On 2018-10-16 13:10:37 Doubleslappedass said:
Don't remember saying she was the wrong woman, just that she is not at all interested in sex, I don't think I blamed her either, all I am saying is if you wake up every day, of every week, of every year for 6 years , to be rejected by the only person you you are really supposed to be having sex with then that hits your self esteem and all the talking and negotiating in the world cannot change it, yes you can pull the escape lever but why would you fuck up your children and your life for a bit of pussy? All I am saying is I noticed the lack of sexuality long before I married my lady, and if I had the choice again I would probably have gone with the woman who were a lot more banging in bed as that trait may have helped a lot more into my future..

For 6 years, I would have not stayed one. Children is a poor excuse for staying in a dissatisfying relationship. You still fuck up a child's life by teaching them to not grab life by the horns.

Yeah children of divorce don't work out very well, the statistics show that, the 66% of children without a father in South Africa show that

www.verywellfamily.com/children-of-divorce-in-america-statistics-1270390

And we do get along well and I pretty much grab the bull by the horn everyday , run my own successful business as someone else said there is More to life than sex, just it would be nice to have it all., so marry the whore young men, you been on this site means you already have a high labido and that ain't going to change..

Men need woman to supply the 3 f's. And Maslow supports this
Feed me
Fuck me
Flatter me

If she cannot do these 3 love on do not marry.

On 2018-10-16 13:25:31 2cool4u007 said:
On 2018-10-16 13:10:37 Doubleslappedass said: Don't remember saying she was the wrong woman, just that she is not at all interested in sex, I don't think I blamed her either, all I am saying is if you wake up every day, of every week, of every year for 6 years , to be rejected by the only person you you are really supposed to be having sex with then that hits your self esteem and all the talking and negotiating in the world cannot change it, yes you can pull the escape lever but why would you fuck up your children and your life for a bit of pussy? All I am saying is I noticed the lack of sexuality long before I married my lady, and if I had the choice again I would probably have gone with the woman who were a lot more banging in bed as that trait may have helped a lot more into my future..

For 6 years, I would have not stayed one. Children is a poor excuse for staying in a dissatisfying relationship. You still fuck up a child's life by teaching them to not grab life by the horns.

I could never disagree with any decent parent who chooses to make the marriage work for the sake of the kids. However, if u are fuckin da kids up by sticking 2gether then rather part ways. Marriage is not all about sex and that's why Mr Ass is probably still with the wife. However, Sex is an xtremely essential brick in the "marriage foundation". There's similarities 4me in Ass's statements:Am I getting enuf cookie - Fuck No. Would I leave my wife bcaus she's selfish with the cookie - Hell No, I would rather choke my chicken for da rest of my life than walk out for lack of sex. I too would always put my kids and my wife's wishes b4 mine. That being said, that's why we married blokes are here

On 2018-10-16 13:32:34 Doubleslappedass said:
Yeah children of divorce don't work out very well, the statistics show that, the 66% of children without a father in South Africa show that

www.verywellfamily.com/children-of-divorce-in-america-statistics-1270390

And we do get along well and I pretty much grab the bull by the horn everyday , run my own successful business as someone else said there is More to life than sex, just it would be nice to have it all., so marry the whore young men, you been on this site means you already have a high labido and that ain't going to change..

There is more to life than sex until you're not getting it from the woman u chose to share life with, then it's all that is on your mind

Fair point doubleslappedass. I was very wisely advised if you have the slightest doubt, don't do it until you have a comfort level. I still remember my doubt moment would have saved myself years of angst if I listened and acted on it.

Hi good people.
Okay this is my opinion about this topic. Firstly allow me to say this first before I go any further. This "conservative woman and whore" women labels are bullshit. We are all women, we are all the same. Only difference is how we are experiencing life as human beings. A woman working a 8am-4pm job is not different nor better then a woman who is working as an escort/working girl, society has instilled a lot of crazy things in our heads so they can control humankind. Conservative women they have multiple partners who they are in intimate relationships with and they tell their partners almost everyday that they love them and they get money just like "whores" the only difference is that "whores" see more men compared to "conservative women". So with this huge different exposure of men in our lives obviously the way we express ourselves sexually will not be the same. Women that are labelled "normal and wife material"just because they are not on the escorts sites butt naked are exposed to a very tiny percentage of men that they are in sexual relationships with and you'll find that the 4 or 5 men they are with, they all *Uck her the same, boring way. So just because she is a "conservative,normal and wife material" type of woman according to "society", the man will try by all means to be normal with that one position with him being on top and the "wife material" woman just laying there until he cums and she can't wait for him to get off her. It's not a matter of women not loving sex but they get bored of always doing one and the same thing. It's very difficult to love something you are not fully exposed to. Us escorts,whores, WG,"not so normal" women lol are exposed to a huge percentage of men with different fantasies, different positions theyve always wanted to try but couldn't do with the wife so they bring to us all these fantasies for them to experience. So all these different experiences from different men they sort of opens one up then turn from a "conservative woman to a whore".
"Conservative women" - less experience and less practice.
"Whores"- were "conservative women" at some point in their lives and their fault is allowing themselves to experience and practice sex and they got to a point where they realised that sex is not a bad thing and as a woman you can enjoy sex just like men do and fell in love with sex and you get to be open minded about it and not ashamed about talking about it and admitting that you love sex and not scared to ask for *ick and actually own it when you get it then you get to be labelled a "whore" just because society teaches us that only men are supposed to love and enjoy sex not women. We are all the same, just experiencing life in different ways. Being labelled with disgusting names just because of the life you are experiencing, it's bad and it's childish behaviour not that it affects me being called by that name because to me what other people think about me doesn't really matter, what matters is what I think about myself. Just saying that on behalf of the women who may feel offended or little when such words are being thrown around. Experiencing this part of life has been one of my biggest blessings ever, I've learnt so much and grew up a lot in more ways then I did when I was "conservative woman",lol.
The amazing and mysterious things one learns when you just let Your creator, Universe or God be your teacher they are just mind blowing and understand that you are not your life experiences and challenges even though society will tell you that you are.. we must stop conforming to what society tells us or we will never get to experience life the way we want and be happy while doing so.

