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....romancing
Posted: 2023-10-01 12:24:31
How silly would people be to imagine men are any less romantic than women.
How silly are those to imagine romance is age restricted and a "youngling" thing.
How silly not to understand that romance true, many a time, is understood better and embraced as one walks the path of life.
That a person who has given, taken shared and...lost...through all those rewards and tribulations may understand romancing as a deeper satisfaction many may scoff at .
When reaching out looking for a new romance, one that has been overlooked and taken foregranted, a remembered liason...something that stirs deep and makes one wish to acknowledge it, hold on tight to it....look for it...ain't the way society portrays or, perceives it.
This morning a very romantic soulful Sunday morning in Durban with the rains nourishing, a moody heaven, work, my ask for forgiveness and giving my thanks and then, at home, clicking into
Soulful Sundays,with Kenny maistry.
Men.
Most of those dedications from men mature.....
The silliness of those imagining, others being of age are not afforded romance more meaningful than that of a youngling chasing that which society proclaims is romance.
Two of the dedications that had me playing it louder than LOUD
To all....romance with confidence!
Happy blessed Sunday to ALL.
https://youtu.be/GB_KcE-lA5g?si=E3WPdv_q8CiZTkZq
https://youtu.be/qt_OkgSOrkU?si=RXko9pZthUlSdGLS
RB
How silly would people be to imagine men are any less romantic than women.
How silly are those to imagine romance is age restricted and a "youngling" thing.
How silly not to understand that romance true, many a time, is understood better and embraced as one walks the path of life.
That a person who has given, taken shared and...lost...through all those rewards and tribulations may understand romancing as a deeper satisfaction many may scoff at .
When reaching out looking for a new romance, one that has been overlooked and taken foregranted, a remembered liason...something that stirs deep and makes one wish to acknowledge it, hold on tight to it....look for it...ain't the way society portrays or, perceives it.
This morning a very romantic soulful Sunday morning in Durban with the rains nourishing, a moody heaven, work, my ask for forgiveness and giving my thanks and then, at home, clicking into
Soulful Sundays,with Kenny maistry.
Men.
Most of those dedications from men mature.....
The silliness of those imagining, others being of age are not afforded romance more meaningful than that of a youngling chasing that which society proclaims is romance.
Two of the dedications that had me playing it louder than LOUD
To all....romance with confidence!
Happy blessed Sunday to ALL.
https://youtu.be/GB_KcE-lA5g?si=E3WPdv_q8CiZTkZq
https://youtu.be/qt_OkgSOrkU?si=RXko9pZthUlSdGLS
RB
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Re: ....romancing
Posted: 2023-10-01 13:55:11
Thou teach me the ways of romance when life is but a play
Thankyou RB...
Thankyou RB...
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Re: ....romancing
Posted: 2023-10-01 15:29:03
Aaah....
And thus
Nickey sexy, Blue
Oh! Sweet be the chase of a, skirt short.
A flirty willing lass bagging the best husband and daddy to her kids to be...
And he?....like the moth to the flame drawn
Lest that butterfly fly away.
To singe his wings in the Amare of younglings
And she....as perfect a wife, a mother...forgetting to be the companion.
Forgetting...that lass she was once upon a time for, the bagging was complete.
To lose him to fantastical love affairs and to curiosities of bodily pleasures.
That house on the hill.
That car or two...that aloneness...and loneliness.
Oh! How unfair the results of a chase society said was the way to go.
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." (A Midsummer Night's Dream)
Love be blind....or fooled be one in believing ....love is?
RB.
On 2023-10-01 13:55:11 Nickey Blue said:
Thou teach me the ways of romance when life is but a play
Thankyou RB...
Aaah....
And thus
Nickey sexy, Blue
Oh! Sweet be the chase of a, skirt short.
A flirty willing lass bagging the best husband and daddy to her kids to be...
And he?....like the moth to the flame drawn
Lest that butterfly fly away.
To singe his wings in the Amare of younglings
And she....as perfect a wife, a mother...forgetting to be the companion.
Forgetting...that lass she was once upon a time for, the bagging was complete.
To lose him to fantastical love affairs and to curiosities of bodily pleasures.
That house on the hill.
That car or two...that aloneness...and loneliness.
Oh! How unfair the results of a chase society said was the way to go.
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." (A Midsummer Night's Dream)
Love be blind....or fooled be one in believing ....love is?
RB.
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Re: ....romancing
Posted: 2023-10-01 23:35:14
Romancing comes in many guises through the years of life.
From the childhood or teenage infatuational and brief romance to the lifelong seeking, finding, nurturing and living soulmate that can never be lost or replaced.
Wc
From the childhood or teenage infatuational and brief romance to the lifelong seeking, finding, nurturing and living soulmate that can never be lost or replaced.
Wc
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Re: ....romancing
Posted: 2023-10-03 09:55:34
My most dear Wcliff.
I have written about the chase and need of a "sole" as opposed to "soul" companion.
That "chase" yielding all sorts of different results
And thus on your comment...
His youth targeting qualities close to his heart.
His youth chasing the unattainable to sow his wild oats while seeking that mother of his children among the bevy of lovelies he surrounded himself with.
His youth naive to the years to come.
His youth.... that wonderful journey toward knowledge and wisdom gained.
His chase.... for that soul mate, a foolishness he did not regret.
His soul mate fed his hunger and need to be the man he knew he was.
It nurtured that craving until that day she told him...at 53 years of age, she had found her soul mate....in another.
He slammed his fists into the wall...!!!!... and fell to his knees....
He wondered, how could he have been so blind.
He lost himself between the thighs of those who took his money and fucked with his loneliness .
Until.
Until.....
At 62....she walked into his life.
She coaxed him with her love of life.
She made him breathe more courageously and deeper.
He began to woo her....see her...he began to romance her.
At 62...he began to understand what a soul mate might mean.
RB.
I have written about the chase and need of a "sole" as opposed to "soul" companion.
That "chase" yielding all sorts of different results
And thus on your comment...
His youth targeting qualities close to his heart.
His youth chasing the unattainable to sow his wild oats while seeking that mother of his children among the bevy of lovelies he surrounded himself with.
His youth naive to the years to come.
His youth.... that wonderful journey toward knowledge and wisdom gained.
His chase.... for that soul mate, a foolishness he did not regret.
His soul mate fed his hunger and need to be the man he knew he was.
It nurtured that craving until that day she told him...at 53 years of age, she had found her soul mate....in another.
He slammed his fists into the wall...!!!!... and fell to his knees....
He wondered, how could he have been so blind.
He lost himself between the thighs of those who took his money and fucked with his loneliness .
Until.
Until.....
At 62....she walked into his life.
She coaxed him with her love of life.
She made him breathe more courageously and deeper.
He began to woo her....see her...he began to romance her.
At 62...he began to understand what a soul mate might mean.
RB.
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