Sorry to hear about your issues Sean. It's common don't feel bad and don't change yourself. Be proud of yourself. U dodged a bullet and bomb maybe she did u a favour to not appreciate u maybe one day when she realises 2hat she a done or needs u a message or call. It is possible to be a wg friend but it needs to be two sided. Sometimes someone who u just chill with but she must make time and effort for u and u for her. Can't be this one sided toxic relationship for her or for u or her.

Im in a simalar boat. A few weeks ago i went on a punt and i just could not get it up. I realised i am not mentally in right space. Ive lost many friends durimg covid and cut out the blood suckers whom would socialise withbfor money and booze. The last two years have been very very lonely. But i continued to punt. After my episode a few weeks ago i realised i have little to look forward too.Work has become political ( i hate office politics ) so I now feel like im pussy footing around people. I cannot the last genuine encounter i actually i had with anyone. I am the guy that calls everyone but seldom does my phone ring. Sometimes i think i must ugly or people think im very obnoxious. Nevertheless i now am searching for someone to spoil and just give me advise. Tx for listening

It is this crazy world we live in.
Alienated and dissociated from all things that define the human we are.

With gluttony we flock to buy, hunger for the next best gadget ...that platform that does EVERYTHING for us.
Addicted to social media sites using them as barometers for our lives.


Downloading app after app to filter and change our reality, the way we look, sound, interact....

How we talk, walk, behave... monitored, judged and adjusted according to the loudest going trend of the moment. Political correctness making a sham of truths and beliefs.

A vicious impatient discontent, a disrespect , a vile Annihilation of morals scruples and integrity...some that make the basis of good character and personality.

No longer the natural path of progressive growth through experience, leadership and guidance. Now even a babe , barely out of nappies demands the same recognition as the one who gave birth to him or her.

The demand for equality across all spheres marring every natural boundary , the innate understanding of a situation, an environment...a relationship.

We have bought into everything that we profess to despise and the price we are paying now is one of loneliness, loss and the struggle to get back that which we think is our happiness.

It is a fast paced world, a fickle world where bullies reign and sensationalism is revered.

It is a world where another's misery is another person's so called "popcorn time" and admitted with such pride and zest....and many will jump on that bandwagon of popcorn time showing themselves up for the shells of the human beings they are....emotionless and lost to all things humane.

How does one get back to that which one hankers for?

How does one reconnect to that which gives meaning to the life one is living?

Slowly....it is possible. There are many....MANY like minded people who are in the same boat.

One step at a time...there are those that do understand and wish to be seen just as much as YOU do.

Don't give up.


My heart feels heavy reading this thread.


All my positive vibes to all who may feel a little lost tonight.

You are heard.

.....

On 2023-09-06 17:12:35 Butch43 said:
I am thinking my mental health is better everytime I complete booking.
Because I do more good things than bad things every day whenever I have the sex with hot girl who is fun also.
So I will carry on to whore every chance I can do,because teacher in school tell me health is wealth,and parents tell me always listen to teacher,and I liking to feel rich.

You are the Purple Buddha.
I want to live like you.

I wish I could share my train of thought here, but as a WG we are often restricted to feeling as this is just a "job" and then tomorrow there will be chat on too much negativity and wgs having attitudes...

All I will say is, as a person that has to live with chronic depression I resonate so much with each of these posts on this thread. We try and stay strong and give more than we often should ... but we get tired too... and then I love how everyone has solutions to problems they know nothing about...

Good thing is atleast this platform gives us means to forget, even if its just temporary and sometimes really good encounters can make magic and turn things around for us in many ways.

I'm hoping for more magic.

Stay strong babies (Pun and irony intended)
Kisses
And

On 2023-09-06 19:15:30 GTR9000 said:
Im in a simalar boat. A few weeks ago i went on a punt and i just could not get it up. I realised i am not mentally in right space. Ive lost many friends durimg covid and cut out the blood suckers whom would socialise withbfor money and booze. The last two years have been very very lonely. But i continued to punt. After my episode a few weeks ago i realised i have little to look forward too.Work has become political ( i hate office politics ) so I now feel like im pussy footing around people. I cannot the last genuine encounter i actually i had with anyone. I am the guy that calls everyone but seldom does my phone ring. Sometimes i think i must ugly or people think im very obnoxious. Nevertheless i now am searching for someone to spoil and just give me advise. Tx for listening

I think you too are looking for intimacy, to actually BE appreciated.

