Edited: 2019-09-18 17:18:39
1. Sue each and everyone she has or are still sleeping with for part of the reason why your marriage are breaking up. They as your friends, are knowingly having sex with a married lady and is part of the reason she wants a divorce.
2. You could get custody of your kids because of her behaviour.
3. Get a female laywer, they the best to protect your interests when your spouse are the one sleeping around.
Never a easy thing..
If there is any hope of permanent reconciliation and peace and forgiveness( must be from both sides). Then don't give up.. Try a separation to give both of you time to think about the big D.. Sometimes a step back is all we need to recentre ourselves. If there is definitely not even a 1% chance of it being fixed step away from it in a dignified manner.. Kids don't need to be at the centre of the mess and be stuck their while you fight over spoons and the dining room table. Sometimes the only way to make things right is by admitting its is wrong in the first place and moving forward on your separate ways.
On 2019-09-18 17:29:05 Louise said:
The big D word..
Never a easy thing..
If there is any hope of permanent reconciliation and peace and forgiveness( must be from both sides). Then don't give up.. Try a separation to give both of you time to think about the big D.. Sometimes a step back is all we need to recentre ourselves. If there is definitely not even a 1% chance of it being fixed step away from it in a dignified manner.. Kids don't need to be at the centre of the mess and be stuck their while you fight over spoons and the dining room table. Sometimes the only way to make things right is by admitting its is wrong in the first place and moving forward on your separate ways.
Louise kudo's to you this is extremely sound advise. Well put and food for thought. You should seriously think of being a counselor.
:)experience is a good tutor.
Edited: 2019-09-18 19:07:52
On 2019-09-18 17:29:05 Louise said:
The big D word..
Never a easy thing..
If there is any hope of permanent reconciliation and peace and forgiveness( must be from both sides). Then don't give up.. Try a separation to give both of you time to think about the big D.. Sometimes a step back is all we need to recentre ourselves. If there is definitely not even a 1% chance of it being fixed step away from it in a dignified manner.. Kids don't need to be at the centre of the mess and be stuck their while you fight over spoons and the dining room table. Sometimes the only way to make things right is by admitting its is wrong in the first place and moving forward on your separate ways.
I have to sit this one out. I don't even know who to agree with. I like Kim and Louise responses the most though.
Life goes on regardless.
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