I'll be very angry... because i was not invited to the 3sum... lol

I would be very forgiving because I'm not clean myself. Afterall, what am I doing on this site to be holier-than-thou? The same goes for all of you. Please forgive her. You are also dirty.

Hmm depends..Its a tough situation..Dont think I will divorce the wife..may just get even a couple of times...Those of you who are married and begging for sex need to visit "marriedredpill" on reddit...

On 2018-10-14 12:15:03 Blaza said:
If it's an occasional, discreet side action, I have no problem with it. I actually think it's good for the marriage if both partners engage in some side action from time to time and it should not be a deal breaker

Agreed, but if she getting side action but not putting out at home, then that is a massive deal breaker.

On 2018-10-15 08:10:04 Gav31 said:
On 2018-10-14 12:15:03 Blaza said: If it's an occasional, discreet side action, I have no problem with it. I actually think it's good for the marriage if both partners engage in some side action from time to time and it should not be a deal breaker

Agreed, but if she getting side action but not putting out at home, then that is a massive deal breaker.

Agreed..
I started punting also due to begging for sex, lucky to get it once every 2 weeks

It would be hypocritical for a married punter to outright cry 'divorce' if he finds out his wife is messing around, but if both of you are looking elsewhere to find pleasure, then I will pretty much say the marriage is over...

Open relationships are a sham in my opinion. I actually know couples who both mess around and are open to each other about it and claim they are both 'on board' and 'happy' with said arrangement. I promise you they really arent.

I am happy being single. I won't be a good husband. I am too selfish.

My wife knows I have been punting during our marriage..initially raging furious, but also turned on...
My work led me to be living thousands of Kms away for months at a time, and she later admitted she had had a couple of single time flings...one I was a bit angry about as the guy and circumstance was stupid, the other one she stayed overnight with him (but had taken our kid with her!!!!!!????###).
But no major problems, I know they didn't mean anything to her, and actually turned me on a bit.....

In my opinion married women are the best - they tread you like a king, but don't expect to much back financially.