On 2023-11-15 13:45:55 Josephine said:
Anthony, I know this lady, and I have always found her to be very friendly and very good in what she does.

I do not want to justify the way she handled the communication, but sometimes we do misunderstand each other on Whatsapp.

She is really a lovely person. And so are you, try and call her and talk to her.

I have sent you a DM. I am still trying to figure out in what way was I that offensive towards her to have gotten such a response

xoxo
AE

@Josephine, I will not be initiating contact with her. Especially after her response. It also appears as though she might have blocked me.

I have not blocked her. If she feels like she wants to make amends, then the ball lies in her court. It will be her loss not mine if she doesn't.

I have left a comment of my experience to attempt to make an appointment on her profile. If she makes amends, so will I.

I will simply just move on to find someone else.

Warmest regards
xoxo
AE

Honestly we deal with so many people on a day to day basis.

Judging by here reviews gents seem to have a different opinion to yours. It is possible that she saved your number if you have previously offended her, made a appointment and not pitch or cancel last minute or enquire on more than one occasions over months/years as there are those who do that. Perhaps she saved your number if there were previous issues or perhaps she just misunderstood your message. Whatever the reason it's always better to make a voice then to text as the message can be misread or miss understood.

I too have told people to Fuck off on occasion because of the above stated.

Intact yesterday I told a guy to get lost because he messaged me and before I could great him he was telling me how much he is going to pay me with a long list of demands not even asking if I offered it or knowing my fees structure or services.

I am not saying that you did any of the above bit just perhaps shedding some light on just a few possible reasons as to why this could have happened.

We are not all perfect if we were non of us would be here. Further more you could have just caught her after a unpleasant experience or on a bad day we all have those and sometimes just the small step in the wrong direction and mountain can be made of a mole hill no excuse at all but we are women and we are emotional beings who do sometimes go through PMS and just the smallest thing can trigger a reaction and if there is one lady who can say she has never lost her cool in her life that is a lie even you as a man has done so in the past.

Perhaps call her or perhaps she can tell her side of the story.

Though I do know that you are one of the very few here who behaves like a real gent so it was probably a miscommunication.

On 2023-11-15 15:54:28 Arhwen said:
Honestly we deal with so many people on a day to day basis.

Judging by here reviews gents seem to have a different opinion to yours. It is possible that she saved your number if you have previously offended her, made a appointment and not pitch or cancel last minute or enquire on more than one occasions over months/years as there are those who do that. Perhaps she saved your number if there were previous issues or perhaps she just misunderstood your message. Whatever the reason it's always better to make a voice then to text as the message can be misread or miss understood.

I too have told people to Fuck off on occasion because of the above stated.

Intact yesterday I told a guy to get lost because he messaged me and before I could great him he was telling me how much he is going to pay me with a long list of demands not even asking if I offered it or knowing my fees structure or services.

I am not saying that you did any of the above bit just perhaps shedding some light on just a few possible reasons as to why this could have happened.

We are not all perfect if we were non of us would be here. Further more you could have just caught her after a unpleasant experience or on a bad day we all have those and sometimes just the small step in the wrong direction and mountain can be made of a mole hill no excuse at all but we are women and we are emotional beings who do sometimes go through PMS and just the smallest thing can trigger a reaction and if there is one lady who can say she has never lost her cool in her life that is a lie even you as a man has done so in the past.

Perhaps call her or perhaps she can tell her side of the story.

Though I do know that you are one of the very few here who behaves like a real gent so it was probably a miscommunication.

@Arwhen, I totally get your point and understand where you are coming from.

This was my first communication I have ever had with her in my life. I have not even responded to her on the forum until today, with my comment on her profile.

I have shared with you via DM my message to her. If in any way I have said or done anything wrong please let me know so that I can make amends. You are right, nobody is perfect. After all we are all human.

Warmest regards

xoxo
AE

@AE there is no justification for that.

Perhaps it was a jealous BF who got hold of her phone or she had a bad case of PMS.

Either way I am sorry you had to experience that.

Depends if it's a regular or a lady u tried first time. Also if u spoke properly or asked appropriate question or questions. Calling on behalf of a friend unless he a newbie or someone u trust if their such a thing another story. Why wouldn't the friend call himself unless he totally shy but it can also be setting u up for being crapped out because the wg he asked u call wouldn't wanna see him if if he gave her 100k upwards or did something or spoke to her crappy. Had this numerous times with so called buddies or so called shy people teach them to call themselves ulle help with words.

@arwhen he's one of the very few you say ?

Yes Q that's exactly what I said. Why are you wondering if you made Santa's naughty or nice list???

On 2023-11-15 18:30:41 kingkk said:
Depends if it's a regular or a lady u tried first time. Also if u spoke properly or asked appropriate question or questions. Calling on behalf of a friend unless he a newbie or someone u trust if their such a thing another story. Why wouldn't the friend call himself unless he totally shy but it can also be setting u up for being crapped out because the wg he asked u call wouldn't wanna see him if if he gave her 100k upwards or did something or spoke to her crappy. Had this numerous times with so called buddies or so called shy people teach them to call themselves ulle help with words.

It was first contact ever. No mention of the friend at all to her yet. I purely just greeted and asked for the rates, politely as can be confirmed by the other ladies in this thread.

That conversation would have come up later. The friend is arriving from Barcelona. Never been to SA, therefore not able to contact her directly because the english is also not so good. In fact I am glad that I reached out instead of the friend.

AE, any chance you have a newish number that could have been recycled? Maybe she had the number saved of a punter or ex that previously had that number.. or perhaps it came up looking like someone she doesn't cater for..