Many SPs join the industry for many different reasons, but often circumstance gives the push.

So with that in mind, how do you SPs view punters who you see in general? I'm talking about the average punter who (I hope) calls in, fulfills the booking, pays the rate, gets the service requested and both parties get what they want.

Is it the average punting experience with seen as a positive or negative thing? Or more likely something more complex that needs more explanation?

I've been really curious to any lady who is willing to say.

To any punters, requesting that there be no judgement or toxicity on this one.

Double post

Punters have patterns...

Average is safe Complex is good if you have great people's skills


Respect, professionalism, vulnerability, safety loyalty, trust is the energy wave that flows in my business and punters that walk a road with me

If you waver from your pattern you go down the rabbit hole not me...

Mind fuck yourself experience and cash always will be King... and Queen...



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On 2023-12-07 15:37:58 DickRich2 said:
Many SPs join the industry for many different reasons, but often circumstance gives the push.

So with that in mind, how do you SPs view punters who you see in general? I'm talking about the average punter who (I hope) calls in, fulfills the booking, pays the rate, gets the service requested and both parties get what they want.

Is it the average punting experience with seen as a positive or negative thing? Or more likely something more complex that needs more explanation?

I've been really curious to any lady who is willing to say.

To any punters, requesting that there be no judgement or toxicity on this one.

We judge at the blink of an eye on a subconscious level so the moment you step into her space, you are already summed up.

Therefore should you not tick her box then you are just another poes.

However should you tick her box, then you can bet that you are about to get a free fuck and many more figuratively speaking.

Those are the true feelings of an SP in a nutshell.

You are nothing more than an ATM, everything else is just an act.

This is work for them not leisure no matter how whom so ever suger candy coates it.

They have to deal with disgust the whole day every day so just imagine how they feel.

On 2023-12-07 16:03:33 Nickey Blue said:

Punters have patterns...

Average is safe Complex is good if you have great people's skills


Respect, professionalism, vulnerability, safety loyalty, trust is the energy wave that flows in my business and punters that walk a road with me

If you waver from your pattern you go down the rabbit hole not me...

Mind fuck yourself experience and cash always will be King... and Queen...

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Deep shit. So ultimately it's about the money but trust is a key component in the experience is what I'm understanding. Your feelings then seem generally positive so long as these factors are present.

On 2023-12-07 16:41:19 UltraSuperFuck said:
We judge at the blink of an eye on a subconscious level so the moment you step into her space, you are already summed up.

Therefore should you not tick her box then you are just another poes.

However should you tick her box, then you can bet that you are about to get a free fuck and many more figuratively speaking.

Those are the true feelings of an SP in a nutshell.

You are nothing more then an ATM, everything else is just an act.

This is work for them not leisure no matter how whom so ever suger candy coates it.

They have to deal with disgust the whole day every day so just imagine how they feel.

Definitely never fool myself into thinking that it is more than a transaction. Lots of misunderstandings tend to flow from there.

The feelings behind the matter I guess I'm curious about but I get what you mean. Hoping to hear from more ladies for more colour on this topic as well.

[double post].

Lol i wouldn't say I'm ever spending my day 'disgusted' as USF puts it. But, in the spirit of "not sugar candy coating it", as he says... Honestly, just like your admin clerk is numb to paperwork, a lot of the (especially short) bookings go by and arent memorable. Sometimes i could genuinely feel like I haven't been laid in a while because some Bookings feel exactly like that; physical labour, as opposed to sex.

Now, those kinds of bookings are common, but do not make up the bulk of my dates; most of the men i see are regulars and with regulars, it feels quite different. With each booking you learn to know the person better.. what makes them 'tick', what turns them on.. time is spent laughing and flirting and teasing. Before the date, extra time is spent getting ready for them, wearing lingerie they like, painting my toes their favourite colour...

For me it's either a really great date, and immediately after I'm thinking about what I'll do next time i see him.. or alternatively, it's uneventful, and i just wanna roll myself a joint + click that 'available now' button so hopefully the next one goes better

Everything in life is transactional - because I believe in energy exchange.

Let's say you didn't "pay" for sex, but you had to earn someone's affection through getting to know one another and to see if you are compatible or not - it is still a transaction and an energy exchange.

How many people casually hook up just for the sex and there is nothing more to it - even that is an exchange.

So let me answer for myself, how do I feel about punters?

It depends which punter we are talking about.

I have these adorable nerds who talk to me about gaming and boards games, as well as a whole lot of stuff that I don't always understand. I am not a gamer, but I see the passion and the glisten in their eyes, for whatever reason I am instantly turned on because they feel safe to speak to me about something that means a lot to them and their passion about suddenly makes them ten times more attractive.

Then I have my oldies, who I often feel are far younger than I am - men in their 60s and 70s have a spring in their step. They care less about what people think and they share a lot of insight - they have this hunger and thirst for life and adventure. They are more often than not, far more respectful and open minded. They have passion, respect and wisdom that they share - not only do they lubricate my brain with their knowledge, but everything else suddenly becomes wet too.

My gym bunnies always surprise, because this can be a hit or miss - either he books you so he can make love to himself or he books you and surprises you with how humble and warm he is. How sensitive and kind he is. How vulnerable and open he is and how he genuinely is interested in you and what you have to say.

Accountants are more often than not WILD! Their jobs are obviously so stressful, so serious and a lot of pressure - that as soon as they are in a session it's a box of smarties. You just don't know what you're going to get but its always fun.

My point is people are all different and what we see is not always the case.

I feel that as someone in this industry, I've learned to appreciate people more for who they are and hold more compassion, I have a genuine interest in people and as someone who is stimulated by energy, when you're real and authentic, have respect for yourself and others - you're going to get a session that I WANT to do.

Like I said everything in life is ALWAYS an energy exchange.

Very deep questions and statements in a very hallowed out industry