This is to funny! Has Valentino been muzzled yet? Are you still there?

On 2019-08-25 10:26:39 Wild_Weasel said:
Give Sir Valintino a bells !!....for speaking truth to power (or assumed power) !

On 2019-08-24 18:34:39 Valintino said:
Antoinette,

You are, amongst other things, dilusional. And you've been offloading your twaddle on this forum for a long time now, because you get a thrill out of it. In the past you've been very rude and obnoxious to anyone whom you deem to be a transgressor.

You need to understand whatever your shortcomings, this is not the place to deal with it. If you cannot offord professional treatment, I suggest you try the public mental health service.
Although we had that problem with Life Isidimeni, you might just get lucky with service.

Of late, You've been making a lot of noise about "Respect"... Alluding to ESA's rules and commandments.. But truth be told, you have no clue what respect is, even if it bounced on your head.

Fact of the matter is that you are rude and insulting, period. This is a public platform, and you are supposed to demonstrate tact and professionalism at all time. Even when you want to repremand or ban someone, do it the right way. NOT wanting to flog them.

I'm not interested whatsoever, in what or how or where you should go. I have even less interest in telling you how to do your job.

Please spare me the technicalities of why you banning N&N or what she allegedly did. This is not about that. It's about the way you handled the matter. Totally nasty.

If you need some lessons on tact and communication, I would be delighted to recommend some reading material.

If you are frustrated about anything, or have some issues, I would suggest getting a Chihuahua and or taking up yoga.

Let's get something clear, I'm not taking my frustrations out on you or anyone here for that matter. I have no need to draw attention to myself, like they way you are so fond of doing here, to get a quick fix.

Like I said previously, just be nice. Being nice doesn't make you a weak person.

P.S. Apple cider vinegar also works wonders

Hahahaha, where are the "memes" and "emoticons" you sir I "YES" you...ngiyak'vuma...

It's still sad though , all she wanted was advice and support, she clearly wasn't getting it from anyone else so she figured esa ladies might be able to help, she wasn't even posting about her rates or anything. She is just a mother asking for help. I've been reading worst posts and comments on other threads yet those individuals weren't banned. A women asked for help on ESA and was banned. This is a business and rules are rules but it's a shame it happened during woman's month.

On 2019-08-25 19:12:36 Kim said:
It's still sad though , all she wanted was advice and support, she clearly wasn't getting it from anyone else so she figured esa ladies might be able to help, she wasn't even posting about her rates or anything. She is just a mother asking for help. I've been reading worst posts and comments on other threads yet those individuals weren't banned. A women asked for help on ESA and was banned. This is a business and rules are rules but it's a shame it happened during woman's month.

I tend to steer clear of the 'hectic' topics, as i prefer the light hearted ones, but gonna agree with Kim here.

She didnt advertise and services or her contact details - never ever mentioned shes a SP until she had to. Granted people can inbox her requesting these details, but its clear it wasnt her intention to market herself. I dont feel it was freeloading.

Here is a desperate person seeking advice and assistance, probably feeling comfortable under the guise of anonymity. Yes there is a ladies forum, but the general forum has a wider audience - perhaps there is a punter au fait with legal processes, or who works in the necessary department that can assist also.

The banning is kinda like kicking a person when theyre already down.

On 2019-08-26 07:36:27 Mr Nobody said:


Here is a desperate person seeking advice and assistance, probably feeling comfortable under the guise of anonymity. Yes there is a ladies forum, but the general forum has a wider audience - perhaps there is a punter au fait with legal processes, or who works in the necessary department that can assist also.

The banning is kinda like kicking a person when theyre already down.

That's what everybody does in this industry, so God forbid you ever go down! Very few actually give a damn, girl and punter. I tried to help a few girls in this situation and was even falsely accused of reporting a girl to the welfare because she wanted to plant drugs in the house I was working in and needed an excuse to give for doing it after being confronted. That is something i would never do unless I knew a child was actually being abused. I never even met said lady. This has been brought up a few times on the forum and there was never an issue before.

The ladies call the welfare on girls they don't like when they find out the lady has kids. The girls forum is also used against ladies by ladies, so that is no safe haven either. But she cannot have an anonymous username on the forum either.

If this lady needs help, she is welcome to WhatsApp me on 072 995 7600. If I cannot help, I will support her as best I can. I'm also familiar with the law to some extent because I've known many ladies in those circumstances. She doesn't have to tell me who she is either.

So how certain are we that this is a sex worker and not a guy/lady/syndicate seeking to identify advertisers in order to harass, blackmail, extort money or free services from the advertisers.

An opportunity to force the ladies to give them their client's contact details.

Why is this sex worker allowed to remain anonymous and protected whilst the ladies responding from their profiles have their contact details, pictures and their entire escorting history, personal lives, children, families details exposed publicly.

Use your intellect and common sense.

Antoinette thank you for being vigilant and protecting the advertisers from unscrupulous anonymous persons.

On 2019-08-23 20:25:17 Minime V10.1 said:
On 2019-08-23 16:54:00 niceandnaughty said: Off topic

Yes you are. Focus!

FFS!! Look like a even bigger asshole than usual. Made this comment right after the First post...though it was a guy wanting to know about the girls private life's. Moderation made my post to come thru allot later. And I never went back to see the other posts by N&N. Always thinking its a guy freeloading and fishing. Apologies. I'm a dickhead but not this big a one really. Hope you come right N&N. Good luck.

Let me proceed and get the fuck out a here.

As I said, kick them while they are down! Nobody knows for sure Jiah, but if she needs help or someone to talk to, I'm offering to try what I can. None of what you suggest is always the case and I don't live my life in bitter suspicion of everyone despite being at the receiving end many times!

Veronica sent you a pm. Read and be alert.

The lady just called me. She is no longer an advertiser on ESA (not banned) and was genuinely asking for advice and not freeloading! I am familiar with her and so is Minime as we chatted over a year or 2 ago about the same thing! Knowing what she told me, her case is very difficult and she's at her wits end! As I said, it's not always something sinister and she never expected this kind of backlash from people she was reaching out to!