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What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:10:32
Edited: 2018-10-24 12:33:50
Edited: 2018-10-24 12:33:50
..... to handle a punter I do not want to see again. He did absolutely nothig wrong, wasn't disrespectful, isn't dirty, etc. I just don't connect with him.....to such an extent that I don't want to see him again. He is talking about next time. I have never felt so adamant about not wanting to see someone ever again. Normally I would have a valid reason. But this time I don't have one other than our energies don't connect.
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:15:43
Ask him if he'd mind picking up your herpes medication on his way over.
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:23:26
Not answer on messages and calls
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:35:28
Dont agree with Mila, politely but clearly, without room for any misunderstanding tell the client when he next tries to book?
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:38:32
Send him a message that you are taking a break from the industry, and that you will contact him when you return.Then just never contact him again.
Many punters visit ladies because of rejection issues in their normal lives.He could be one of them, and not taking his calls can be seen a rejection. Many react differently to this, some violently.
Take Care and let him down slowly!
You have a lovely,rational mind.I know you will find the best solution.
Stay safe!
Many punters visit ladies because of rejection issues in their normal lives.He could be one of them, and not taking his calls can be seen a rejection. Many react differently to this, some violently.
Take Care and let him down slowly!
You have a lovely,rational mind.I know you will find the best solution.
Stay safe!
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:39:30
Block his number so he cant contact you
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:46:16
Yes, as Paul says, blocking the number might be the best option.
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 12:47:49
I would say just tell him straight away,I'm sure he would appreciate it.i have been in that kind of the situation before,i am an honest person. I just explained to him that I didn't feel an connection between us.so I suggest he find ladies that will rock his world as I am not that girl at all.He understood but still he always tried to convince me to see him,but I wouldn't.
Hurt him with the truth,if you just block him.that will be not nice.
Hurt him with the truth,if you just block him.that will be not nice.
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 13:15:50
Do not chase him away, he has find somebody he likes. You just have to separate business with pleasure and go on.
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Re: What would be the best way
Posted: 2018-10-24 13:19:05
She's a Capricorn pretending it's not in our genes...
Nads tell him you can't see him anymore, I'm in the most gentle of ways...
On 2018-10-24 13:15:50 Sandon said:
Do not chase him away, he has find somebody he likes. You just have to separate business with pleasure and go on.
She's a Capricorn pretending it's not in our genes...
Nads tell him you can't see him anymore, I'm in the most gentle of ways...
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