On 2019-01-07 19:06:55 johndoe69za said:
Playkinky, any transaction between you and a wg is private and the details don't belong on the forum where all you are looking for is validation of your point of view.

Any gift given should not be considered as part payment without consent. Maybe she needs the money to pay her rent or buy food so a latex outfit gets her nowhere despite the fact she can maybe use it elsewhere. Kinda like taking your own condoms and expecting a discount as she can wash them and use them later

Yes that's why I asked her and as I said it is ultimately her choice.

The key point is it being used after for other things as to why I think maybe a discount.

Of course she has option to say no. There after I can decide to buy or not still.

If I was to give anything as a gift I will not ask a discount.

This being for me expensive for two outfits and a booking would be why I asked would it be fair

I never offered it to the girl as a gift, I asked her if she likes it and if can get for her and if she can give a discount due to its cost, I also said to her if she would not be comfortable with that then I will just pay for session and think about the outfit.

Yes all this is between the girl and me of course if I do said transaction.

I posted this topic to ask and get others opinions if I was being fair to even dare ask for a discount cos of the price of said outfit, aswell as I also do not want to be cheap.

Yip have ordered, all good.

Playkinky - you raise an interesting question.

You really need to be unambiguous. Make it clear this is not a gift.

I think the approach should be: I am ordering one of these for me (attach link), would you like me to order one for you? If the answer is "yes" then the next question is: will you pay for it, or would you rather pay in bookings, or a combination?

If she responds that she doesn't want it, or she wants - but cannot afford to pay or barter, then buy her something at a price that is affordable as a gift.

I have bought a few ladies gifts making it clear there is no barter / discount expected - and received way more "value" from most ladies in terms of experience and effort. There are always exceptions and your mileage may vary.

If you read the full post you will see I did clarify with lady and did send her link.

And did exactly as you said 2old2.

As of which she never said anything as of yes, no or anything at all about it just dismissed so assumed that as a no obviously. And I made clear if can't be discount I understand and would be ok with it of course.

So everything was thoroughly explained.

My plan was if she didn't want to do that way either I would buy for her later or we would do a different dress up that semi matches.

Of course as a gift I would not ask a discount as it is a gift, and then I prefer giving something else like chocolate etc.

No asking for a discount is not right but you can rather structure a deal. E.g.
Wg would you like to buy this outfit at 2800, but if you wear it during a session with us in a threesome I will give you 1000 towards it.

The word discount is taboo

Ah ok yes that is a better idea.. thanks

Buying expensive lingerie chasing your own fetish for any SP is bluntly a turdishly K@K idea which given time you'll regret, rather phone ask her if she owns anything that you envision if not phone next , this way you get what you want and the girls have to keep up with supply and demand .....

If you spend the time and energy on your GF or wife in doing these types of fantasies youll be happier in the long run , not have to pay double and also take your personal sex life up another level in trust and excitement.

SP's are a quick fix to a short term problem and should be invested in, in short term fashion only.

Lovemuff - from how I understand playkinky's request, it was themed around a Latex outfit, which most ladies don't own due to their high prices.

I think we are in violent agreement.

Though it seems the lovely Mynx has a hankering for that outfit and is willing to discuss an arrangement....

You may want to give her a call - from past experience, you and your man will not regret it!

On 2019-01-08 08:10:35 lookingforfun29 said:
Lovemuff - from how I understand playkinky's request, it was themed around a Latex outfit, which most ladies don't own due to their high prices.

I realize that, but spending 3k on a cum dump for a one time fix is ludicrous. But so is paying 280 mil for a kraal with a firepool hahaha !! Common sense will eventually prevail after enough experience fees have been paid.