On 2021-11-09 14:42:00 ESA Forum Admin said:
Dear Gentlemen.

Why don't you guys get a room so the rest of the forum members can get back to enjoying the lovely ladies and what the purple site has to over. If you have issues with each other please keep it off the site.

I think you guys are losing sight of this site, please do not use this forum as a mechanism to attack each other. Everyone using this forum will be respected by the next person. That is what a community is about.

We will be monitoring all parties involved from now on.

Regards
ESA Admin

Thank you ESA admin.

This where we appreciate More the real Veterans.

Warm kisses

On 2021-11-09 14:42:00 ESA Forum Admin said:
Dear Gentlemen.

Why don't you guys get a room so the rest of the forum members can get back to enjoying the lovely ladies and what the purple site has to over. If you have issues with each other please keep it off the site.

I think you guys are losing sight of this site, please do not use this forum as a mechanism to attack each other. Everyone using this forum will be respected by the next person. That is what a community is about.

We will be monitoring all parties involved from now on.

Regards
ESA Admin

Ouch Admin did you have to be so brutally hahahaha

<<Therapy is now in session>>

@Locote - getting your heart broken after you've invested so much emotionally and financially must hurt like a motherfucker.

However, it was Nelson Mandela that said: "Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies." Read that a few times and reflect on it. Guess what is the best revenge: moving on, being happy, living your best life and letting Karma do the rest. Really do it, do not pretend to move on as a show to others, but really focus on yourself quite selfishly. If you focus on you, you are not focusing on whoever did what to you and one day you'll wake up and think, shit I haven't thought about that person or that incident since God knows when, I've been too busy having a great time.

You are going through what all human beings go through when faced with similar situations, the cycle of change:

Denial -> Anger -> Depression -> Bargaining-> Acceptance.

Only once you get to acceptance will you be able to put all of this behind you. It sounds like you are currently stuck on anger. It's going to be tough as you move through this but you've got to realize that you've got to move forward to a point that you can put all of this behind you. The quicker you realize that, the better.

You're not the first guy to be going through this and you'll definitely not be the last. Trust me, you'll be fine, just start accepting what happened happened, cut your losses and move on.

@ESA admin. Your response is noted. It's your site. I do, however, prefer sharing a room with more pleasant company than Cryin' Cassie, so I'll pass on the suggestion of getting a room with him.

Or you guys could all use that WA group that the punters have and nobody wants to invite me to, LOL

On 2021-11-09 16:08:14 Arcticus said:
@ESA admin. Your response is noted. It's your site. I do, however, prefer sharing a room with more pleasant company than Cryin' Cassie, so I'll pass on the suggestion of getting a room with him.

How's about you get a room and do some MFM. Whomever the F (WG) picks as the winner gets a free ESA gold for one month from me

On 2021-11-09 12:40:01 Arcticus said:
In principle I agree with you, but there is a vast difference between having unpopular opinions, and using the forum to issue threats of posting revenge porn to force someone to bow to a demand, to use one example. I support freedom of speech, but not using this platform for intimidation and coercion.

Fair enough.