Why can't more people just be real and open like this. Lilly you are TRULY rare type of person.. salute!