It's sad isn't it, when you're always there for ppl they tend to take you for granted

But hurt them or let them down now and then and you're valued / appreciated more

I don't want to become that person. It's important to remain authentic to me even if it's not appealing and yet I get alot of attention even with My looks and by that I mean a solid 5 at most lol

And the attention is from... Drama Queens. I need to stop trying to be the fixer

You need to dare to let go of those around only for the good times and find your equal, If she exists I reckon.

On 2023-09-06 21:03:06 Russian Bridgitte said:
It is this crazy world we live in.
Alienated and dissociated from all things that define the human we are.

With gluttony we flock to buy, hunger for the next best gadget ...that platform that does EVERYTHING for us.
Addicted to social media sites using them as barometers for our lives.


Downloading app after app to filter and change our reality, the way we look, sound, interact....

How we talk, walk, behave... monitored, judged and adjusted according to the loudest going trend of the moment. Political correctness making a sham of truths and beliefs.

A vicious impatient discontent, a disrespect , a vile Annihilation of morals scruples and integrity...some that make the basis of good character and personality.

No longer the natural path of progressive growth through experience, leadership and guidance. Now even a babe , barely out of nappies demands the same recognition as the one who gave birth to him or her.

The demand for equality across all spheres marring every natural boundary , the innate understanding of a situation, an environment...a relationship.

We have bought into everything that we profess to despise and the price we are paying now is one of loneliness, loss and the struggle to get back that which we think is our happiness.

It is a fast paced world, a fickle world where bullies reign and sensationalism is revered.

It is a world where another's misery is another person's so called "popcorn time" and admitted with such pride and zest....and many will jump on that bandwagon of popcorn time showing themselves up for the shells of the human beings they are....emotionless and lost to all things humane.

How does one get back to that which one hankers for?

How does one reconnect to that which gives meaning to the life one is living?

Slowly....it is possible. There are many....MANY like minded people who are in the same boat.

One step at a time...there are those that do understand and wish to be seen just as much as YOU do.

Don't give up.


My heart feels heavy reading this thread.


All my positive vibes to all who may feel a little lost tonight.

You are heard.

.....

Thank you. Your words, eloquent, mean alot and how you're able to convey Deep truths.

We're living in unnatural lives with time ticking away

Realizations and regret present and then some of us try to fast track Happiness when it should come naturally.

Life IS short. Good health isn't guaranteed, neither is fairness in life.

Fake motivational types rehashing and repackaging old Truths for the purposes of clout / following and money.

I wish we'd all Dare to be ourselves but experience has taught us otherwise and so the cycle continues, until it ends.

Hope, somehow.

On 2023-09-06 21:45:40 Angie said:
I wish I could share my train of thought here, but as a WG we are often restricted to feeling as this is just a "job" and then tomorrow there will be chat on too much negativity and wgs having attitudes...

All I will say is, as a person that has to live with chronic depression I resonate so much with each of these posts on this thread. We try and stay strong and give more than we often should ... but we get tired too... and then I love how everyone has solutions to problems they know nothing about...

Good thing is atleast this platform gives us means to forget, even if its just temporary and sometimes really good encounters can make magic and turn things around for us in many ways.

I'm hoping for more magic.

Stay strong babies (Pun and irony intended)
Kisses
And

The usual line is What do you have to be depressed about?
It's not a choice

Or Snap out of it
How easy lol

Let me watch some Borat videos, always lifts My mood for a bit.

On 2023-09-06 18:07:07 kingkk said:
Sorry to hear about your issues Sean. It's common don't feel bad and don't change yourself. Be proud of yourself. U dodged a bullet and bomb maybe she did u a favour to not appreciate u maybe one day when she realises 2hat she a done or needs u a message or call. It is possible to be a wg friend but it needs to be two sided. Sometimes someone who u just chill with but she must make time and effort for u and u for her. Can't be this one sided toxic relationship for her or for u or her.

Thanks man, appreciate it!

Shit so sorry to hear about so many guys suffering. Makes the rest of us realise how lucky we are.

Everyone wants to know that they are loved unconditional. The most basic of human needs.

Unfortunately not going to find it here and just as difficult to find it in the real world.

My 5c try joining a club were you build friendships around a common interests: running, paddel, chess etc. Another one is to join a church that really cares. There are quite a few out there. It is all about community and feeling loved and valued.

Not sure if my post helps but i feel for you guys.