Not all sps can not be trusted. I know a few who can be trusted 100%!!

That said, I've also made bad judgements and paid for it, but like all stats there will be a normal distribution. Some more trustworthy than the Pope and others will take your money, piss you off and then just walk away.

I'd suggest asking around before you pay, but don't assume the worst for all.
Problem is, not all punters can be trusted either so in certain circumstances I can see the reason for them insisting on payment.

Be careful but be realistic both ways.

Ps: to those who want to call me a simp for speaking logic, feel free. I've been called worse ;))

It is best to always pay in person, in cash.
It is not just to protect the punter but also to protect the lady. There are no misunderstandings this way and there is no audit trail for the guys who are doing the covert thing.

Agree major, but eg where a guy expects a lady to fly down, he can't expect to pay all in person only.
I've heard horror stories of ladies being yanked around

On 2023-11-04 20:16:44 Cunilinkiss said:
Agree major, but eg where a guy expects a lady to fly down, he can't expect to pay all in person only.
I've heard horror stories of ladies being yanked around

For sure! As you say, you can't expect to pay face to face if you are flying her down. You have to be fair and look out for her too.

Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith. And sometimes you will get burned. You can decide to never again take a chance, never to take that leap of faith again. But what kind of life is that, always taking the safe road.

Personally I have been burned multiple times, so I am a bit careful. The thing is, each time you get burned you get some insight into the error of judgement. The signs are usually there, if one is humble enough to reflect on them.

But avoid taking unnecessary risks whenever possible, like pre-paying when you really don't have to.

Anyway, enough of my red wine induced philosophies for the evening.

Your wine serves you well.
Solid logic there

I will learn from this error in judgment and move on from it.

Dear readers:

Always a good day when one decides to take a day for one self just to be informed that this is happening on the forum.

But since Mr John decided he wants to start this thread, let's quickly end it shall we.

It is true that I'm not refunding said punter.

It is also true that the same punter on a previous trip offered to help but with the condition that he wants Bareback. In his words: Bareback or nothing. I then proceeded to block him. He then tried his luck on my social. This time round... I get a booking from a new contact, and accept an advance payment. I honor the booking, even leave the door unlocked as I usually do. Guess who walks through my door. Same guy. I asked him in what world did he think I was going to see him, and that him showing up without informing me it's him, was okay? He informs me I should've asked him who he was because he did admit to seeing Me before. Lols. He offered to leave which I respected. But then I got messages demanding that I better pay him back and I have 24 hours. I made the decision to not refund him, and this is my reasons, in laymans terms:

1. I don't offer bareback.
2. I don't entertain people that requests bareback.
3. I was purposely deceived by said punter using a different number.
4. Said punter came into my space made me feel unsafe, and had the audacity to be arrogant enough to shift the blame on me because I wasn't aware of his true identity.
5. Then he harrased me via watsapp demanding that I BETTER pay him back in 24 hours.

I'm gonna leave it at that.

Please be aware that I have everything backed up on my phone if anyone wants proof of the above.

Anyone that knows me, know this is not in my character, and addressing this is so far below my morals and standards. But it had to be done.

Have an incredible Sunday.
Kisses
Ang

Always 2 sides to a story.
Sorry buddy you made your bed...

I know this is about non refund

BUT


You leave your door unlocked????


WTF?????


Are you crazy girl????


In these times????

Seriously.

Damn.


Stupid stupid practice even if it is to set a mood or something.

Don't do it. Change your modus operandi. One bad incident is, one bad incident too much.

And that goes to ALL SP's taking silly chances like this.

In this case things could have been much worse if a violent dickhead had walked in and man handled you or raped you, considering.

Thank the Almighty above it ended as amicably as it ended and this thread is about a non refund.



RB.

If he insisted on bareback and you didnt give it to him, then surely he tried his luck and didn't succeed, how does this warrant you keeping his money ?