So can anyone help shed light on the topic of Squirting Orgasms?

Men seem to be obsessed with trying to make us squirt... What's with that?

If you tell a guy, it's not going to happen, it only seems to motivate him to try harder until he's in there like a jackhammer and the normally very responsive vjj just shuts off.

Maybe find out what she likes, watch how her body responds to what you're doing. The objective should be making it the most amazing climax for her and not a lifetime achievement award for "I made her squirt" accolade...

On 2021-06-08 11:22:00 Bailey @ Sensual Paradise said:
So can anyone help shed light on the topic of Squirting Orgasms?

Men seem to be obsessed with trying to make us squirt... What's with that?

If you tell a guy, it's not going to happen, it only seems to motivate him to try harder until he's in there like a jackhammer and the normally very responsive vjj just shuts off.

Maybe find out what she likes, watch how her body responds to what you're doing. The objective should be making it the most amazing climax for her and not a lifetime achievement award for "I made her squirt" accolade...

A "true lover" thats cares will notice the body langauge and allow the lady to guide him to give her the ultimate pleasure.

This experience, and willingness to listen come with age.

The "jackhammer" lovers are there for their own satisfaction, and not worried about the ladies pleasure. Getting her to squirt is not for her "pleasure", but for him to brag about around the braai with his friends.

What's funny is the first time I made a woman squirt I wasn't even trying. She just directed me to do something she liked, and voila, the floodgates opened. There is something validating about this, as it can make you feel like a good lover, but what those guys do wrong is try to go from gear 1 to 6 instead of giving you the kind of intimacy you'd need to reach that state.

@modnarmodnar I couldn't agree more.

As someone who loves to give pleasure, it's nice to see there are other pleasure givers out there.

Yes, some people don't quite realise that sexual intimacy doesn't necessarily equate to being in love or that you are now "a thing" - sometimes we need the slow sensual sex as much as the good solid bonking!