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Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-18 22:14:41
Her ad is not active, she can't pay for it.
Landlord kicking her out, and I just got a voice message from her, considering suicide.
Anyone have an idea? I'm fresh out. Encouraging words have not helped.
Landlord kicking her out, and I just got a voice message from her, considering suicide.
Anyone have an idea? I'm fresh out. Encouraging words have not helped.
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-18 22:39:38
Can you get her to contact SA Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) on 0800 567 567- they 24/7
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-18 22:43:01
If you know where she is contact the suicide help line, can you pm me the lady's number if possible
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-18 23:02:11
I think that another gent has also been in touch with her, he reached out to me last night to try assist her, I'm thinking it might be the same lady.
I've been banned for posting about helping a girl renew her ESA ad once before so careful that doesn't happen here.
@georgebendsit can you please inbox me so I know if it's the same lady.
Xxx
I've been banned for posting about helping a girl renew her ESA ad once before so careful that doesn't happen here.
@georgebendsit can you please inbox me so I know if it's the same lady.
Xxx
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 06:39:30
Depression is real, it is bad especially after covid and lots of people losing very close ones.
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 07:14:46
Sent you an email
On 2021-10-18 22:43:01 Kensley said:
If you know where she is contact the suicide help line, can you pm me the lady's number if possible
Sent you an email
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 08:07:56
Damn, I helped an SP once with rent money. It was the same story the following month, and the month after. Never again.
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 08:23:54
Edited: 2021-10-19 08:25:43
This is very true. I paid my school fees plenty with a lady as well. Buying her airtime. Paying her rent, paying her Advert. Month after month. She used to also claim to be suicidal to get attention. I found out she was doing the same to plenty other guys too. Every month she would cycle between the guys to get her monthly bills sorted. As it turned out she was using. She made a lot of enemies in the industry.
I am very weary when I give nowadays, and who I give to.
Edited: 2021-10-19 08:25:43
On 2021-10-19 08:07:56 Rajeshk said:
Damn, I helped an SP once with rent money. It was the same story the following month, and the month after. Never again.
This is very true. I paid my school fees plenty with a lady as well. Buying her airtime. Paying her rent, paying her Advert. Month after month. She used to also claim to be suicidal to get attention. I found out she was doing the same to plenty other guys too. Every month she would cycle between the guys to get her monthly bills sorted. As it turned out she was using. She made a lot of enemies in the industry.
I am very weary when I give nowadays, and who I give to.
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 08:32:59
I'd suggest you practice caution. Rather get professionals to assist instead of giving her money and see how that pans out. It's easy being emotionally blackmailed. If she really wants/needs the help she'll accept the professional route
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Re: Can anything be done to help an SP?
Posted: 2021-10-19 09:00:20
I think it is best you get the professionals involved. If she is really suicidal they are best equipped to help her.
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