Absolutely beautiful.......

Its so positive to hear that us ladies have the ability to help you guys overcome and heal ,to overcome whatever obstacles that so many face today.
Stay strong guys......

Just something to help

https://www.imaware.health/blog/7-tips-for-a-mental-reset

Yes, purple ladies can and do help. Unfortunately tho, when one once again realizes you are great, just not great enough, I've found purple dissapointment to be (if possible) even worse. It's like you have to face that even those who are as open minded as is humanly possible, still finds you to be too much (or is it too little).

It's too late to do things over, but I wish I realized from scratch that life is only about money. When you can pay enough, you can even buy smiles. I've wasted decades on good intentions

@Cunnilinkiss.... you obviously need to find someone that's speaks your language

And gives you the right kinda energy...
I'm guessing you have had some boring moments, that don't feed your soul.... and just because your intention is to maybe get laid everytime you book and say that's what you want or need... it's not always necessary to go through with exactly that.... us girls are some....more into the intellectual simulation and we also could do with some TLC

Just saying
And honestly hope my words will resonate and make sense

Kisses

Mila

I'm a complex old fuck Mila.(face in palm). I definitely don't always go for 60mins of bonking.
But I am not rich enough to pay fucking rates for a chat.
I have had wonderful times!!! I have been blessed!
It just does not last and when it tethers out, I feel like the doos I probably am

On 2023-09-13 17:14:14 Cunilinkiss said:
Yes, purple ladies can and do help. Unfortunately tho, when one once again realizes you are great, just not great enough, I've found purple dissapointment to be (if possible) even worse. It's like you have to face that even those who are as open minded as is humanly possible, still finds you to be too much (or is it too little).

It's too late to do things over, but I wish I realized from scratch that life is only about money. When you can pay enough, you can even buy smiles. I've wasted decades on good intentions

Literally took the words out of my mouth bud! Well said. Particularly regarding the "too little" bit
Lonely and poor is the worst combination ever.

On 2023-09-13 22:07:22 triton242 said:

Literally took the words out of my mouth bud! Well said. Particularly regarding the "too little" bit
Lonely and poor is the worst combination ever.

Amen brother...

/T

as a trauma and anxiety sufferer diagnosed 22 years ago and after 6 years of complete celebacy to find this person who you spend 7 months trying to explain our strange ways learned from our trauama, survival instinct. i have never felt such betrayal. he pulled the rug it was too late i had said too much.
...my point is decide who is worth the pain because everytime you place a piece of your soul into their hands they will drop it

they will drop it everytime.

much love and light

xx
indigo

Pain is universal
Searching is a form of survival
Sustained compatibility a quest

You won't know who is worth the pain till you invested a piece of your soul. Catch 22

On 2023-09-07 06:06:52 Thepussymaster said:
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My 5c try joining a club were you build friendships around a common interests: running, paddel, chess etc. Another one is to join a church that really cares. There are quite a few out there. It is all about community and feeling loved and valued.

Not sure if my post helps but i feel for you guys.

The club of my interests is purple...but like all sports, only the great ones seem to get selected for the team. The rest pays club fees and plod on

Seems I'm not the only one looking for true connection and intimacy. We live in a harsh world, some tender kindness goes a long way.

Mental health is a daily battle for most