***A BILLION WICKED THOUGHTS***


"In 1973, psychologist Kenneth Gergen conducted a bold social psychology
experiment that would have a snowball's chance in hell of passing muster with a
contemporary ethics committee (Gergen, Gergen & Barton, 1973). Gergen wanted to
know what people did under conditions of extreme anonymity. To find out, he
constructed an experiment whereby 4 men and 4 women entered a small, padded room,
one at a time. The participants did not know each other before the experiment and were
kept in isolation prior to entering the room. Once the participants entered the room, they
were free to do whatever they liked. There were no instructions and no rules. At the end
of the experiment, the participants left the room one at a time without learning each
others' identities. What makes the experiment so interesting was that the room, itself, was
pitch dark, providing the participants complete anonymity.
The results were astonishing, to say the least. Approximately 90% of the subjects
intentionally touched someone else. A third of the subjects began kissing one another.
Overall, 80% of the men and women reported feelings of sexual excitement. With their
anonymity ensured by the veil of darkness, the participants expressed behaviors free of
the shackles of social constraints. In their book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the
World's Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire, Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam
use Gergen's darkened room as a metaphor for the Internet. As the authors state, the
Internet is a much larger version of the Gergen experiment, ensuring anonymity for
billions of individuals and freeing them to act upon their sexual desires unbound by social
judgment. In effect, "[b]illions of people around the planet are free to satisfy their most
secret erotic desires ...while remaining hidden and anonymous within the Internet's
virtual darkness"

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Here are some interesting findings disclosed in the book A BILLION WICKED THOUGHTS ...

(1) Men and women have hardwired sexual cues analogous to our hardwired tastes-there are sexual versions of sweet, sour, salty, savory, and bitter. But men and women are wired with different sets of cues.

(2) The male sexual brain resembles a reckless hunter, while the female sexual brain resembles a cautious detective agency.

(3) Men form their sexual interests during adolescence and rarely change. Women's sexual interests are plastic and change frequently.

(4) The male sexual brain is an "or gate": A single stimulus can arouse it. The female sexual brain is an "and gate": It requires many simultaneous stimuli to arouse it.

(5) When it comes to sexual arousal, men prefer overweight women to underweight women, and a significant number of men seek out erotic images of women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s.

(6) Women enjoy writing and sharing erotic stories with other women. The fastest growing genre of erotic stories for women are stories about two heterosexual men having sex.

(7) Though the male sexual brain is much more different from the female sexual brain than is commonly believed, the sexual brain of gay men is virtually identical to that of straight men.

Here are the two neuroscientists explaining men's fascination with shemales ... m.youtube.com/watch

Is everything done with protection or do guys get to taste?

On 2023-03-11 11:34:33 Overwatch68 said:
Is everything done with protection or do guys get to taste?

Once tasted - never wasted (not a single drop) ... *SLURRRP*

I offer OWO (at my discretion)

Sweet, simple OVERWATCH68 ... You joined ESA today just to ask lil Leila that? So much easier to just pick up yer mobile and call me ;-)

Flattered, nonetheless :-)

The following passage was posted on one of the YouTube channels that I am subscribed to - DR.Z.PHD. She is a psychologist specialising in the transgender field.

"If you are not in the arena getting your ass kicked on occasion, I am not interested in or open to your feedback.

There are a million cheap seats in the world today filled with people who will never be brave with their own lives, but will spend every ounce of energy they have hurling advice and judgement at those of us trying to dare greatly.

Their only contributions are criticism, cynicism and fear-mongering.

If you're criticising from a place where you're not also putting yourself on the line, I'm not interested in your feedback." (BRENE BROWN)

Here is the TedX talk by BRENE BROWN that received over 20 million views! THE POWER OF VULNERABILITY. It is not related to transgender issues per se, but it is a powerful video that really inspired me and I'm sure that it will inspire anybody who watches it. Please see ... m.youtube.com/watch

On 2023-03-11 13:52:14 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
On 2023-03-11 11:34:33 Overwatch68 said: Is everything done with protection or do guys get to taste?


Once tasted - never wasted (not a single drop) ... *SLURRRP*

I offer OWO (at my discretion)

Sweet, simple OVERWATCH68 ... You joined ESA today just to ask lil Leila that? So much easier to just pick up yer mobile and call me ;-)

Flattered, nonetheless :-)

I wanted to see what others would say about tasting you ;)

On 2023-03-14 16:24:37 Overwatch68 said:
On 2023-03-11 13:52:14 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said: On 2023-03-11 11:34:33 Overwatch68 said: Is everything done with protection or do guys get to taste?


Sweet, simple OVERWATCH68 ... You joined ESA today just to ask lil Leila that? So much easier to just pick up yer mobile and call me ;-)


I wanted to see what others would say about tasting you ;)

Read my reviews OVERWATCH68 ... Lots of naughty, juicy details disclosed in those ;-)

There are those who taste and tell, but many just taste, swallow, repeat and don't ever tell. What happens in Vegas ...

Yours Tastily,
#VegasVixen

TSR - taste, swallow, repeat.

On 2023-03-16 18:06:03 Lanavol said:
TSR - taste, swallow, repeat.

LOL ... Maybe I should pair TSR with ASMR in my upcoming video ...


"Consumer Trends:

ASMR videos are the biggest YouTube trend you've never heard of.

Coined in 2010, ASMR (autonomous sensory meridian response) is a relaxing, often sedative sensation that begins on the scalp and moves down the body. Also known as "brain massage," it's triggered by placid sights and sounds such as whispers, accents, and crackles."

#MagicMoments

On 2023-03-12 21:54:28 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:


Here is the TedX talk by BRENE BROWN that received over 20 million views! THE POWER OF VULNERABILITY. It is not related to transgender issues per se, but it is a powerful video that really inspired me and I'm sure that it will inspire anybody who watches it. Please see ... m.youtube.com/watch

My mistake, the TEDx talk by BRENE BROWN (The power of vulnerability) received over THIRTY MILLION VIEWS.

Here is her follow up TEDx talk, for which she receives a well deserved standing ovation ... m.youtube.com/watch

This chat she has with LEWIS HOWES is a MUST SEE (especially for men). Please check it out ... m.youtube.com/watch

***QUESTION #9***

"At what age did you have your first sexual encounter and with whom was it?"

***My answer*** ... Easy tiger, those are 2 questions there - one at a time please (with occasional exceptions *wink-wink*)

I was 11 years old when I had my first sexual encounter. Nothing untoward, it was with someone aged 13 at the time. One of my Afrikaner trans friends always teases me by saying, "vroeg ryp, vroeg vrot." (ripen early, rotten early) ... Hahaha

I sneaked into my first gay club just before my 15th birthday. Even though I had not transitioned officially, I was "en femme" when I went to the club, so with make-up on, I passed for an 18+ year old chickadee. As I mentioned before in a previous post, l was extremely curious and precocious growing up - always raring to go.

Soooo, in contrast to my colourful carnal history, I had a 30 something VIRGIN client just the other day. TRUE EFFEN STORY! I just couldn't believe this gent at first. He referred to the movie THE FORTY YEAR OLD VIRGIN. Just for clarity, he had not had sex with any ciswoman, any transwoman, or even a man! (Hope he's not reading this) *facepalm* I do feel honoured that he entrusted his "de-virginifying" to me. CHUFFED :))))))))))

For the record, this was my third virgin I have (knowingly) encountered in my Sexperience ...

Yours Enthusiastically,
#VIRGO(the virgin)VIXEN