On 2022-03-17 10:36:21 Kooni said:
Bareback is bareback, does not matter who you fucks.
With wedded spouses assumption by both parties is should one wish to mess around, they should not do so raw. So the raw priviledge is restricted to only that one partner whose HIV/STIs status one is well aware of all the time with reasonable confidence/and reliable proof.
I cant say the same about with punting. There is zero exclusivity here, persuasion they are clean is all purely by word of mouth, dick in hand.
If you discover you picked up something, you will have zilch idea who possibly gave it to you (you would know it's the spouse/BF/GF) so for punts you could never come here to warn others.
So the infector carries on merrily spreading while you skip into a corner to cry that's if you do not come back to spread it too (revenge). This is what makes me uneasy about folks seeming unfazed about real risk of STIs - like are you infected already maybe? Otherwise a clean chap would care a little more than to trust being verbally of being clean.