Farmer dude, kno exactly what u want in a girl and make that your objective, don't let looks be your be all and end all. I'm always reminded of the great philosopher Eminem, in one of his songs he said, "there's no such thing like a female with good looks who cooks and cleans" :-)) my 2c

What is "bad one"? Guys who beat you? Cheat on you? Break you down emotionally and psychologically to the point that you think you are realy worthless?

And what is a nice guy? [/QUOTE]

Yes Burfi. Unfortunately I have been through all of that.
But that made me smarter and stronger and I won't put up with any of that shit again.your young and make mistakes but you learn from them and it makes you stronger as a person

We have all had our share of bad decision "jerks"
Why we choose them I don't know but I hope I'm wiser now. Lol

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201409/10-signs-youre-in-relationship-narcissist



www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating-narcissism-sex-love-relationships-couples-boyfriend-girlfriend-self-obsessed-egotism-a8292316.html


uk.businessinsider.com/why-am-i-attracted-to-narcissists-2017-3

@ Skye and Jenna; If I have half a chance with beauties as yourself, I'd be all like: I'm just a boy, standing in front of a girl......

Damn your ex'es were fools.

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On 2018-11-09 12:25:58 Burfi said:
@ Skye and Jenna; If I have half a chance with beauties as yourself, I'd be all like: I'm just a boy, standing in front of a girl......

Damn your ex'es were fools.

Haha thank you babe xxxx

On 2018-11-09 10:33:55 Burfi said:
On 2018-11-09 10:10:40 Princec said:

May I add guys that appear to be jerks aren't really jerks they just do it because they understand that it creates distance between themselves and unknown chance takers


But many jerks actually are really jerks. There is a difference (I think) between a bona fide jerk and the classical successful "alpha male".


Any ways, it is an interesting question that sometimes has no logical answers. For example I can't understand why women choose to stay with jerks that physically fucks them up every weekend, says sorry on Monday and the lady stays, gladly nursing the bruises.

I once witnessed this scene outside a shopping centre. Gorilla jerk slapping the wife/girlfriend around. Good samaritans come to the rescue and start smacking the gorilla around. Dishevelled wife/girlfriend goes ballistic screaming at the good samaritans to leave him. Few seconds later she helps him up and off they go. WTF moment.

My man one of the things I have place for and never will is a man that raises his hand on a woman doesn't matter how far he justifies it. If u give a woman reason to act in a certain way theres 95 - 98% chance she will act that way. Go to gym punch a bag go to one of the casi I can bet u will get a better fight there. On the other hand the day women begin to realize their worth and I mean their real worth not what society or jerks dictate I can guarantee u all that I have this world will be a better place.

Men act within boundaries. We realize them and try to expend on them. Problem is we sometimes become selfish with these boundaries.
May I add I am no perfect man. I do also do things that upset ladies

These kind if topics make me extend my membership