I was watching one of my favourite YouTubers the other night and she was talking about self-discovery (sexual and otherwise). She compared a human's psyche to a huge mansion with many rooms. One day, as you are walking through your mansion, in(tro)specting, you discover some new rooms, rooms that up until then you had no idea existed within your vast mansion. Exciting! The more real estate the better, yes?

Inspired by the mansion/house analogy, I have come up with one of my own. I won't pretend to understand the male psyche, but from my own experience with men and my observation of them, I concocted this analogy to simplify mens' attraction to transwomen/shemales. Maybe oversimplified, but here goes: There are these 2 houses - one house is the WOMAN HOUSE and the other house is the MAN HOUSE. The men who pursue relations with T-girls are (mostly) interested in visiting the WOMAN HOUSE exclusively. Now the WOMAN HOUSE has 2 bedrooms - the first bedroom is occupied by women with Tits n Slits and the second bedroom is occupied by women with Tits n Bits. Same house - different rooms ... Same beguiling creatures - different parts.

And that's my attempt at an analogy - hope it makes some sense :-)

#MakeLoveNotWar

@Leila B makes total sense. Now I wonder what's in the outbuilding? :)

On 2022-06-05 21:26:43 BigBen4Fun said:
@Leila B makes total sense. Now I wonder what's in the outbuilding? :)

LMAO ... Who knows? Time to do some exploring ;-)

On 2022-06-05 21:30:50 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
On 2022-06-05 21:26:43 BigBen4Fun said: @Leila B makes total sense. Now I wonder what's in the outbuilding? :)

LMAO ... Who knows? Time to do some exploring ;-)

I have and found some wonderful rooms :)
We shall definitely discuss over a glass of red.

Leila B

I enjoy your posts. They are funny, informative, and interesting.

You have a graceful manner about you that demands respect and I admire that.

Thank you for your posts x

On 2022-06-05 21:36:14 BigBen4Fun said:
On 2022-06-05 21:30:50 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: On 2022-06-05 21:26:43 BigBen4Fun said: @Leila B makes total sense. Now I wonder what's in the outbuilding? :)

LMAO ... Who knows? Time to do some exploring ;-)
I have and found some wonderful rooms :)
We shall definitely discuss over a glass of red.

Hmmmm ... Now I'm intrigued :)))))

Red yes ... (make it Shiraz please) ... XXX

On 2022-06-05 22:17:19 Lesley said:
Leila B

I enjoy your posts. They are funny, informative, and interesting.

You have a graceful manner about you that demands respect and I admire that.

Thank you for your posts x

Thank you Lesley :-) I see that you are a fellow Virgoan. According to astrologers, we Virgos are "a bit special". I'm sure you get that ;-)

Sent you a PM xxx

Come to the edge.
We might fall.
Come to the edge.
It's too high!
Come to the edge.
And they came,
And s/he pushed,
And they flew.
(Christopher Logue)

***QUESTION*** #2 (Phone question) "Do you cater for first-timers?"
***MY ANSWER*** I do cater for first-timers (a lot of my clients are first-timers). Just bear in mind that I don't educate prospective clients over the phone - I do so (by the hour) in the flesh. YOU do the theory - the practical will just flow naturally. Go with the flow - with a pro.

Some good advice: Fantasise, yes, please do. Don't over analyze ... #AnalysisParalysis. Get outta your head and into my bed :))))))))))))))))))))

So I had a client call me recently (prospective first-timer) and this man was EXTREMELY (like in overly) concerned about privacy and discretion. Privacy and discretion are cornerstones of this industry and should be a given. I went out of my way to reassure the gentleman that my place is exceptionally private and discrete. I told him that even "well known" guests are comfortably reassured by the privacy and serenity of my hideaway. I did begin to wonder whether this caller might be a VIP ... or whether he was just plain paranoid. Paranoid is not a good look :-(

Nevertheless, that call inspired 2 potential posts. Firstly ... I will describe how a typical SECRET RENDEZVOUS unfolds (phonecall to outcum). Secondly ... I will answer a question some clients like asking - "Have you been with anyone famous?"

I'm sure you'll be keeping those eyes peeled, my purple peeping Toms (Dicks and Harrys)

#LoveAndLust xxx

Just remember i an NOT famous lol