On 2021-10-18 11:03:33 kevman said:
On 2021-10-18 10:55:48 Chase88 said: Waiting on ESA to get back to me.

Mabye there is nothing they can do. Rude is not the word. "Abusive" I think.

Let's see what they say.

Only verbal abuse if its psychological or mental affecting.
Hopefully it wasn't that rough on you.

Do you not want to name in fear of backlash from said SP?
Which I get if they have your phone number.

If it was really rough you could claim damages too.

I get abused by Doms often, in a very kinky way. It's usually not for everyone and requires a lot of trust. But that's a different story anyways.

I hope this sp whomever she is does not end up working for a venue and bring their name down. I often wonder if it's the food people eat or the drink they drink that makes them get abusive towards others

On 2021-10-18 09:37:07 Chase88 said:
Thanks for the replies ladies and gents.

Agreed the bad apples ruin things for the majority.

I don't want to post the name here and sent the details to ESA support for them to sort this individual out. Just want to keep it above board and not cause a hornets nest but wanted to vent. Was not sure if I should be shocked, angry, pi$$ed off or all three.

Being on this site for over 10 years, in my experience, there is probably more dodgy stuff there. (In my individual opinion)

The good news is I am saved from a grave mistake. Safety being the first concern.

Cheers

So basically this is a useless post to us cos u want 10 other guys to be abused... There's no issue if u name the wg...

On 2021-10-18 12:25:57 Eyeofthetiger said:
On 2021-10-18 09:37:07 Chase88 said: Thanks for the replies ladies and gents.

Agreed the bad apples ruin things for the majority.

I don't want to post the name here and sent the details to ESA support for them to sort this individual out. Just want to keep it above board and not cause a hornets nest but wanted to vent. Was not sure if I should be shocked, angry, pi$$ed off or all three.

Being on this site for over 10 years, in my experience, there is probably more dodgy stuff there. (In my individual opinion)

The good news is I am saved from a grave mistake. Safety being the first concern.

Cheers

So basically this is a useless post to us cos u want 10 other guys to be abused... There's no issue if u name the wg...

EOTT I don't want anybody to be abused. I wanted to see if ESA would come back to me first which they have not.

So.... Seeing as this is not an official review and I have not seen the lady in person (Thank God) her name is Kendra in Benoni. This is the telephone number that called me a P$#S and to F off on WA because I would not buy airtime after enquiring.

Mabye another lady had her phone, mabye a guy.... Who knows. But now you all know who it was and the number accociated to it.

Not my version of a nice warm friendly experience and defs not my cup of tea.

Being respectful and honest.

Anyways there you have it.

Cheers

So sorry for the way you were treated, this was not at all necessary.

However, I just want to share another point, as this might explain why this lady asked for airtime:

A lot of gents actually enjoy chit chatting with the ladies on WhatsApp, asking all kinds of questions and sometimes really just wasting our time. There is no harm in asking for rates services and location on WhatsApp, however, when a gentleman start asking for photos or boob size etc.... I usually reply, that he is now starting to take up some of my time, so he is welcome to chit chat, but then he needs to pay for my time. This is how you get rid of the time-wasters.... So maybe this lady was caught on one of those bad days, where the admin became too much?

Yet, it does not give her any reason to be rude.

That is horrible. I agree some guys take chances and try to chat but in no way is that a reason a girl should be asking anyone for airtime or electricity.

Even if he is asking for pics you decline and tell them you are not a chat service and you don't send pics for free or at all..You don't ask them for airtime.
Sorry this girl did this to you it is not okay.

Lol. Mmmm.... :( Use a Punt phone and send a please call "load shedding" :)))))

regardless of how bad things are if asked for anything upfront move along dont even think about giving a second chance. you cannot ask a random stranger to give you anything. especially in this line of work where corruption and theft and blackmail is ever increasing.

having said that if its a regular sure if you comfortable

makes me wonder how many others she asks for just airtime or just uber money or just electricity that could add up to few hundreds free cash regularly with zero effort required for a booking and more money wasted in that terrible excuse of a booking.

i hate to sound harsh in a tough world but with no recourse and accountability for them, i wont help. if they gave top notch service and then asked to please help a little one can justify, i however wont return if that happens regardless, i hate being used. i do however give because its deserved. customer service at its core . . make it so good these clients keep coming back.

kudos to naming and shaming! its about time we all as a community hold each other accountable for theft and bad behavior.

I maybe wrong but doubt if ESA will get involved in cases such as this. They only provide the platform for ladies to advertise.

They might get involved when a punter was scammed, but not where a lady's behaviour is less than acceptable.

It is always amusing that these are the kind of ladies who will refer to men as broke cheap asses if they cannot even send data or airtime, both in and outside of the purple world. If you cannot even afford your own airtime, it begs the question of who is the real broke ass in this equation.

I am so grateful for regulars who just send airtime or call to hear if I need anything,esp in these times. One, on the odd occasion, will collect my chronic meds or next time I go to the doc to collect it, it's already paid. I have always given him a preferential rate and he more than makes up for it.... Without me asking.
I think ladies will get more from clients if you treat guys well and rates are reasonable. The guys will send airtime simply because they felt like, not because you asked.
This reminds me of a homeless guy who swore me cos I didn't have change to give him. Now, I give to several guys I pass on the street. Will I ever give him when I have something? You can bet your arse I won't. There are plenty of more appreciative beggars around who deserve my kindness.