On 2019-01-12 10:41:38 BilboBaggins said:
On 2019-01-12 10:07:17 kobusv said: Question to the ladies.
Why is it that so many of you seem to fall for and get involved with gutter scum shitbags who do not work and will never get anywhere in life?
Hmmmmmm???
I was wondering the same thing.....
OK, I'm going to try answer, as objectively as possible.
Jobwise, I had been in corporate for just over 20 years.
During that time, I had my fair share of narcissistic men, entering my life.
I have also suffered at the hands of narcissistic bullies, translating into boyfriends, if you will, who wanted to "destroy" me, when I said "no more".
As a side note, no person on Earth, has the capacity to destroy another human being by being vindictive, unless allowed to do so.
A lot of ladies in this line of work, happen to be of an empathic nature.
This very nature, opens one up to being abused, as well as taken advantage of, especially financially.
So, this forum is only one portal/outlet, bringing out the true character of human beings, be it male or female, purely because of the anonymous nature of it, for some...
There are plenty forums, like Quora, etc. to name one, which would surely educate those who want to know, about the enormity of emotional abuse, at the hands of male partners, as well as females.
What we saw happen since last night, is, most certainly, not a "working girl industry" situation.
This is merely one case of an emotional abuser (probably more), wanting to destroy another person, with no regard to the consequences.
If he truly cared about the wonderful person he fell in love with and who bore his children, he would NEVER have done what he did...