On 2018-10-16 14:01:34 Alexa said:
Hi good people.
Okay this is my opinion about this topic. Firstly allow me to say this first before I go any further. This "conservative woman and whore" women labels are bullshit. We are all women, we are all the same. Only difference is how we are experiencing life as human beings. A woman working a 8am-4pm job is not different nor better then a woman who is working as an escort/working girl, society has instilled a lot of crazy things in our heads so they can control humankind. Conservative women they have multiple partners who they are in intimate relationships with and they tell their partners almost everyday that they love them and they get money just like "whores" the only difference is that "whores" see more men compared to "conservative women". So with this huge different exposure of men in our lives obviously the way we express ourselves sexually will not be the same. Women that are labelled "normal and wife material"just because they are not on the escorts sites butt naked are exposed to a very tiny percentage of men that they are in sexual relationships with and you'll find that the 4 or 5 men they are with, they all *Uck her the same, boring way. So just because she is a "conservative,normal and wife material" type of woman according to "society", the man will try by all means to be normal with that one position with him being on top and the "wife material" woman just laying there until he cums and she can't wait for him to get off her. It's not a matter of women not loving sex but they get bored of always doing one and the same thing. It's very difficult to love something you are not fully exposed to. Us escorts,whores, WG,"not so normal" women lol are exposed to a huge percentage of men with different fantasies, different positions theyve always wanted to try but couldn't do with the wife so they bring to us all these fantasies for them to experience. So all these different experiences from different men they sort of opens one up then turn from a "conservative woman to a whore".
"Conservative women" - less experience and less practice.
"Whores"- were "conservative women" at some point in their lives and their fault is allowing themselves to experience and practice sex and they got to a point where they realised that sex is not a bad thing and as a woman you can enjoy sex just like men do and fell in love with sex and you get to be open minded about it and not ashamed about talking about it and admitting that you love sex and not scared to ask for *ick and actually own it when you get it then you get to be labelled a "whore" just because society teaches us that only men are supposed to love and enjoy sex not women. We are all the same, just experiencing life in different ways. Being labelled with disgusting names just because of the life you are experiencing, it's bad and it's childish behaviour not that it affects me being called by that name because to me what other people think about me doesn't really matter, what matters is what I think about myself. Just saying that on behalf of the women who may feel offended or little when such words are being thrown around. Experiencing this part of life has been one of my biggest blessings ever, I've learnt so much and grew up a lot in more ways then I did when I was "conservative woman",lol.
The amazing and mysterious things one learns when you just let Your creator, Universe or God be your teacher they are just mind blowing and understand that you are not your life experiences and challenges even though society will tell you that you are.. we must stop conforming to what society tells us or we will never get to experience life the way we want and be happy while doing so.

Great stuff Alexa.

I know a lot of people believe in this "sex is not everything" statement. if sex isn't everything then why is it so many people are getting dirvoced. I've never been married and divorced but from what I've seen and heard from people who have been down this road everything started falling apart when they stopped *ucking, then the cheating starts and then wgs, then someone will get caught of which that will lead to a divorce and some will prefer holding on for the kids sake but the warmth and happiness they once shared when sex was still on the cards is gone because now there's no sex anymore and even worse when they sleep in separate rooms. Sex is everything and if it wasn't there wouldn't be escort sites because men would be okay with just being at home every day with their wives/girlfriends and not getting some anywhere.

What you see in your world is a percentage of what happens in reality. People get divorced for financial reasons, they just don't love each other anymore, distance. attention, appreciation, families not getting on, domestic abuse etc.

There are couples who have stood the test of time and have slept in separate beds. You might see more of the divorce because of sex issue because people have become more fickle about outward appearance and sex. Those 'attractive', 'High achieving' couples are some of the most miserable sods I know. But the line rings true marriage is a whole lot more than just sex and yes this is the oldest profession so it fills the gap.

Men and women are equally guilty on this front.